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  • Yes, we did! The effort was worth it all! The three of us are going to quarantine here in Cassie's room (for now). We're staying away from her parents until further notice, and that includes Brock.
    Thanks dude; that means a whole lot. I'll be fine. I've been through too much crap in my life to let some stupid virus take me out. :cool:
    Even if it comes out negative, there's a high rate of false-negative tests, so I'm gonna quarantine regardless.
    I'm the only one that's feeling weird, but if I do have it, both of them have it (or I got it from them). I'm not freaking out about myself, though. I am admittedly worried (since I've been around both Cassie's parents and mine, so they have to go get tested too), but I'll be okay.
    Hey buddy. This kinda sucks, but I'm gonna have to go get tested for COVID-19 (all of us are). I haven't been feeling horrible or anything, but now for some reason I'm feeling warm. Not too much where I'm sweating or anything, but enough that it feels odd that I feel this way. I also have this mucus in the back of my throat, but it's not making me cough or anything, it's just hanging back there. So I'm not in a bad way, or anything like that, at least for now. I still don't know if I have it for real, but we'll have to see. Like I said, I feel perfectly fine, it's just that I'm warm.

    I hope it's not COVID, but I'm assuming that I do have it. :(
    Yeah, that's super intense. The most my roommates do is laugh like imbeciles, or play Monopoly or what a movie, or I'm stuck trying to wrestle my roommate drunk (and losing, most of the time).
    Besides when I got into a physical fight with my old freshman roommate (and got bruises from it; we made up, though), I've struck out good with roommates. None of us would ever pull that gross ****.
    Oh ****, I REMEMBER when this girl on reddit said that her boyfriend VOMITED on her bed, and not only did they sleep in her roommates bed instead, but she didn't clean the bedsheets for a whole week until the roommate got back. Like, what a GROSS piece of garbage.
    I can let it fester, but I never get to like, slob territory. When it gets too much for me, it pissed me off to look at, and my mind won't stop thinking about it, so I break and clean it all up.
    My mom straight up finds still in my room to say that it's not clean. I'm glad she doesn't inspect my room anymore.

    Thankfully, Cassie and I keep things relatively clean, but we can be lazy at times.
    Basically, a worldview/standards that promote the dynamic of heterosexual relationships. It can be intentional, or unconscious, as it's super ingrained into society.
    I also really hate the "Who's the woman?" thing. I love my frat guy friends, but a few of them did that when I told them that I was gay, and I (nicely) explained that it's a rude thing to say. Nice dudes though, and I love partying with them.
    I think that's a part of why people try to put hetero-normative traits on gay relationships. Same-sex relationships are much less likely to have gender specific roles, so there's a lot more "fluidity", if that makes any sense. So that's why when they say stuff like, "Who's the man?" or "Who's the top/bottom?" or whatever variations of the same question, it's like looking for a traditional hetero dynamic in a non-traditional relationship. Speaking towards my example, Cassie and I are equal partners. I don't expect or demand anything from her, and neither does she with me. I have no idea why the top/bottom dynamic is an indication on how relationship dynamics are, but that's not the case at all. I'm I guess a "bottom" (I don't like using that word), but it's not like I'm not on the same playing field as Cassie.

    It's an interesting convo.
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