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Threesoms, maybe more.

CLAX1911

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This is always a fun subject to talk about.

Would you do it? If so if you are a lady would you prefer a male third party or a female third? If you are a guy, no doubt you have at least thought about a threesom with two women. Have you ever rocked the three way with two women? Or a man and a woman?
 
I've done threesomes...and moresomes. They are fun, so long as everyone involved comes in to the situation open-minded and with a good attitude. Hell, I'm in a poly relationship, so the concept of traditional, vanilla relationships are just not interesting to me.
 
Ive been in this situation once. Relationship a around a year ago with two women. Was a blast. Alyways wanted to do it again. Just have to find a partner that is open to it and confident... Honestly wouldnt mind with another male if i found a partner that was up to it.
 
TheDemSocialist said:
Ive been in this situation once. Relationship a around a year ago with two women. Was a blast. Alyways wanted to do it again. Just have to find a partner that is open to it and confident... Honestly wouldnt mind with another male if i found a partner that was up to it.
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That is interesting, I wouldn't have thought to many guys would be interested in having the third be a male. But I guess it's exploratory if anything.

How well did the Minaj et trois work in the past?
 
Koros said:
I've done threesomes...and moresomes. They are fun, so long as everyone involved comes in to the situation open-minded and with a good attitude. Hell, I'm in a poly relationship, so the concept of traditional, vanilla relationships are just not interesting to me.
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Interesting, if you don't mind me asking is it with only men or do you mix it up?
 
CLAX1911 said:
Interesting, if you don't mind me asking is it with only men or do you mix it up?
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Most have been with just men. But, I did once participate in a foursome with one other man and two women.
 
CLAX1911 said:
That is interesting, I wouldn't have thought to many guys would be interested in having the third be a male. But I guess it's exploratory if anything.

How well did the Minaj et trois work in the past?
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Worked out fine. Me and my partner (my girlfriend at the time) were very open at the time with our sexual relationship, and she at one point at her time was "bi-curious" at the time, so it was basically for any straight male a "dream come true". It was very laid back and very open for what we were comfortable with/non comfortable with. I myself enjoyed it very much and was a very rare life time experience. This is the only time I was ever involved with a MWW 3some. I have always been open for a MMW 3some but only with "straight" activity. But I feel like a MMW 3some is more rare.
 
2 males and one female is not very appealing from a normal heterosexual males perspective. Having some dude right next to grunting and maybe accidentally spraying you with friendly fire...
 
Threesomes, foursomes. Meh. They were fun, but I prefer more of a one on one encounter. Not saying I wouldn't do them again though...
 
24107 said:
2 males and one female is not very appealing from a normal heterosexual males perspective. Having some dude right next to grunting and maybe accidentally spraying you with friendly fire...
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Unless he's a bisexual. :mrgreen: I think if a guy enjoys that he MUST be bisexual.
 
ChrisL said:
Unless he's a bisexual. :mrgreen: I think if a guy enjoys that he MUST be bisexual.
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I honestly dont think this is true. I think its however more "taboo" Just like when it comes to a desire to be in a 3some be it with 2 women or 2 men when it comes to a 3some sexual activity.
 
ChrisL said:
Unless he's a bisexual. :mrgreen: I think if a guy enjoys that he MUST be bisexual.
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I tried it once in my freshmen year of college with a girl I met in math class and my best friend. I gave up a few minutes into it as I was not turned on at the sight of my friends erect penis close by, and the thought of sharing the same " watering hole" made me feel disgusted. He being the horny bastard that he is/was not bothered by anything at all, so I just zipped up and left the room barely even getting started.
 
24107 said:
I tried it once in my freshmen year of college with a girl I met in math class and my best friend. I gave up a few minutes into it as I was not turned on at the sight of my friends erect penis close by, and the thought of sharing the same " watering hole" made me feel disgusted. He being the horny bastard that he is/was not bothered by anything at all, so I just zipped up and left the room barely even getting started.
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:lamo Sorry, but that sounds kind of funny.
 
TheDemSocialist said:
I honestly dont think this is true. I think its however more "taboo" Just like when it comes to a desire to be in a 3some be it with 2 women or 2 men when it comes to a 3some sexual activity.
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I think that's the truth, right there. Nobody accuses a woman of being a lesbian if she invites her best friend over to tag-team her husband with her. But, if a man invites his best friend to come tag-team his wife, suddenly he will have his buddies calling his sexuality in to question.

Straight men, and I mean no offense to any straight man in this thread, are fragile creatures when it comes to being socially allowed to explore sex and sexuality. For many, their identity as men is so closely tied to their sexual behavior and sexual identity. To have that sexuality questioned by the very guys who wouldn't want their OWN sexuality questioned starts to tear down the fragile mask of masculinity they have built up.

Another guy saw you naked and erect? Well, then you aren't a REAL man anymore. You engaged in a threesome with another dude? OH, HELL NO! Your man card is revoked, ripped up, and burnt in front of you.
 
Koros said:
I think that's the truth, right there. Nobody accuses a woman of being a lesbian if she invites her best friend over to tag-team her husband with her. But, if a man invites his best friend to come tag-team his wife, suddenly he will have his buddies calling his sexuality in to question.

Straight men, and I mean no offense to any straight man in this thread, are fragile creatures when it comes to being socially allowed to explore sex and sexuality. For many, their identity as men is so closely tied to their sexual behavior and sexual identity. To have that sexuality questioned by the very guys who wouldn't want their OWN sexuality questioned starts to tear down the fragile mask of masculinity they have built up.

Another guy saw you naked and erect? Well, then you aren't a REAL man anymore. You engaged in a threesome with another dude? OH, HELL NO! Your man card is revoked, ripped up, and burnt in front of you.
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Eh - they claim that lesbians are the male fantasy so maybe that's where it lies.
 
Aunt Spiker said:
Not for me - I don't share well.
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Me either, thankfully my current loverdoesn't really care for it either. When my ex found out I was bi, she wanted to bring a second guy into it. I just wasn't digging it.

Sex to me is so much more about being closer to my lover sticking some other person between us just ruins it for me.
 
I have. It was fine, but not really for me. I felt distracted and like I couldn't really get fully involved with anything to the degree I like to. One-on-one suits me better.
 
Koros said:
I think that's the truth, right there. Nobody accuses a woman of being a lesbian if she invites her best friend over to tag-team her husband with her. But, if a man invites his best friend to come tag-team his wife, suddenly he will have his buddies calling his sexuality in to question.

Straight men, and I mean no offense to any straight man in this thread, are fragile creatures when it comes to being socially allowed to explore sex and sexuality. For many, their identity as men is so closely tied to their sexual behavior and sexual identity. To have that sexuality questioned by the very guys who wouldn't want their OWN sexuality questioned starts to tear down the fragile mask of masculinity they have built up.

Another guy saw you naked and erect? Well, then you aren't a REAL man anymore. You engaged in a threesome with another dude? OH, HELL NO! Your man card is revoked, ripped up, and burnt in front of you.
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Sums this up perfectly in my POV... I dont care be it 2 women or 2 men, i think it will be fun and "adventurous". Sex is fun, and most everyone knows this and its an open time to pretty much "loose control of yourself... within your own boundaries", so why not enjoy those "boundaries"...?...???...
 
Koros said:
I think that's the truth, right there. Nobody accuses a woman of being a lesbian if she invites her best friend over to tag-team her husband with her. But, if a man invites his best friend to come tag-team his wife, suddenly he will have his buddies calling his sexuality in to question.

Straight men, and I mean no offense to any straight man in this thread, are fragile creatures when it comes to being socially allowed to explore sex and sexuality. For many, their identity as men is so closely tied to their sexual behavior and sexual identity. To have that sexuality questioned by the very guys who wouldn't want their OWN sexuality questioned starts to tear down the fragile mask of masculinity they have built up.

Another guy saw you naked and erect? Well, then you aren't a REAL man anymore. You engaged in a threesome with another dude? OH, HELL NO! Your man card is revoked, ripped up, and burnt in front of you.
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funny that you mentioned this, I have messed around with a few straight guys. It surprised me, they were so willing to try everything, so open behind closed doors. I think that gay panic business is a facade.
 
The "I'm the MAN!" boasting thread.
 
it was a long held fantasy
and two former girl friends approached me with the ideal opportunity
but when the three-some actually became available, i questioned my ability to 'perform' adequately, needing to divide my attention between the two of them, and bailed
every time i subsequently get together with either one of them i am certain to receive a ration of **** for that decision
 
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