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At the risk of sliding off topic, in a rare bipartisan vote the Texas Senate voted unanimously (31-0, I think) to clarify the permissible medical exceptions for life-threatening complications. That was the end of April. Need to look to see whether or not the House followed suit. Not what most Texas women want but a step forward.This is true. That's why my husband and I have DNRs, specific to various situations. Or it's part of why.
The other reason is, people ARE emotional. My mom had an aneurysm when she was only 50. So young. Her EEGs showed no conscious brain activity. I wanted so badly for them to keep her alive. I wanted her no matter how compromised should she ever wake up, and I was ready to move to her city and feed and change and aspirate her for decades if that's what it took.
My stepfather, though, knew she wouldn't want to live like that. As her immediate next of kin above her children he was legally able to make the decision, this wasn't Texas or another state where it could more easily have turned into a Schiavo case.
Now OTOH my sister and I knew what my FIL said was true and we all discussed it rationally and hugged and she was taken off life support about 24 hours after the anyeurism. I do feel in this TX case since she is incompetent the family should be able to make the decision but that's how *I feel,* not.TX law.
Does it suck, yes, obviously. But this is what.voters want. God forbid -- and I mean that -- that a situation similar to this arose for them, they'll be pumped and sucked and brought back from cardiac events or further brain bleeds or kidney failure over and over again. That's why voting is important, and so is thinking, but none of this is up to me.
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Now. I do know if I were told I my brain was dying and I was going to go into a coma and asked if I wanted to be kept physically alive so my child could go to term, I would have sad yes...if it were happening today. In my exact family situation. With my husband able to take care of the baby. Etc. Etc. Again...choice does NOT mean "abortion!!!!!! Now!" Choice...is...choice. Why is it so hard for conservatives to understand that?
And Dems and many Independents and many Republicans don't just fight for our own choice. We fight for it for others bc situations like this can and do happen.
But TX has its own rules so what can I say...they live with those consequences...no matter what form that "living" entails.
Thank you for the insightful personal post! I have health issues which make every day above ground a good day. Most better than others. To ease the burden of decision making on my wife and family I have a DNR written and filed, and I've made my preference widely known both to my family and to my doctors. If possible, I believe everyone ought to do something the same.