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Recent content by Herkamer63

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    Dating Single Moms....

    Don't know where everyone's at on this, but when it comes to single mothers, in general, just be careful. A lot of guys would say "no never date them or start a relationship", which I understand with good reason. A lot of single mothers are very difficult to deal with. Nowadays, they have...
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    DOJ seizes more classified docs from Biden's Wilmington home after 12-hour search

    For those hoping Biden should be removed and put in jail, it won't happen. Do I believe he should if he indeed do the dirty dee? Absolutely. Justice needs to be served, and I personally believe he did, but I'll wait and see what the evidence says otherwise. This is besides the point. All of this...
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    Why ballroom dancing is one of the best ways to meet people

    It's been nearly a year since I started taking private ballroom dance lessons, and, wow, what a ride! Great exercise, increase in work habits, you can take it anywhere, and it's a PHENOMENAL confidence booster. Most importantly, I've made new friends and got my life back. As a single man, it's...
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    The struggle of being single

    Poor choice of words on my end, I guess. I do have an update on this situation with the grandma. I'll have another thread going here in a moment.
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    The struggle of being single

    Fair enough ;)
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    The struggle of being single

    @Superfly I hope you know where I'm coming from. Do I like this woman? I do, but would it right for me, given the circumstances? To be honest, I don't know. And I don't know if she truly does like me or not, in a romantic way. Part of the reason why staying just friends, right now, and keeping...
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    The struggle of being single

    Call it venting with a piece of advice. I really thought one of friends or my cousin would be interested. My two friends (twins) are 44 y/o while my cousin is 54. Jody is 43 y/o, not only a single mother but also a grandmother. Her first kid she had when she was 18 and had two more with her...
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    The struggle of being single

    It's always been a struggle for me to get into a relationship, let alone one that would last a long time. One issue was my weight. I was 330 pounds, Now, I weigh around 185 pounds. The other issue I had was what I looked like. Now, I'm much more fashionable and groom myself far better than...
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    How to say "she's not interested in you" to a cousin I have

    Right, and I've been trying to go with him to do more stuff and meet new people, in addition to going whenever I'm available to watch this woman that he like's perform. Just getting him to have a buddy helps because more people do approach our table. Now, I don't go over the top or anything, but...
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    How to say "she's not interested in you" to a cousin I have

    It's fair to say that he's not willing to go out of his way and have some fun because he just wants to sit there and analyze what she's saying. He can analyze all he wants, but if he's not actually taking some initiative and doing something, it's pointless. I don't know if she had actually...
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    Why to move on from someone who has not moved on from an old ex

    Yeah, and I was an idiot for not picking up on them sooner. Would have saved me stress and time if I called it off sooner. Oh well. Lesson learned, and you're correct that you can't fix people. If those people want to improve their lives, they need to do it on their own. I'm just glad I don't...
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    Why to move on from someone who has not moved on from an old ex

    I had thought about this for awhile from the "Relationship dealbreaker" thread on here, and I remember my answer was if the person had not got over an ex of some sorts, then move on from them. I figured I'd give a better answer on this thread because people that are dating might have found...
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    How to say "she's not interested in you" to a cousin I have

    That's fair, but given the circumstances, I've gone through almost the same experience as my cousin is going through right now. Call me a cynic, but one woman that I was interested in, I asked her out for a coffee and she gave me the "I don't know" answer. One week later, while I was working...
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    How to say "she's not interested in you" to a cousin I have

    Nope. I have no interest. I've ran into these kind of women before and tried to gain their favor, but it only ended in disappointment for me. So no thanks.
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    How to say "she's not interested in you" to a cousin I have

    One last thing, John, and many other guys in the world today, has gone through what I had gone through in the past. I had gone through periods where it was more flirting and leading on from these kind of women. Long story short, it was all flattering but never anything real because, in the end...
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