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Waaaah waaaah wahhhDisabilities are not often "overcome" during a student's tenure (pulling that word out is a tell tale sign for a poor view of people with disabilities), no matter how much people without disabilities (including teachers and administrators) will it so. Disabilities stay with us throughout our lives. Some are able to do without over time, but most are not. Of course, this doesn't stop people like teachers and administrators from admonishing kids for somehow still having a disability.
The reason why I employed it is because it is a statement devoid of true experience. It diminishes the very real struggles we have to actually be treated with respect in the schools by instructors and administrators in our schools, let alone by those who are our peers.
Your statement offends not just because it is incorrect, but because it is the exact same nonsense people with disabilities and their families have to counteract day in and day out. Parents are not gaming a thing. More often than not, it is the schools that are gaming the system by not following the law or a student's plan. They have far more power (and use it) than families and their children do.
So yeah, of course I am going to take exception to your incredibly insensitive statements.
We all have to put up with things in our lives, get over it. I was a red head, at times it was almost neon orange in fact tho its all silver now...but back in the day was usually the only one in my classes growing up. Choruses of "Red head ginger bread, five cents a cabbage head" greeted me almost every day as I got on the bus in 1st and 2nd grade. Later, among other things it was "I would rather be dead than red in the head", Was called Opie for the red headed kid on Andy in Mayberry all through grade school, thought I had that behind me, but nooooo, Happy Days hit the scene in my high school years... I know how it feels to be looked down upon educationally, as well. Through no fault of my own I was held back in second grade, very demoralizing as a young kid... do I harp on any/ all of this? Am I oversensitive to it.
Do I or should I lobby against being treated like a red-headed stepchild. No, because we all have things we must overcome all throughout our lives.
You went full court press on me there, buddy. Just because you put something in place in the current system, that sometimes may help some, you make it sound like this, because it was a good idea started no doubt with good intentions and all the rest... that this is a program that works, a program that cannot be abused/misused, that is funded properly so all this is not just additional time mandates on an already overburdened teacher. The always added effort required to perform the additional tasks deemed necessary for the student as well as time documenting such so the school will not be sued, the additional knowledge in areas of accommodating these [ the broad spectrum includes autism, deaf-blindness, deafness, emotional disturbance, hearing impairment, intellectual disability, multiple disabilities, health impairment, specific learning disability, speech or language impairment, traumatic brain injury, visual impairment to name some that are in play ]... all this beyond the scope of the teacher's set curriculum that has time deadlines and testing upon which yearly evaluations are made. Most teachers have more than one prep [ a teacher may teach 6 hour classes a day, one planning period and 20-30 minutes for lunch, no breaks in between...and usually 3 or more of these are classes in different subject areas, i.e., a social studies teacher may teach Civics, Economics, World History and American History all in the same day, all requiring completely different preparations] all this additional knowledge, time and effort placed in the wheelhouse of the already overtaxed teacher who is mainly trying to perform the task of instructing, and managing, classes of 20-30 students that changes every hour in middle and high schools. Many with classes overloaded with students with varying exceptions and disabilities that the one teacher, without much additional assistance except an occasional discussion with the student's counselor when there is a spare moment.
And as teachers instructing these students for a year or so, they see who is really in need and who abuses. You think in this imperfect educational system that we are discussing here, that this is the one area that is not fraught with misuse and abuse? What is your basis, or perhaps what is your biais? You have a disability and are super sensitive... so we all have to be blind to the actual, what really happens on the ground in schools so you can feel better about yourself?
Nah.