A dude I was just going to date. He is a self-identified demisexual/pansexual. He thought I wasn't bad looking but his statement to me specifically was, he wasn't going to have sex with me until he knew that we had a good friendship with it heading towards relationship.
I flirted with him via text once, he freaked out on me saying that we hadn't even met yet (true, but if you're supposedly slightly attracted to someone, you accept a flirt even if you don't flirt back).
He also said that he was attracted to a person, not a gender, and he was very comfortable with someone who doesn't necessarily represent as one gender. I am not that, I'm cismale, present as cismale and feel as if I'm cismale. He stated he didn't care what was between my legs.
Even though we're not talking anymore (if you can't handle a simple flirt/maybe forwardness, then I can't deal with you), but I'm sure I'll see him at an upcoming Lords of Acid concert. I'll tell him to post here so you can see he's a magical unicorn. XD
ETA: so do you think asexuality isn't a thing either because you have a sex drive?
So what I'm hearing is, you like long hard things that get increasingly longer as you move your hand over it?