You really don't grasp the issue at all, do you? Which is why it is you that lacks perspective. A coup is not measured by the number of dead, it is measured by the how close the Constitution came to collapsing. Bin Laden's attack on America killed people and got America to panic, but it generally came together as a nation in response. There was never a threat to American liberty. Undermining the faith of our people in the validity of our elections was a far graver danger.
Remember, in American history we have been willing to trade lives to protect our constitutional republic. The threats we face are not lose of life, but loss of liberty. By the measure, Trump was a much, much graver threat to America than Bin Laden ever was. Most informed people believe if Trump gets anywhere near the presidency, our constitution republic is lost. The man has no respect for the rule of law, no understanding of American traditions and really, no love for this country whatsoever. He is a fraud. He has defrauded millions, which will actually likely be the charge, should the DoJ have the balls to charge him.
You make the statement that our democracy is strong and safe. You want to debate subject, let's do it! I am challenging you to support the bolded statement: prove it! Show us sober and informed people that say that is true, as I can show you a dozen that say it is not. Especially given what I am saying is the prevailing wisdom:
Here is one such article that says your perspective is wrong:
https://news.harvard.edu/gazette/story/2022/02/is-american-democracy-in-peril/