Perhaps a source you'd respect:
You are quite correct, however Machiavelli was specifically discussing a situation in which you are pressured by a superior force to yeild some resource being contested.
will seek to extort further concessions
But if, as soon as you become aware of your adversary’s intentions, you prepare to use force, even though your forces be inferior to his, he will begin to respect you
Machiavelli is quite correct that when faced with demands by a superior force, it is better to put on a show of defiance and assume airs of confidence than to meekly give in to their demands.
In this case however, we are not faced with a superior force. In direct confrontation, we always come out on top. Thus we should seek to place ourselves in a position where we must be confronted directly.
As the superior force, we have no need for pretension. We have the stronger military force, and they know we have the stronger military force, our allies all know we have the stronger military force. We don't need to put on a show of standing up.
This text has more application to our Enemies, who are in fact standing up against our superior military force, rather than yielding to our demands that they play nicely together.
It is worth noting that Machiavelli is once again correct, in that their Allies see their defiance of us and respect them more for it, and take up arms where they otherwise would not have.
By maintaining our presence, we allow them to continue this David vs. Goliath display of bravado, and they will continue to gain support.
Furthermore, our allies are not seeing our brave display of standing up against the mighty Islamic military and coming to our aid. On the contrary, most of our allies do not support the war, and even advised us against it prior to our confrontation. So we do not need to be concerned that our Allies will see our withdrawal as a weakness and withdraw their (nonexistant) support.
Further, Christianity does not have a unified world view like Islam does. Nation states are a decidedly western concept in this area. Islam is Islam, nation states are just lines on a map in the concept. All fall under the nation of Islam which they believe should rightfully ruled over by a single Caliph.
And in that my analogy is flawed. However, my point was that extremist activism is related to a person's situation and environment.
The Catholics and Protestants in Ireland are happy to kill each other over their religious differences.
The Caltholics and Protestants who live on my street go Christmas caroling together.
I don't think the the Islamic guy who cuts my hair is going to take up arms against America.
I assume no radical islamic sect wants us there but they don't make up a significant portion of the population. Most people want to live in a safe and logical society.
Exactly. None of the radical sects want us to be there, so they will have no reason to object to us leaving. The people who want to live in a safe and logical society are not going to attack America, because there is no reason to believe that attacking America will make their lives any more safe or logical.
So who is going to hate us for leaving enough to attack us? The radical Islamic sects that want us to leave, or the people who want to live in a safe and logical society?
That failure and subsequent suffering will be our fault because we A.) came in and destroyed their government, and B.) left before re-establishing their ability to administrate the needs of the state.
This is the same reasoning that 9/11 apologists use to say that 9/11 was our fault.
Lets be clear here. If we leave, we will not be causing any suffering. The blame lies squarely on the shoulders of those who are actually causing the suffering, namely the radical Islamic forces. I think those who value a safe and logical society will bear more ill will toward the extremests who are actually causing suffering than they will toward American for not staying in Iraq indefinitely.
That said, I don't think we need to pack up and leave tommorow morning. We need to shift responsibility to the Iraqi governement. We should set a date for our departure, and tell them that we will continue to help them until then.
When they see that we are serious about leaving, the people who want to live in a safe and logical society will get to work on making sure that they are ready to deal with insurgency.
If we give them every impression that we will continue to pay for their well being out of our own pocket, they will have every reason to put off being self sufficient for as long as they can get American taxpayers to foot the bill.
We would not be turning our back on the enemy by saying that we are going home, and then doing so. It would not give the enemy any tactical advantage over US troops to know that they will be gone by a certain date. There is no reason not to set a timeline for withdrawal.