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To kill or not to kill

I'm not ignoring anything. I am well aware of that particular subjective argument.

The bold part is debatable, given human nature. I think sexual repression leads to all kinds of emotional imbalances. The fact that women only ovulate 2 days out of the month but are capable of arousal any other day proves that sex has a social function, even though some may prefer to pretend it is taboo; likewise, men have nocturnal emissions even if they don't masturbate, which suggests that sex can be a physiological requirement.

I don’t disagree that it is debatable… but monks and others live celibate lives and do just fine. It might be healthier for some to be sexually active, but I would still maintain that it is not a need.

What you are putting forth is a cultural value, not an observation of nature. Sex is as integral to our social nature as it is for the other apes we are related to, it is just our social norming processes that concern expression of said instincts.

Apes don’t have abortions nor do they kill their young… I don’t find that analogy accurate as a result. It might be a cultural value, but sex is still a choice that is made and one made knowing full well what the consequences are.

But I digress... about the actual issue of women choosing to have sex, again I say so what? The idea of a fetus being a person (which is debatable) is mutually exclusive from a woman deciding to have sex and accidentally getting pregnant. In order to prove that the woman doesn't deserve sexual liberation you will first have to prove that the consequences of her actions result in the "murder" of a "person", and so far you and the others are doing a poor job of that.

It doesn’t have to result in “murder of a person”. That is just something that pro-choice advocates have invented in order to justify abortion. It is still destroying a developing human life. That is not debatable.

Driving my car on a sidewalk is illegal regardless of any people being on the sidewalk. I don’t have to directly endanger a person in order to make the act illegal or morally wrong.

Second, although you assert that sex is a want and not a need, that is your cultural and moral value, not mine. Just like fetal personhood is a subjective, psychospiritual value that does not reside in the realm of absolutism, the meaning of sex and sexuality is in the same realm. You cannot state what sex is and then apply those values to everyone. Each person decides for themselves what their sexuality means to them.

No. It is not my cultural and moral value. It is a fact. People only need food, water, sleep, shelter from the elements and perhaps infants need love. Not having sex will not see a person dead as not having food or water. A need is a distinct and objective fact. A want is quite different.

I'm also aware of the fallacious attempts to claim that fetal personhood is equivalent to all other modern civil rights movements. The thing about civil rights is that not only are they determined based on constitutionality (of which fetal personhood has failed to qualify to date), they are also weighed against the the functional and stable needs of society. Gay marriage is being allowed because there are studies and logical support for gays to structure their families as straight people do. Polygamy, for example, does not have the same support.

I don’t equate fetal personhood as equivalent to the modern civil rights movement because it isn’t. It is a separate issue. Developing humans deserve their own Rights Movement. They deserve one that is not yet written into the Constitution. The US Constitution is an evolving document and can and should include fetal rights if that is a new issue. There is no way that the Founders could have foreseen this issue in the slightest.

As it pertains to fetuses, there is plenty of evidence to suggest socioeconomic harm to society by banning abortion. During the era of banned abortion in the U.S., the most common cause of death in women of reproductive age was unsafe abortions. This is fact. Pro-life people often say now, "Well, it's their own fault for seeking abortion." Policy is not formed based on such moral relativism. Government concerns itself with the welfare of society, and women, who are already persons. Fetal personhood remains subjective.

It sure is based on such moral relativism, why else would child abuse be illegal? Pro-choice is a subjective position that waffles about. It is fine to abuse the developing human at this stage but not that. I think that we all agree that the zygote stage is certainly not personhood and that the fetus stage is at least a developing human that can, at a certain point, survive on its own.

I actually do accept fetuses as humans since they possess human DNA, but it's the notion of personhood that overrides the rights of the landlord, the mother, that I object to. We abolished slavery partially because of industrialization and partially because blacks proved they were equally competent to whites in life, and fought for their rights. Their personhood was won. The pro-life movement is taking something innocuous and magnifying it to an absurd degree, then claiming moral absolutism, while simultaneously ignoring the psychospiritual questions of other individuals.

This subject is unique. A woman becoming pregnant as a result of sex is just like a human living as a result of breathing. It is just how it is. The Pro-life movement is doing a disservice to itself in trying to piggyback the Civil Rights Movement.

Abolishing slavery had nothing to do with blacks proving competent and everything to do with the South attempting to secede the Union.

I view accepting a pregnancy until birth of a baby and abortion as equal options in taking responsibility. They are simply two different routes. You can spin the personhood argument all day, but there is nothing concrete to prove it. It's why Roe v Wade sided with privacy concerns... because these spiritual questions are of a private nature and have no concrete answers.

It has nothing to do with spirituality or personhood and everything to do with an actual and viable developing human life.

If we could answer this question for sure then the matter would have been settled a long time ago. As it stands, it's subjective and people have the right to decide for themselves, and so they should.

It seems that the matter is quite clear. There is a developing human life. This is simply a fact. People on both sides are trying to win the argument, but the fact is, that no matter what, abortion kills a developing human life and all that the pro-choice side is doing is attempting to justify this action.
 
I don't see how this is a valid argument. She chose to have sex, not get pregnant. I don't see you saying that for example the victims of Columbine "deserved it" (or whatever silly argument you're trying to make) because it was a possibility that they would get shot by going to school.

You don't see how it is valid, and so you conclude that it is a silly argument? What is silly is seeing a person dismiss an idea that they don't understand... THAT's silly.

Originally Posted by Kaya’08
But you are trying to compare a fetus with a fully grown human, so this argument is invalid.

I was comparing “independence” to point out the flaw in your argument, consequently it is quite valid.

That's not the part i agree with. Although, i do think the "controversial" and undecided nature of the fetus will likely not allow us to reach a consensus.

I would suggest not quoting things that you do not agree with then…

Originally Posted by mac
It is reasonable to assume that if you have sex, there is a chance of getting pregnant. It is not reasonable to assume that if you go to school, there is a chance to getting shot.

His style of debating is often unreasonable… it is just his way.
 
It is reasonable to assume that if you have sex, there is a chance of getting pregnant. It is not reasonable to assume that if you go to school, there is a chance to getting shot.

Did you know that you have a higher chance of being in a lethal auto accident than becoming pregnant using a condom? Perhaps all of those people that died in drunk driving accidents should be blamed, then.
 
Did you know that you have a higher chance of being in a lethal auto accident than becoming pregnant using a condom? Perhaps all of those people that died in drunk driving accidents should be blamed, then.

Not sure how that relates to my post.
 
Did you know that you have a higher chance of being in a lethal auto accident than becoming pregnant using a condom? Perhaps all of those people that died in drunk driving accidents should be blamed, then.

Do you have the capacity to make a legitimate and rational argument?
 
I already did. The responsibility was placed on the woman for having sex because there was a "chance of getting pregnant".

There is a larger chance of being in a fatal auto accident with a drunk driver, and, using the logic of yourselves, thus the victims should be held responsible. They did, after all, realize that there was a chance of getting in such an accident by going outside/driving their car/etc...
 
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I already did. The responsibility was placed on the woman for having sex because there was a "chance of getting pregnant".

There is a larger chance of being in a fatal auto accident with a drunk driver, and, using the logic of yourselves, thus the victims should be held responsible. They did, after all, realize that there was a chance of getting in such an accident by going outside/driving their car/etc...

The intent behind the creation of the car is to get a person from place to place, where as the intent behind the creation of sex is to reproduce.
Sorry, your argument is completely invalid.
 
Witty retort!

Leave out the word behind. The intent of sex is to reproduce, not have a choice. The intent of driving a car is to get from point A to point B, not to die.
 
Leave out the word behind. The intent of sex is to reproduce, not have a choice. The intent of driving a car is to get from point A to point B, not to die.
In the vast majority of cases, 'to reproduce' is not the intent behind the people having sex.

Wait, so you said that science wins and that the fetus is not a human and then quote some random source that states, "There will never be a consensus because of the subjective and unscientific nature of the claim"? Are you serious? How can we even continue debating?
Sorry; this is from a while back. I was reminded, though, of the following quote:

"[whether a zygote is an individual or not] isn't even really science! Science is testable and falsifiable; my view is neither. This does not make it a religious view, however; consider the fact that neither is your position in this argument! It is philosophy and semantics; taxonomy with some deep thoughts, if you will!"
~ Dr. Eugene Kalstrom, allexperts.com.

When talking about words, definitions and classifications in this area, remember that you're dealing with people struggling to fit philosophical/metaphysical concepts into scientific terminology using a language that originally evolved to tell the other monkeys where the nearest fruit was. While we can hope for precision, don't expect objective truths.
 
In the vast majority of cases, 'to reproduce' is not the intent behind the people having sex.

I am not talking about the people's intent, but rather the intent of the act of sex.
The intent of the act of sex is to produce offspring of the species... not to get off.
 
I am not talking about the people's intent, but rather the intent of the act of sex.
The intent of the act of sex is to produce offspring of the species... not to get off.
How does an act have an intent? How do you know what that intent is?
 
I am not talking about the people's intent, but rather the intent of the act of sex.
The intent of the act of sex is to produce offspring of the species... not to get off.



Wrong. It's both.
 
Wrong. It's both.

ummm.... nope. Sorry. Actually, getting off is the lure. It is the want that gets them all lathered up so that they want to have sex. The act of sex is about procreation. The getting off is the by-product. The purpose of the act of sex is to produce off-spring. Just because something happens as well does not mean that it is part of the purpose. The purpose of typing is to convey a message, but people can also get sore wrists too. By-product. Get it?

Originally Posted by iangb
How does an act have an intent? How do you know what that intent is?

intent   /ɪnˈtɛnt/ Show Spelled[in-tent] Show IPA
–noun
1.something that is intended; purpose; design; intention: The original intent of the committee was to raise funds.
2.the act or fact of intending, as to do something: criminal intent.
3.Law. the state of a person's mind that directs his or her actions toward a specific object.
4.meaning or significance.


I meant intent as purpose. Intent does not require consciousness. The purpose of sex is to reproduce. Done.
 
intent   /ɪnˈtɛnt/ Show Spelled[in-tent] Show IPA
–noun
1.something that is intended; purpose; design; intention: The original intent of the committee was to raise funds.
2.the act or fact of intending, as to do something: criminal intent.
3.Law. the state of a person's mind that directs his or her actions toward a specific object.
4.meaning or significance.


I meant intent as purpose. Intent does not require consciousness. The purpose of sex is to reproduce. Done.
If you want to use 'purpose' as a synonym, I can repeat the question (with a small ammendum)...

How does an act have a purpose (other than that purpose which the people doing the act already have in mind)? How do you know what that purpose is?

We give actions purpose, depending on our intent. A particular act is not inherantly purposeful. Sex is for fun, far more often than it is for babies.
 
If you want to use 'purpose' as a synonym, I can repeat the question (with a small ammendum)...

How does an act have a purpose (other than that purpose which the people doing the act already have in mind)? How do you know what that purpose is?

We give actions purpose, depending on our intent. A particular act is not inherantly purposeful. Sex is for fun, far more often than it is for babies.

So you are going to cite biology when it suits you and deny it when it doesn't?
 
So you are going to cite biology when it suits you and deny it when it doesn't?
How is biology related to stating the 'purpose' of an action, or the intent behind it?

If you can cite some biology which states that the main purpose of sex today is procreation, I'm happy to trounce it with statistics. So far, though, I'm only seeing vaguely metaphysical assertions.

EDIT: Pre-emptively, a set of statistics for you. To quote:

"Overall, 62% of the 62 million women aged 15–44 are currently using a method.[2]

Almost one-third (31%) of these 62 million women do not need a method because they are infertile; are pregnant, postpartum or trying to become pregnant; have never had intercourse; or are not sexually active

Among the 43 million fertile, sexually active women who do not want to become pregnant, 89% are practicing contraception.[2] "


Out of 62 million women of childbearing age in the US, ~70% are sexually active and do not want to become pregnant. Sex is not primarily for procreation. The very fact that there are a million abortions per year should show you this.
 
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If you want to use 'purpose' as a synonym, I can repeat the question (with a small ammendum)...

How does an act have a purpose (other than that purpose which the people doing the act already have in mind)? How do you know what that purpose is?

We give actions purpose, depending on our intent. A particular act is not inherantly purposeful. Sex is for fun, far more often than it is for babies.

When I am talking about purpose or intent, I am referring to the evolutionary nature of it. We procreate due to sex, and if sex simply were for fun, the woman would not become pregnant. In driving from L.A. to Napa for some great wine and dinner at French Laundry, we use a car. The purpose of the car is to get you from point A to point B. You can have fun while doing it, but the car was not designed, initially, to be fun, but rather functional. The function, maybe that is the best word, of sex is to reproduce. Fun is a by-product. The act of sex has a function. The function of sex is to reproduce. Fun is the by-product. A seriously fun by-product, but not the function.

I am in no way stating that people only have sex to create a baby. Most don't, obviously. I only had sex with that intent at two time periods in my life, resulting in my two beautiful kids. But, that is irrelevant. The function of sex every time I had sex, was to produce off-spring. Fortunately, that didn't ever happen other than the two times, since I didn't want kids at that time. Hope that clarifies...
 
When I am talking about purpose or intent, I am referring to the evolutionary nature of it. We procreate due to sex, and if sex simply were for fun, the woman would not become pregnant. In driving from L.A. to Napa for some great wine and dinner at French Laundry, we use a car. The purpose of the car is to get you from point A to point B. You can have fun while doing it, but the car was not designed, initially, to be fun, but rather functional. The function, maybe that is the best word, of sex is to reproduce. Fun is a by-product. The act of sex has a function. The function of sex is to reproduce. Fun is the by-product. A seriously fun by-product, but not the function.

I am in no way stating that people only have sex to create a baby. Most don't, obviously. I only had sex with that intent at two time periods in my life, resulting in my two beautiful kids. But, that is irrelevant. The function of sex every time I had sex, was to produce off-spring. Fortunately, that didn't ever happen other than the two times, since I didn't want kids at that time. Hope that clarifies...
It's true that the only way to get pregnant (with a few exceptions) is through sex. However, that doesn't give sex a single 'purpose', nor does it even mean that baby-making is the main purpose, as my stats above showed. Purpose, as you've said above, is linked to 'intent'. If you go out for a drive in the country, the fact that a car is also a good way to get from A to B is irrelevant - at that time, your purpose is to enjoy the ride - and the purpose of the car is to aid in that.

You're getting dangerously close to an 'as nature intended it' argument, which is riddled with counter-arguments. Contraceptives have no place in 'evolutionary nature', either.
 
How is biology related to stating the 'purpose' of an action, or the intent behind it?

If you can cite some biology which states that the main purpose of sex today is procreation, I'm happy to trounce it with statistics. So far, though, I'm only seeing vaguely metaphysical assertions.

EDIT: Pre-emptively, a set of statistics for you. To quote:

"Overall, 62% of the 62 million women aged 15–44 are currently using a method.[2]

Almost one-third (31%) of these 62 million women do not need a method because they are infertile; are pregnant, postpartum or trying to become pregnant; have never had intercourse; or are not sexually active

Among the 43 million fertile, sexually active women who do not want to become pregnant, 89% are practicing contraception.[2] "


Out of 62 million women of childbearing age in the US, ~70% are sexually active and do not want to become pregnant. Sex is not primarily for procreation. The very fact that there are a million abortions per year should show you this.

The purpose of sex is reproduction. The social aspect of sex in humans arises from the pleasure responses that we have evolved to encourage reproduction. You know this, and you are willfully ignoring it.
 
The purpose of sex is reproduction. The social aspect of sex in humans arises from the pleasure responses that we have evolved to encourage reproduction. You know this, and you are willfully ignoring it.
No, the purpose of sex is not reproduction. Sex sometimes starts the process of reproduction, but that is not it's purpose; to say that sex has a specific, inherant 'purpose' is nonsensical. Sex is an action, like swinging a fist, or inhaling. What is important is why someone carries out the action - are they hitting an enemy, or knocking on a door? Are they gasping for breath, or sniffing at scent? Are they trying for a baby, or are they expressing love/lust? We provide purpose to our actions - there is no 'inherant purpose'; to concious acts, at least. And like I said above; 'it's Natures purpose' is a baseless argument.

You have provided no supporting evidence for your claim, and are just repeating the same argument over and over, despite the fact that I've now responded to it. The only purpose of sex is what purpose we chose to give it, as and when we chose to do it.
 
The purpose of sex is reproduction.
That is not correct. One of the roles that sex fulfills is reproduction. There is no demonstrable basis to assert that the only role of sex is reproduction.

The social aspect of sex in humans arises from the pleasure responses that we have evolved to encourage reproduction. You know this, and you are willfully ignoring it.
That is simply false. There is nothing to support that. ON the contrary there are examples in nature where in no pleasure in involved yet reproduction does take place to the point where death takes place yet reproduction still exists.
 
It's true that the only way to get pregnant (with a few exceptions) is through sex. However, that doesn't give sex a single 'purpose', nor does it even mean that baby-making is the main purpose, as my stats above showed. Purpose, as you've said above, is linked to 'intent'. If you go out for a drive in the country, the fact that a car is also a good way to get from A to B is irrelevant - at that time, your purpose is to enjoy the ride - and the purpose of the car is to aid in that.

You're getting dangerously close to an 'as nature intended it' argument, which is riddled with counter-arguments. Contraceptives have no place in 'evolutionary nature', either.

I hear what you are saying but I'm not sure that I agree, at this point. I have not stated that reproduction is the single purpose, just the main and first purpose. Other purposes are to create a bond between parents and to sweat off a pound or two... but the main purpose is to procreate. That is how nature intended it. I am not sure that this is debatable. Of course people can debate it, but that does not invalidate the point.

The car itself is analogous to sex, in my parallel. The purpose of the car is to drive. How you feel while you drive is irrelevant. Where you go is irrelevant. The car drives people... that is relevant. The purpose of sex is to reproduce. How you feel while you ride that ride is irrelevant. Why you want to have sex is irrelevant. Sex sends sperm into the woman to fertilize an egg. The purpose of the sperm is to fertilize the egg. The purpose of fertilization is to create a baby, eventually.

I am having trouble seeing this issue in any other way, and I am reeeaally trying and being more open about an opposing view than usual, to be honest.
 
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