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Someone PLEASE give me an argument against Marriage Equality

They do not discriminate at all. They just do not recognize a civil union between two men as a marriage, just as kosher laws do not recognize non-kosher foods as kosher.

Marriage laws do discriminate. A man cannot marry a man, but a woman can marry a man. That is discrimination.

Kosher laws are not legal laws. They are not bound by the 14th Amendment in any way. Marriage laws are bound by the 14th Amendment as long as they remain part of a legal contract that offers legal benefits/rights/responsibilities to any two people.

We already discussed this. It is irrelevant.

On the contrary, just because you don't like something, does not make it irrelevant. Refuting my arguments with facts would be a much a better way of showing me wrong than simply declaring that my argument doesn't matter.

We are discussing legal marriage and how it being a traditional that it is between a man and woman only is important to keeping it that way. I showed you how one specific tradition concerning marriage was overturned because laws cannot be held up on tradition alone.

We are discussing marriage in its cultural and sociological context.

No, we are discussing marriage in its legal context. It is only legally that same sex marriage is not allowed.

But even if we were to include its cultural and sociological context, we would find that these have changed multiple times from their "traditional" forms. Each time the "its traditionally been this way" has been used and the change still occurred.

That is irrelevant to the fact that marriage is traditionally a heterosexual affair and that the State has an interest in preserving the cultural integrity of the tradition.

It is completely relevant since common arguments have been used against both, including your own "appeal to tradition". If there were really a legal standing for a legitimate state interest being "preserving the cultural integrity of the tradition", then slavery could still be legal today. And interracial marriage would still be banned in some states since they would be able to claim this as a legitimate defense of discriminatory laws.
 
That may be true. On the other hand, the one constant in the marriage tradition for the last 10,000 years has been that it a heterosexual affair between a man and woman.

No its not. There have been cultures, including Greece, that have allowed same sex marriage. In fact, various tribes have allowed same sex marriage throughout their history. In fact, quite a number of cultures now, including some here in the US include homosexuals and/or same sex couples as being recognized as "married". And at least one country allows group marriages, more than two people are married to all the rest, so that would have to include at least one same sex partnership.

Not to mention, homosexuals have been getting into opposite sex marriages for those 10K years as well. Their being in an opposite sex marriage does not make them heterosexual.

The only constant that has existed for marriage throughout every culture and all the centuries has been that marriage unites people as legal family. It creates legal bonds between families. Nothing else is more constant than that when it comes to marriage, including marriage being between a man and a woman.

I disagree. The state has a definite interest in recognizing and supporting some cultural traditions. Christmas is one of them. Marriage is another.

You believe it has such an interest. Find me a ruling by the SCOTUS, that applies to laws today, that says that cultural traditions is a definite state interest that can be used to uphold laws that would otherwise be in violation of the 14th Amendment.

You cannot hi-jack something that already belongs to you.

Sure you can, if other people believe and make laws that say it doesn't.

Actually, marriage has, by-and-large, consistently remained a heterosexual affair across cultures and continents, since the dawn of human civilization. Same-sex marriages have been so historically exceptional that they represent little more than cultural plagiarism and parody. I believe we have discussed this already.

It doesn't matter how "exceptional" those marriages were, they existed. Which means that marriage has not just been a heterosexual affair.

As I have said before, the only thing that has remained completely true about marriage throughout human history has been that it legally binds those within each union as legal family.

Just the same, non-heterosexuals can and do get married (ie: Edward II of England for one). Indeed, over the ages, many a non-hetero has married often out of family expectations or political necessisty.

But non-Christians do not have to pretend that they are Christian in order to receive the benefits of getting paid extra or time off for Christmas. In fact, a person doesn't even have to pretend they have plans to celebrate the holiday or during the day at all to get those benefits.

The government does not refer to Christmas as Yule, or Saturnalia, or Winter Solstice, Channukah, or any of a long list of names for various winter festivals which have existed throughout the course of human history. It recognizes Christmas as "Christmas" due to its historic popularity with the overwhelming majority of its citizenry.

Right, it does. Doesn't make it right. Anyone wishing to challenge the use of the word "Christmas" as being wrong could do so.

And the only way that the federal government would be able to win the case to keep Christmas a legal holiday that is called "Christmas" would be to show that it does not discriminate against any person, no matter their religious beliefs, or other characteristics, in how the federal government's legal rules for the holiday are legally upheld.

They cannot do this with marriage because they do not even have a separate institution for same sex relationships currently that gives all the same benefits of marriage, no matter the two people's sex.

No, they have taken nothing. They are just going along for the ride, which is something that gays can do with the marriage tradition as long as they marry someone of the opposite sex. If they want to enter into a same-sex civil union they should do so under a different title.

On the contrary, as I have said previously, in order to get the legal benefits of Christmas, a person does not have to pretend to be Christian or even pretend to celebrate the holiday at all. There is no obligation to anyone in gaining the legal benefits of Christmas that require a person to compromise themselves in order to participate. That cannot be said about marriage. In order for a homosexual to get the legal benefits of marriage, especially a homosexual with a partner of the same sex that they want to be their legal spouse and have those benefits/rights/responsibilities that come with legal marriage, they would have to compromise that by giving those rights/benefits/responsibilities to another person, one who is of the opposite sex just to satisfy the discriminatory requirement of the marriage contract.

It is interesting how you cannot see the problem with dismissing the argument that interracial marriage is so similar to same sex marriage, but you compare it to something like Christmas that isn't even close to the same thing. Notice how easily I can change your argument against same sex marriage to be against interracial marriage (which was indeed used as an argument against interracial marriage being legal):

"...which is something that those who are attracted to people of another race can do with the marriage tradition as long as they marry someone of the same race. If they want to enter into an interracial civil union they should do so under a different title"
 
We are discussing marriage in its cultural and sociological context.

After reading some of your posts, I can honestly say you are one of the most poorly informed people on the history and sociology of marriage that I have ever encountered on this forum. For Christ sakes dude, two different Roman emperors were married to a same sex partner! That is all I really have to say. There really isn't any point in debating people who don't even bother to inform themselves.
 
Sig, what part of stop posting in this thread until you have something other than appeal to tradition did you not understand????????

You're a broken record playing a logical fallacy.

You got a real case to make, make it. But Appeal to Tradition is a fallacy.

its always funny to see the few posters like Sig get owned in these types of thread with irrational logic, fallacies and the misconception that their opinion is fact and should be forced on others to rob them of their freedoms
 
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