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The Most Common Sexual Fantasies Revealed: Did Yours Make the Cut?

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A gazillion readers may have gone ga-ga for Mr. Grey's version of kink as illustrated in Fifty Shades of Grey, but when it comes to women's actual, everyday sexual fantasies, are they really anywhere as jaw-dropping as some of the risque acts in E.L. James' books? Looks like we have our answer!

A recent study from the University of Montreal published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine sought to get the scoop on the most common sexual fantasies for both men and women.
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Women #6: Giving Oral Sex
Stereotypically, women aren't all that interested in performing fellatio, but according to this study, 72.1 percent say they've actually fantasized about it, making it technically quite "common" to daydream about the act.

Maybe I should start a poll.
 
Lisa said:
Most of the female romantic ideas apply to me.
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The problem I had being on the receiving end of #6 is that in married situations the female partner in my experience is doing it a) because I asked for it or b) she felt it was her obligation to throw me a bone on occasion. I never met a woman who did #6 purely to pleasure me. Odd.
 
JacksinPA said:
The problem I had being on the receiving end of #6 is that in married situations the female partner in my experience is doing it a) because I asked for it or b) she felt it was her obligation to throw me a bone on occasion. I never met a woman who did #6 purely to pleasure me. Odd.
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I know multiple friends who enjoy it, so you're meeting the wrong women.
 
JacksinPA said:

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A gazillion readers may have gone ga-ga for Mr. Grey's version of kink as illustrated in Fifty Shades of Grey, but when it comes to women's actual, everyday sexual fantasies, are they really anywhere as jaw-dropping as some of the risque acts in E.L. James' books? Looks like we have our answer!

A recent study from the University of Montreal published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine sought to get the scoop on the most common sexual fantasies for both men and women.
==================================================================
Women #6: Giving Oral Sex
Stereotypically, women aren't all that interested in performing fellatio, but according to this study, 72.1 percent say they've actually fantasized about it, making it technically quite "common" to daydream about the act.

Maybe I should start a poll.
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My partners have reported to me that performing oral sexually excites them, just as when we DATY it's a turn-on for us. Many women actually do enjoy it.
 
I always hated oral sex giving or receiving.
 
Lisa said:
I know multiple friends who enjoy it, so you're meeting the wrong women.
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I find it interesting that either discussions or just small talk with your friends brings out their interests in very intimate sexual behavior. I'd think most women would be guarded about letting that info out.
 
JacksinPA said:
I find it interesting that either discussions or just small talk with your friends brings out their interests in very intimate sexual behavior. I'd think most women would be guarded about letting that info out.
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Women talk about these sorts of things. Most women are very open among trusted friends about intimate details of our lives.
 
Lisa said:
Women talk about these sorts of things. Most women are very open among trusted friends about intimate details of our lives.
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I'd love to be a fly on the wall when you ladies get together.
 
It's good either way.
 
I'm sure of that. With topics ranging from 'How I dealt with my gag reflex' to "It's sometimes too big', or 'I wish he could last longer' I'd have to figure out how to live my life with a permanent erection.

What I would be hearing I believe would be even better than sexual fantasies.
 
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JacksinPA said:
Women #6: Giving Oral Sex
Stereotypically, women aren't all that interested in performing fellatio
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Wait, what??? I question that.
I question it not only from my own sixty-three years of personal experience but from every other standpoint that I am aware of.
True, there are women who are not enamored of it but they tend to be rather perfunctory in most other aspects of sex as well, so that may be attributable to them just having a low sex drive.

I do recall one partner forty years ago who said she'd never done it because the idea made her feel cheap, dirty and demeaned
being forced to her knees to do oral sex on a man.
Did it not occur to her that she could instead just have the man lie back while she pleasured him in bed?
Believe it or not, it hadn't...and suddenly she decided that it wasn't demeaning at all...the secret was, I said that if you do it that way,
YOU ARE IN TOTAL control.
She liked that idea.
She thought that the thing men liked about it was the domination aspect of the woman on her knees in front of him.
Well, could be the case with some guys, of course.
But I daresay for a lot of us, it's just getting pleasured that does the trick, getting pleasured and seeing pleasure expressed by the woman.
 
JacksinPA said:
I'm sure of that. With topics ranging from 'How I dealt with my gag reflex' to "It's sometimes too big', or 'I wish he could last longer' I'd have to figure out how to live my life with a permanent erection.

What I would be hearing I believe would be even better than sexual fantasies.
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Yes, maybe, and.......YES,

That's a personal problem.

No comment.
 
JacksinPA said:
The problem I had being on the receiving end of #6 is that in married situations the female partner in my experience is doing it a) because I asked for it or b) she felt it was her obligation to throw me a bone on occasion. I never met a woman who did #6 purely to pleasure me. Odd.
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She threw you a bone .. or was it the other way? :)
 
Lisa said:
Yes, maybe, and.......YES,

That's a personal problem.

No comment.
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I think this could be a new form of porn: verbal discussion among women who are close friends. An hour or two over tea or better, cocktails. That goes to the Latin expression Pange lingua (loose my tongue). We'd edit out the dry parts abut things like baby sitters & grocery store coupons, of course.
 
jotathought said:
She threw you a bone .. or was it the other way? :)
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I always had to bring up the subject, which gets tired after a while. There is something special about a woman being spontaneous instead of always being on the submissive side.
 
JacksinPA said:
I find it interesting that either discussions or just small talk with your friends brings out their interests in very intimate sexual behavior. I'd think most women would be guarded about letting that info out.
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Heh heh heh, when women don't think men are around, or if they trust the ones who are...your jaw would hit the floor.
Even so called "saved" ladies WILL GO THERE.
I swear to you this is a capsulized transcript of a convo between FOUR women who were members of a choir for a VERY well known gospel musician.
Okay? CHURCH LADIES...

"Oh I still love Prince, he may be a little man but I bet he is packing."
"Oh girl, you know he will just let you come and come as much as you want"
"I know that's right"
"I would do him in the sanctuary if that's what he wanted!"

"How about Denzel?"
"Ooooooooo damn now that is a man, I would climb him like a tree!"
"You ever have a white guy?"
"I like the Jewish white guys because they are so loving and respectful and they are always well cut and they are packing honey"
"Uh uhhh, it's the Italian men (shrieks and squeals) you know they are part black" (more shrieks and squeals)
"Would you go downtown?"
"Oh girl in a minute, been there done that!"

This went on for almost fifteen minutes.
I needed a cigarette and a cold shower! 🤣

Church ladies....hee hee hee.

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JacksinPA said:
I'm sure of that. With topics ranging from 'How I dealt with my gag reflex' to "It's sometimes too big', or 'I wish he could last longer' I'd have to figure out how to live my life with a permanent erection.

What I would be hearing I believe would be even better than sexual fantasies.
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It would be, trust me.
 
JacksinPA said:
I think this could be a new form of porn: verbal discussion among women who are close friends. An hour or two over tea or better, cocktails. That goes to the Latin expression Pange lingua (loose my tongue). We'd edit out the dry parts abut things like baby sitters & grocery store coupons, of course.
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That's about one third of ALL porno movie plots for the last fifty years.
 
As far as attractive women go, I'm always interested in what they are wearing underneath their outer clothes. I think a woman's attitude about herself as a sexy person may be commonly expressed by what they put on after they showered & did their kit.

This brings to mind a story my wife told me about her father, who was an M.D. who went to medical school during the Depression & was an officer in the Navy during WW2. He insisted that her mother wear the dark stockings with the vertical dark seam in the back. This was the age of the garter belt. And he got what he wanted from her.
 
JacksinPA said:
As far as attractive women go, I'm always interested in what they are wearing underneath their outer clothes. I think a woman's attitude about herself as a sexy person may be commonly expressed by what they put on after they showered & did their kit.

This brings to mind a story my wife told me about her father, who was an M.D. who went to medical school during the Depression & was an officer in the Navy during WW2. He insisted that her mother wear the dark stockings with the vertical dark seam in the back. This was the age of the garter belt. And he got what he wanted from her.
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Like this? https://www.cervin-store.com/en/15-seam-stockings


Wearing garters can be sexy but getting the seams straight can be annoying and tedious. Most of them snag if you look at them wrong. I have a cat and its a guarantee that they will last exactly 8 hours, despite being $20.00 or more.
 
JacksinPA said:
As far as attractive women go, I'm always interested in what they are wearing underneath their outer clothes. I think a woman's attitude about herself as a sexy person may be commonly expressed by what they put on after they showered & did their kit.

This brings to mind a story my wife told me about her father, who was an M.D. who went to medical school during the Depression & was an officer in the Navy during WW2. He insisted that her mother wear the dark stockings with the vertical dark seam in the back. This was the age of the garter belt. And he got what he wanted from her.
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Sounds like a David Lee Roth song.
 
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