BrettNortje
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I find that some people have a better attitude than others. the thing i have discovered most vividly about the world of people around me is that the message and slogan of president obama worked. this is because he said he was going to change the world for them, and everyone likes change. well, everyone likes change around them and for them to feel unchanged and superior still, as most people are proud.
So, what am i getting at? i am saying if you walk into your house late at night and you see your spouse, you might want them to change things for you instead of changing things yourself, or, you changing, of course.
This issue with change is about progressing from a state to a better state for your 'psyche.' this is because we always feel things could be better. the trick is to treat each day of the week or month like the previous one - maybe you have a meeting or dinner of calamari? this would be like a routine that changes each day. this usually is the only thing keeping people sane, that there is some habits to follow. the reason we have habits is because we like structure in our lives, yes?
Please consider changing yourself instead of forcing change around you, this should lead to a higher sense of satisfaction.
So, what am i getting at? i am saying if you walk into your house late at night and you see your spouse, you might want them to change things for you instead of changing things yourself, or, you changing, of course.
This issue with change is about progressing from a state to a better state for your 'psyche.' this is because we always feel things could be better. the trick is to treat each day of the week or month like the previous one - maybe you have a meeting or dinner of calamari? this would be like a routine that changes each day. this usually is the only thing keeping people sane, that there is some habits to follow. the reason we have habits is because we like structure in our lives, yes?
Please consider changing yourself instead of forcing change around you, this should lead to a higher sense of satisfaction.