Why conservative men are more likely to fantasize about sharing their wives

[JacksinPA]

https://www.washingtonpost.com/outlook/2020/08/27/falwell-conservative-cuckold-fantasies/

It may, paradoxically, be precisely because they believe cuckoldry is so bad.

In the wake of allegations that he spent years watching his wife have sex with another man, Jerry Falwell Jr. resigned this week from his post as president of Liberty University. Falwell has denied the specifics of those allegations, but if they’re true, he would be neither the first nor the last conservative man to take pleasure in sharing his spouse or partner while he looks on, a sexual practice known more commonly as “cuckolding.” In fact, a disproportionate percentage fantasize about just that happening to them.

They’re not alone, of course. Cuckolding routinely ranks among the top searches on the world’s biggest porn sites, as reported by neuroscientists Ogi Ogas and Sai Gaddam in their book “A Billion Wicked Thoughts,” for which they analyzed the contents of hundreds of millions of Internet searches. But as my own research has shown, reports of that sexual fantasy exhibit a surprising ideological pattern. For my book “Tell Me What You Want,” I studied the sexual fantasies of 4,175 Americans from all 50 states. I asked my participants to report how often they fantasized about hundreds of different people, places and things — including cuckolding.

A majority of heterosexual men (52 percent) said they had fantasized about watching their partner have sex with someone else. Heterosexual men who identified as Republican were the most likely to report having had a cuckolding fantasy at some point — and they fantasized about it more often than Democrats. Fewer than half of Democratic straight men (49 percent) reported having ever fantasized about cuckolding, and 19 percent said they fantasize about it often. By contrast, nearly two-thirds (64 percent) of heterosexual Republican men reported having had this fantasy, and 30 percent said it is a frequent fantasy. Republican men also reported more fantasies about infidelity, swinging and a wide range of sexually taboo activities, including voyeurism.
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The problem with cuckolding is that it can also destroy marriages if it gets out of control.

 

[CLAX1911]

https://www.washingtonpost.com/outlook/2020/08/27/falwell-conservative-cuckold-fantasies/

It may, paradoxically, be precisely because they believe cuckoldry is so bad.

In the wake of allegations that he spent years watching his wife have sex with another man, Jerry Falwell Jr. resigned this week from his post as president of Liberty University. Falwell has denied the specifics of those allegations, but if they’re true, he would be neither the first nor the last conservative man to take pleasure in sharing his spouse or partner while he looks on, a sexual practice known more commonly as “cuckolding.” In fact, a disproportionate percentage fantasize about just that happening to them.

They’re not alone, of course. Cuckolding routinely ranks among the top searches on the world’s biggest porn sites, as reported by neuroscientists Ogi Ogas and Sai Gaddam in their book “A Billion Wicked Thoughts,” for which they analyzed the contents of hundreds of millions of Internet searches. But as my own research has shown, reports of that sexual fantasy exhibit a surprising ideological pattern. For my book “Tell Me What You Want,” I studied the sexual fantasies of 4,175 Americans from all 50 states. I asked my participants to report how often they fantasized about hundreds of different people, places and things — including cuckolding.

A majority of heterosexual men (52 percent) said they had fantasized about watching their partner have sex with someone else. Heterosexual men who identified as Republican were the most likely to report having had a cuckolding fantasy at some point — and they fantasized about it more often than Democrats. Fewer than half of Democratic straight men (49 percent) reported having ever fantasized about cuckolding, and 19 percent said they fantasize about it often. By contrast, nearly two-thirds (64 percent) of heterosexual Republican men reported having had this fantasy, and 30 percent said it is a frequent fantasy. Republican men also reported more fantasies about infidelity, swinging and a wide range of sexually taboo activities, including voyeurism.
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The problem with cuckolding is that it can also destroy marriages if it gets out of control.

I do not care about people's sexual proclivities as long as they aren't molesting children or sexually assaulting people.

 

[JacksinPA]

I do not care about people's sexual proclivities as long as they aren't molesting children or sexually assaulting people.

Falwell is more an example of the ultimate holy-roller hypocrite.

 

[CLAX1911]

Falwell is more an example of the ultimate holy-roller hypocrite.

And do you think he represents a typical conservative?

 

[JacksinPA]

And do you think he represents a typical conservative?

I don't know the man but he is an avowed fundamentalist Christian, which makes his cuckolding his wife while he gets drunk hypocritical to the extreme. And Liberty U is a huge money making enterprise. They own a nearby airport & make a killing on the avgas fuel business there. I would not call him a liberal.

 

[calamity]

https://www.washingtonpost.com/outlook/2020/08/27/falwell-conservative-cuckold-fantasies/

It may, paradoxically, be precisely because they believe cuckoldry is so bad.

In the wake of allegations that he spent years watching his wife have sex with another man, Jerry Falwell Jr. resigned this week from his post as president of Liberty University. Falwell has denied the specifics of those allegations, but if they’re true, he would be neither the first nor the last conservative man to take pleasure in sharing his spouse or partner while he looks on, a sexual practice known more commonly as “cuckolding.” In fact, a disproportionate percentage fantasize about just that happening to them.

They’re not alone, of course. Cuckolding routinely ranks among the top searches on the world’s biggest porn sites, as reported by neuroscientists Ogi Ogas and Sai Gaddam in their book “A Billion Wicked Thoughts,” for which they analyzed the contents of hundreds of millions of Internet searches. But as my own research has shown, reports of that sexual fantasy exhibit a surprising ideological pattern. For my book “Tell Me What You Want,” I studied the sexual fantasies of 4,175 Americans from all 50 states. I asked my participants to report how often they fantasized about hundreds of different people, places and things — including cuckolding.

A majority of heterosexual men (52 percent) said they had fantasized about watching their partner have sex with someone else. Heterosexual men who identified as Republican were the most likely to report having had a cuckolding fantasy at some point — and they fantasized about it more often than Democrats. Fewer than half of Democratic straight men (49 percent) reported having ever fantasized about cuckolding, and 19 percent said they fantasize about it often. By contrast, nearly two-thirds (64 percent) of heterosexual Republican men reported having had this fantasy, and 30 percent said it is a frequent fantasy. Republican men also reported more fantasies about infidelity, swinging and a wide range of sexually taboo activities, including voyeurism.
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The problem with cuckolding is that it can also destroy marriages if it gets out of control.

I suspect it has much to do with their...uh, shortcomings. They probably dream of seeing their wives getting hit by a bigger member.

 

[JacksinPA]

I suspect it has much to do with their...uh, shortcomings. They probably dream of seeing their wives getting hit by a bigger member.

I would also guess that he got a thrill by hearing the noises they made as they coupled.

 

[RAMOSS]

Falwell is more an example of the ultimate holy-roller hypocrite.

I think it is caused by sexual repression. When you are given sexual restrictions, the suppression, and then release of the suppression comes out in non-traditional ways. It's because right now, in the U.S. we are both oversexualized and sexually repressed at the same time, and that contradiction causes issues. Just like the Victorians were very prudish in public, but had a very very steamy underside to the society.

 

[JacksinPA]

I think it is caused by sexual repression. When you are given sexual restrictions, the suppression, and then release of the suppression comes out in non-traditional ways. It's because right now, in the U.S. we are both oversexualized and sexually repressed at the same time, and that contradiction causes issues. Just like the Victorians were very prudish in public, but had a very very steamy underside to the society.

I blame the Puritans. It's been all down hill since they landed at Plymouth Rock.

 

[CLAX1911]

I don't know the man but he is an avowed fundamentalist Christian, which makes his cuckolding his wife while he gets drunk hypocritical to the extreme. And Liberty U is a huge money making enterprise. They own a nearby airport & make a killing on the avgas fuel business there. I would not call him a liberal.

None of this really answered my question. Are you just wanting to rant about falwell if so I couldn't possibly care less.

 

[CaughtInThe]

 

[Checkerboard Strangler]

A majority of heterosexual men (52 percent) said they had fantasized about watching their partner have sex with someone else.

I've heard this before but I guess I will never understand it.
I couldn't even get used to the idea of group sex.
In my youth I was invited to try it on several occasions and after one or two attempts I realized it just was something I was not cut out for no matter how aroused I was.
Now to go a step further and know that I'm plowing someone else's girl with them watching, impossible.
And I can't imagine being the one watching either.
Now that I got all the wild oats thing out of my system and have settled into comfortable sweet monogamy with someone so special, I just can't even wrap my mind around the notion of farming them out to some other guy so I can feel humiliated.
I'd feel humiliated enough already if she just acted like she had the warmies in the bar.

Now, distinctions must be made.
It doesn't bother me if she flirts a little, everyone does a little harmless flirting for fun.
I'm talking about where it looks and sounds real, as in "real serious".
That's more than enough humiliation for me, thanks.

It just doesn't make any sense to me.

 

[lurchadams]

https://www.washingtonpost.com/outlook/2020/08/27/falwell-conservative-cuckold-fantasies/

It may, paradoxically, be precisely because they believe cuckoldry is so bad.

In the wake of allegations that he spent years watching his wife have sex with another man, Jerry Falwell Jr. resigned this week from his post as president of Liberty University. Falwell has denied the specifics of those allegations, but if they’re true, he would be neither the first nor the last conservative man to take pleasure in sharing his spouse or partner while he looks on, a sexual practice known more commonly as “cuckolding.” In fact, a disproportionate percentage fantasize about just that happening to them.

They’re not alone, of course. Cuckolding routinely ranks among the top searches on the world’s biggest porn sites, as reported by neuroscientists Ogi Ogas and Sai Gaddam in their book “A Billion Wicked Thoughts,” for which they analyzed the contents of hundreds of millions of Internet searches. But as my own research has shown, reports of that sexual fantasy exhibit a surprising ideological pattern. For my book “Tell Me What You Want,” I studied the sexual fantasies of 4,175 Americans from all 50 states. I asked my participants to report how often they fantasized about hundreds of different people, places and things — including cuckolding.

A majority of heterosexual men (52 percent) said they had fantasized about watching their partner have sex with someone else. Heterosexual men who identified as Republican were the most likely to report having had a cuckolding fantasy at some point — and they fantasized about it more often than Democrats. Fewer than half of Democratic straight men (49 percent) reported having ever fantasized about cuckolding, and 19 percent said they fantasize about it often. By contrast, nearly two-thirds (64 percent) of heterosexual Republican men reported having had this fantasy, and 30 percent said it is a frequent fantasy. Republican men also reported more fantasies about infidelity, swinging and a wide range of sexually taboo activities, including voyeurism.
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The problem with cuckolding is that it can also destroy marriages if it gets out of control.

Anything can destroy a marriage if it "gets out of control".

 

[pocket aces]

I've heard this before but I guess I will never understand it.
I couldn't even get used to the idea of group sex.
In my youth I was invited to try it on several occasions and after one or two attempts I realized it just was something I was not cut out for no matter how aroused I was.
Now to go a step further and know that I'm plowing someone else's girl with them watching, impossible.
And I can't imagine being the one watching either.
Now that I got all the wild oats thing out of my system and have settled into comfortable sweet monogamy with someone so special, I just can't even wrap my mind around the notion of farming them out to some other guy so I can feel humiliated.
I'd feel humiliated enough already if she just acted like she had the warmies in the bar.

Now, distinctions must be made.
It doesn't bother me if she flirts a little, everyone does a little harmless flirting for fun.
I'm talking about where it looks and sounds real, as in "real serious".
That's more than enough humiliation for me, thanks.

It just doesn't make any sense to me.

Just because someone recognizes their marriage as non monogamous doesn't mean it has anything to do with humiliation That may have been Falwells's kink, but it shouldn't be assumed.

 

[Checkerboard Strangler]

Just because someone recognizes their marriage as non monogamous doesn't mean it has anything to do with humiliation That may have been Falwells's kink, but it shouldn't be assumed.

When it comes to the wealthy powerful conservative set, yes it can be safely assumed.
I am sure there are exceptions even then but not very many.
Besides, we aren't just talking about hall passes, this is about cuckolding.

 

[pocket aces]

When it comes to the wealthy powerful conservative set, yes it can be safely assumed.
I am sure there are exceptions even then but not very many.
Besides, we aren't just talking about hall passes, this is about cuckolding.

I do find it amusing though when someone who would surely call my wife and I's lifestyle choice a sin getting caught doing stuff like this.

 

[Court Jester]

A majority of heterosexual men (52 percent) said they had fantasized about watching their partner have sex with someone else.

I must be in the other 48%--- and way down at the bottom. A thought like that never came near my mind in anyway. I would say most men have obsessed about what their wives may have done before they met them. I would suspect that most married men would prefer that they were their spouse's first.

No wonder there is so much divorce in our society when even people who are married think of their spouses as whores and scumbags.

 

[Geoist]

So all those alt-right trolls going around calling liberals 'cucks' were simply projecting? Makes sense.

 

[pocket aces]

I must be in the other 48%--- and way down at the bottom. A thought like that never came near my mind in anyway. I would say most men have obsessed about what their wives may have done before they met them. I would suspect that most married men would prefer that they were their spouse's first.

No wonder there is so much divorce in our society when even people who are married think of their spouses as whores and scumbags.

Why would you assume those who choose that lifestyle think of their spouses that way?


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[Checkerboard Strangler]

When it comes to the wealthy powerful conservative set, yes it can be safely assumed.
I am sure there are exceptions even then but not very many.

I do find it amusing though when someone who would surely call my wife and I's lifestyle choice a sin getting caught doing stuff like this.

Of course!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

 

[Lursa]

https://www.washingtonpost.com/outlook/2020/08/27/falwell-conservative-cuckold-fantasies/

It may, paradoxically, be precisely because they believe cuckoldry is so bad.

In the wake of allegations that he spent years watching his wife have sex with another man, Jerry Falwell Jr. resigned this week from his post as president of Liberty University. Falwell has denied the specifics of those allegations, but if they’re true, he would be neither the first nor the last conservative man to take pleasure in sharing his spouse or partner while he looks on, a sexual practice known more commonly as “cuckolding.” In fact, a disproportionate percentage fantasize about just that happening to them.

They’re not alone, of course. Cuckolding routinely ranks among the top searches on the world’s biggest porn sites, as reported by neuroscientists Ogi Ogas and Sai Gaddam in their book “A Billion Wicked Thoughts,” for which they analyzed the contents of hundreds of millions of Internet searches. But as my own research has shown, reports of that sexual fantasy exhibit a surprising ideological pattern. For my book “Tell Me What You Want,” I studied the sexual fantasies of 4,175 Americans from all 50 states. I asked my participants to report how often they fantasized about hundreds of different people, places and things — including cuckolding.

A majority of heterosexual men (52 percent) said they had fantasized about watching their partner have sex with someone else. Heterosexual men who identified as Republican were the most likely to report having had a cuckolding fantasy at some point — and they fantasized about it more often than Democrats. Fewer than half of Democratic straight men (49 percent) reported having ever fantasized about cuckolding, and 19 percent said they fantasize about it often. By contrast, nearly two-thirds (64 percent) of heterosexual Republican men reported having had this fantasy, and 30 percent said it is a frequent fantasy. Republican men also reported more fantasies about infidelity, swinging and a wide range of sexually taboo activities, including voyeurism.
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The problem with cuckolding is that it can also destroy marriages if it gets out of control.

Seems like that's what repression will get ya, later in life. Esp. common in the religious.

Not surprising to me.

 

[lurchadams]

I must be in the other 48%--- and way down at the bottom. A thought like that never came near my mind in anyway. I would say most men have obsessed about what their wives may have done before they met them. I would suspect that most married men would prefer that they were their spouse's first.

No wonder there is so much divorce in our society when even people who are married think of their spouses as whores and scumbags.

Do you really think Roger Stone, Paul Manafort, Fallwell Jr., etc think of their wives as "whores and scumbags"? Or is it simply a couple consensually agreeing to an activity with mutually beneficial consequences?

Besides how else would conservatives 'wives ever experience orgasm without skilled Democrat bulls cucking them?

 

[lurchadams]

Seems like that's what repression will get ya, later in life. Esp. common in the religious.

Not surprising to me.

There are two type of conservatives:

1. The working class conservatives who actually try to live according to the bible and vote conservative because they actually believe what their church tells them and live according to the code.

2. Elite conservatives like trump, Falwell, etc. who preach against adultery, gay marriage, cuckholding etc. but engage in it like crazy, knowing that those rules were made for the folks above in #1 and not for them.

I'm all for cuckholding, swinging, polyamory, or monogamy.. whatever.. as long as all parties consent and no mental or physical damage is done.

I have no time for trump, Fallwell or anyone who demands that we "do as they say, not as they do"!

 

[Court Jester]

Do you really think Roger Stone, Paul Manafort, Fallwell Jr., etc think of their wives as "whores and scumbags"? Or is it simply a couple consensually agreeing to an activity with mutually beneficial consequences?

Besides how else would conservatives 'wives ever experience orgasm without skilled Democrat bulls cucking them?

Sounds like you used this thread to express your own fantasies. How long have been obsessed by these thoughts? When you think of Republican women in bed with Democrat men, where do the repressed thoughts of your mother fit in?

 

[lurchadams]

Sounds like you used this thread to express your own fantasies. How long have been obsessed by these thoughts? When you think of Republican women in bed with Democrat men, where do the repressed thoughts of your mother fit in?

Yes, I admit I find this lifestyle interesting and even alluring which is why I'm posting in this thread.

What's your reason?

Now before you answer, let's both agree it's ok for people to have fantasies about bringing in a liberal to cuck them so that their S.O. can finally experience true satisfaction. No judgement here!