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And if both parents choose abandonment? (ie real abandonment where the baby is put into a sack and left outdoors for the animals)
I'm not saying a man should be allowed to just walk off and never talk to the woman again and she should have no recourse. Here's how I envision this working.
A man and woman have casual sex and she gets pregnant.
She decides she's not aborting.
She should then be required to inform the man in writing within a reasonable length of time (30 days maybe?) that she's pregnant and does not intend to abort.
The man then has the same length of time to decide if he wants to be a father or not. If he does, then he'll either help her raise the child, or she can give up her rights towards it and he'll raise it alone. If not, he is required to sign legally binding documents giving up all rights and responsibilities towards the child and present them to the woman.
If the father doesn't sign those documents and just leaves, then he can be held accountable by the law for child support just like he can now.