I live in the best of both worlds, in a small size city of about 150,000 people that is surrounded by wide open spaces.
We have the arts, public transit, international cuisine, but do without the smog or traffic jams of big cities.
However, I did grow up in a big city, and miss a few aspects of the big city, the variety of venues, the multi-cultural community, the vibrancy of a city.
Others prefer small town or country life. Away from the hustle and bustle of city life.
Suburban life I don't get. Not the advantages of country life, nor the excitement of city life, sort of a place where "dull" rules. But suburbs at least have a reputation for being low on crime and peaceful (so I have heard, never having lived in one).
So, not so much where DO you live but if given the opportunity where would you PREFER to live? (Of course, if you are lucky, you ARE living where you prefer to live)