Reminds me of a joke. There is a man of faith standing on the roof of his house in flood. The flood waters are climbing fast. A boy in a rowboat rows by and invites him in. The man of faith says 'no thank you, my God will keep me safe'. The waters continue to climb, a search and rescue motorboat comes by "Get in, we will get you to safety" the man of faith says 'no thank you, my God will keep me safe.' They give up and move on. The flood waters continue to rise. A helicopter comes by and lowers its basket "get in," he hears on the bullhorn. 'no thank you, my God will keep me safe.' The helicopter flies away. The flood waters continue rise and finally consume his house and he is swept away to his death.
On check-in in heaven, he meets God. He is a bit disappointed. "I am a man of faith and I had faith in you keeping me safe, yet you did not." "Yes, you are a man of faith," replies God, "but you are also a foolish man. I sent you a row boat, a motor boat and a helicopter and you rebuffed all of my efforts. Even God runs out of patience."
I don't believe Kevin McCarthy comprehends his options at the moment. The Democrats could be a life raft. You don't have to cut a deal with them, but you have to look willing to cut a deal with them OR you have to come to terms with the fact you are never going to be speaker.