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Who's bored in bed...sooner?

Who is more likely to get bored "sooner" in bed?

  • the woman

    Votes: 4 36.4%

  • the man

    Votes: 7 63.6%
  • Total voters
    11
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Who is more equipped to handle monogamy?

The man?

Or, the women?

I know a "Stable of Bitches" is very enticing. But it is also a lot of energy expended, providing, servicing, defending, etc..., I mean, it's a full time job just to keep other guys from fishing in your pond. When is there time for sports?

The flip side is your own ingenuity and creativity and acting skills (at times) to keep things.................um............mmm..............pleaseant. I mean, if your a guy, you want to be the deepest, darkest, chapter in her sexual diary. You want it to read, "There were all the others...

...then there was him!"

You want to do your homework. Watch porno's, talk to lesbians, do whatever it takes. Do her every way and place you can possibly think of. Because then, if she leaves you for another guy, you just made his life real f_cking interesting! It would be like:

Ex:"Oh, you want to know what he did to me"

new guy:"That's right, I don't want to know"

Ex:"One time we broke into a church and made love on the alter at two in the morning"

new guy: "Will you shut up! Oh, where's the bottle? Did he do it with this too?"

Ex: "Yes."

new guy: "Oh, shut up!"
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Which raises the question, who gets bored sooner in bed?

The woman.

Or, the man.
 
Alllrighty then.

I can't believe I'm answering this..but I'll go with 'men' for 500 chuck.

Since you usually hear more stories about men paying for it(prost/escort/dom) I'll go with that!
 
Trick question by Billo....

If you are quick enough she doesn't have time to get bored. And you can move on. You ever see a male lion hump a female for longer than it needs to take, or "warm her up"?? Nope, he does his business and moves on to the next bitch in the pride. Somehow we have it wrong......
 
OMGOSH, tell me I'm not on a board full of single people;)
 
In my experience in any long term relationship it goes in phases. And generally my excitement or lack of usually has more to do with the emotional health of me. If I'm in a good place then I'm gonna have a good time in bed. If I'm not in the right place then no amount of circus antics is going to get me there. The best part of long term relationships though is that your partner is able to read you and they learn how to stake the odds in their favor. My husband gets when it's his turn to yell at the kids or pick up a dish towel and that makes all the difference in the bedroom. As far as the whole "variety" thing goes I think men are more easily attracted to others though I think as women age and are more secure and comfortable then they too learn to appreciate the variety all around. Or maybe women are just hornier after 30. :mrgreen: Either way I think both men and women can appreciate the magic of having a long term partner who really "gets" you like no one else can and after awhile there is so much history that it would be damn near impossible for anyone to come along and trump that amount of history just cause they're hot or willing to do it on a church alter. :rofl
 
When you say bored in bed, do you mean whose lustful paroxisms of pure ecstacy end up boring holes in the wall adjacent to the headbord due to all the wild thrashing about sending the bed crashing against the wall?

In my experience, it's been the woman.


I won't even mention the need for soundproofing.......
 
Or maybe women are just hornier after 30.
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Bingo! I'm in my early 30's, could care less for foreplay, could care less if he picks up after himself. It's no longer an emotional thing(ie did he make me feel good b4 the bedroom) it's a 'I want it and I want it now thang'. BIG shift from my 20's.

I really hope I just didn't get too TMI.
 
herenow said:
Bingo! I'm in my early 30's, could care less for foreplay, could care less if he picks up after himself. It's no longer an emotional thing(ie did he make me feel good b4 the bedroom) it's a 'I want it and I want it now thang'. BIG shift from my 20's.

I really hope I just didn't get too TMI.
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Sweet, I only have 2 more years till my wife hits 30, which I imagine is when she will start begging for a second child. I don't know why she wants another, when I crafted such a perfect being on the first try.....
 
WI Crippler said:
Sweet, I only have 2 more years till my wife hits 30, which I imagine is when she will start begging for a second child. I don't know why she wants another, when I crafted such a perfect being on the first try.....
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If you guys are only having two. Go for it. Get it out of the way now. The earlier the better. 30 was my cut off age for having chilrens..but...anyway it may or may not affect her libido. I know most women I talk to agree that their libido rises at least 10points. I never thought I'd hear the day my hubby would tell me no. It's only happened a handful of times tho. If you knew his sex drive..that right there would tell ya something.

Been married 12 yrs and never been bored. May have had drops in libido's here and there(before 30's) but I NEVER equated that with 'boredom'.
 
Babies can affect your libido though! I definitely got hornier after 30 but my kids also were finally old enough that they weren't draining the lifeblood right out of me.
 
Billo_Really said:
Who is more likely to get bored "sooner" in bed?
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Men. Men need a steady does of sexual attention to keep their lustful desires on their mate. Once that attention is lacking their lust and fantasies will wonder.

Billo_Really said:
Who is more equipped to handle monogamy?
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Women. In my experiences women are more loyal sexually then men are. Both sexes fantasize about other people. Though, men stereotypically have less will power in regards to lust and are much likely to pursue their lust.
 
Gibberish said:
Men. Men need a steady does of sexual attention to keep their lustful desires on their mate. Once that attention is lacking their lust and fantasies will wonder.



Women. In my experiences women are more loyal sexually then men are. Both sexes fantasize about other people. Though, men stereotypically have less will power in regards to lust and are much likely to pursue their lust.
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I think that was more true in the past than it is today. And I think it may have had less to do with womens libido and more to do with their need for security. Now that many women are working and perfectly capable of taking care of themselves you see more women with less will power and less ability to control their lust. Interesting, huh?
 
talloulou said:
I think that was more true in the past than it is today. And I think it may have had less to do with womens libido and more to do with their need for security. Now that many women are working and perfectly capable of taking care of themselves you see more women with less will power and less ability to control their lust. Interesting, huh?
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We can control it just fine. We just choose to indulge it. :cool:
 
..or they have gotten on the same level and became just as slimey as some of the men who cheat. Use to be women had higher morals when it came to honoring their marriage vows. I don't understand why ppl get married if they can't be/stay faithful. If you're no longer in love at least respect yourself and your mate enough to get a divorce and not drag him/her and your entire family..including children thru the mud.

That's a general statement..not directed at anyone here...of course if the shoe fits;)
 
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herenow said:
..or they have gotten on the same level and became just as slimey as some of the men who cheat. Use to be women had higher morals when it came to honoring their marriage vows. I don't understand why ppl get married if they can't be/stay faithful. If you're no longer in love at least respect yourself and your mate enough to get a divorce and not drag him/her and your entire family..including children thru the mud.

That's a general statement..not directed at anyone here...of course if the shoe fits;)
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Humans weren't designed to be monogamous. Personally, I find it self-defeating to expect such behavior.
 
herenow said:
..or they have gotten just as slimey as some of the men who cheat. Use to be women had higher morals when it came to the sanctity of marriage. I don't understand why ppl get married if they can't be/stay faithful. If you're no longer in love at least respect yourself and your mate enough to get a divorce and not drag him/her and your entire family..including children thru the mud.

That's a general statement..not directed at anyone here...of course if the shoe fits;)
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I think people can be in love and have an act of unfaithfulness. The true testament of a marriage is weathering the storms. Sure kids shouldn't be dragged through the mud as you say but on the other hand far too many couples throw in the towel too easily and too quick only to go on and work out the same issues with new partners down the line. If someone has a pattern of cheating thats one thing or if they genuinely aren't in love any more than sure a marriage is probably best ended but a strong marriage can survive an act of cheating in my opinion.
 
talloulou said:
I think people can be in love and have an act of unfaithfulness. The true testament of a marriage is weathering the storms. Sure kids shouldn't be dragged through the mud as you say but on the other hand far too many couples throw in the towel too easily and too quick only to go on and work out the same issues with new partners down the line. If someone has a pattern of cheating thats one thing or if they genuinely aren't in love any more than sure a marriage is probably best ended but a strong marriage can survive an act of cheating in my opinion.
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I won't even try to respond to the previous post, too far out in left field to adress lol.

I agree. I think many marriages can overcome adultry committed by one(or maybe both) partners. I wouldn't necesarily advocate packing up and leaving at the first offense, b/c we are all humans and we can all make mistakes. Some affairs happen while one is drunk and there's no emotional attatchment involved, a moment of weakness b/c they have been 'at it' with their spouse and think the grass is greener on the other side. If the person truely feels bad over it, and asks for forgiveness I think a marriage can survive.

I was speaking of the ppl who get married knowing they are the type to sleep with anything in sight, and KNOW they don't have the desire nor are capable of being faithful.

With all the diseases today(even with condoms)...I'll pass on the extra-marital affairs :)
 
herenow said:
I won't even try to respond to the previous post, too far out in left field to adress lol.
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I don't really understand how it's "out in left field". Humans don't mate for life. If you find one that does, they are a rarity (and, IMO, an oddity).

Less than 3% of all mammals mate for life, and of those.... most only appear socially monogamous, when they actually do "cheat". (much like humans)
 
Orignally posted by teacher:
the one who gets bored is the one who doesn't suck at sex.

Next question.
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Like you'd know the difference!

With you it all depends on who "initiates" and who "notify's",
let alone make a fire.
 
I think that women handle monogamy better. Women can play (pretend better than a man) while the man is having an orgasm.
 
ehhhhhhhhhh...

Billo_Really said:
Like you'd know the difference!

With you it all depends on who "initiates" and who "notify's",
let alone make a fire.
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3 outta 10.

Damn sure can't dance to it.

Forehead.

Wha, you supervising now?

Someone give you a supervisory position?

Oh my, they sooooooooo lost now.

But hey, at least they not on fire.

But do we get a handshake?

Come on Billo, let loose and annunciate your real feelings. Let them flow (switch).

(Oh Lord, make me stop)

We gettin might good at this, ain't we?

Shame 9/10's goes over their heads. And not just the codes.

But who rules?

Dact is the question. (ow)

That's gonna show trouble.

Screw it. Reset and sign the log.
 
I get bored quick if it's the same stuff over and over. I like pushing my body to the very limit when it comes to sex. When it becomes : 1. Foreplay 2. Missionary/Doggy and then pass out time. I get bored. However we own a copy of the Karmasutra so we usually do all the soft stuff followed by the bending stuff. We're 50-50 on the sex. We do what she wants. We do what I want(not that much now cause she's pregnant) and that way we're never bored. We both get our fix. :cool:

Now when I was with other girls. I'd get bored first. Most Cali girls are lazy in bed.
 
This is why...

Hatuey said:
I get bored quick if it's the same stuff over and over. I like pushing my body to the very limit when it comes to sex. When it becomes : 1. Foreplay 2. Missionary/Doggy and then pass out time. I get bored. However we own a copy of the Karmasutra so we usually do all the soft stuff followed by the bending stuff. We're 50-50 on the sex. We do what she wants. We do what I want(not that much now cause she's pregnant) and that way we're never bored. We both get our fix. :cool:

Now when I was with other girls. I'd get bored first. Most Cali girls are lazy in bed.
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I cork my forks and keep sharp objects outta my reach.

I just tried putting my eyes out to get the images away.

Thank goodness I was eating soup.

Won't be sleeping a while either, thanks hatuey.
 
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