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Should a Man have an Absolute Right to Choose to Abort His Baby?

Should a Man have an Absolute Right to abort his baby?

  • Yes, but only during the first 20 weeks, same as a woman.

    Votes: 3 3.4%
  • Yes, but only during the initial period when a non-invasive technique works.

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • No, but he should have the right to be legally relieved of all responsibility.

    Votes: 44 49.4%
  • NO! Only the woman has this right and he remains responsible.

    Votes: 18 20.2%
  • I oppose all abortion, so neither have the right.

    Votes: 19 21.3%
  • I Don't Know.

    Votes: 5 5.6%

  • Total voters
    89
Being pro-life wasn't the only criteria. It is the dastardly combination of being both pro-life AND believing that men should have the right to evade supporting their own child.

That's not what you said, now is it? It doesn't matter though. I think I've gotten all I can out of this thread, chief among what I've learned is what a powerless victim I am to women (I always suspected as much) and that I can choose to opt out of the consequences of my actions (that'll come in handy with my next speeding ticket).
 
Which actually seems quite fair, since society puts an obligation on women to actually give up those aforementioned 18 years to raise a child...

Women can give up the kid even at the hospital right after it's born. No one is forcing women to raise the kid even when they decide to carry it to term. Try some other argument.
 

Nobody is saying that she does not have the absolute right or that she has any chance of losing control of her body... I hear this and I think "where is this coming from? Because I ain't being heard AT ALL".

...and I didn't realise that as a father I don't have any responsibility and she was stuck with my kids for 18 years and I wasn't. In fact, as a single father that has more custody that she does... I have more responsibility than she does.
 
That's exactly what I said. I was talking about those here are suggesting men should have the right to opt out of supporting their child. I pointed out those who are pro-life and gave two examples of how they are looking for a way to evade being responsible for their own kid.
 

All good...
 

Apparently logic is subjective, because in my opinion your posts are lacking it.
 
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There are no inconvenient reasons allowed after viability unless you think major psychological damage which falls under irrepable damage to a major bodilily function in Kansas law is an inconvenience reason I myself don't ...to me the brain ( mind ) is a major bodiliy function.

Woman's age .. A 10 year old body is at risk during a pregnancy , same with a 50 some year old in some cases also falls under irreparable damage in Kansas law.

And there were only 132 cases major irreparable damage to a major bodily function which also included things like kidney, liver, and other organ failure in 2008 in Kansas.

Risk to life/ major bodilily function and not being viable are the reasons allowed after limit of viability in Kansas.

The reason non viability - still birth and the fetus being so malformed it will only live a few hours or minutes are extreme cases are because if the fetus dies in the womb and is not removed quickly it can turn septic and cause a life threatening infection in the woman.

Therefore the viability reason is really a risk of the woman's life reason but it is recorded as non viable in the Kansas records.
 
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She is specifically paying to support the child so "Yes, she's paying child support"

What she isn't paying is "court-ordered child support".

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When a father wins custody of the child /children the mother is often required child support.

That happened to one of friends daughters just recently.
 
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...and if the man could opt out the woman would be more careful, selective and safe... .

And if a woman could chose to opt out or not opt out the man would more careful, selective and safe.

Oh snap.... Women do have a choice but men are still being careless, non selective and are still having unprotected sex with women they don't want to have children with.
 

That is invasive, an infringement of rights.

How is giving men the right to dictate this, dissimilar to giving women the right to abort a living child...? Objectively a child's body is his, not the mother's. As the mother's body is hers, not the father's. If it's an infringement of the child's rights to allow the mother to abort, it's even more complex an infringement of the mother's rights for a male to force her to abort against her will.

You couldn't realistically enforce a law like that without huge difficulty. Apart from all the other issues, maternal and protective instinct is triggered for some women on pregnancy, which might result in the male being dispatched for threatening the child...

The male however, could take responsibility and not create the pregnancy in the first place (avoiding the entire question).
 

Kansas District Attorney Kline tried to prosecute Dr. Tiller because Dr. Tiller aborted viable fetuses in extreme cases including a viable fetus of a 10 year girl.

Dr. Tiller was acquitted of the charges.

George Tiller, Kansas Doctor, Acquitted In Late-Term Abortion Case

It did not matter to Kline that the girls life was at risk...It only mattered that the fetus was viable.
It was one of the extreme cases that is supposed to be allowed under Doe v Bolton.


From the following article:
<SNIP>

Ann Kristin Neuhaus, Doctor And Tiller Colleague, Is The Latest Casualty In Kansas Abortion War
 
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The male however, could take responsibility and not create the pregnancy in the first place (avoiding the entire question).

Couldn't the woman do that as well? I know it's very simple for a man to control that, but isn't both that are responsible? If both parents must support this child and both are involved in it's conception, both should be involved in the decision making.

As wrong as this may sound it is the absolute truth, women are the gate keepers. I can't imagine that, and it isn't fair but it is reality. Men never will get the say so in whether or not their child is allowed to be born, they will never get to know the feeling of having the child grow inside of them. That isn't fair, but it is reality.

I think that the option to terminate a pregnancy should be shared between the two parents. but then again the child is inside of the womens body. It's difficult if you think about it after she is pregnant. But before it's really a mutual issue.
 
Consenting to sex is consenting to have a child, and SCOTUS doesn't need to say it for it to be true, so asking for SCOTUS quotes is just stupid.

What is stupid is you continually saying something that isn't true.
And when asked to provide proof of your assertion you fail to do so.


If it were true you could show it.
You fail because you can't, because it isn't true.

If you want to believe that for yourself go straight on ahead.
Doesn't change the fact that it isn't true.


If it were a true statement it would be so for all parties involved, but it just isn't.

Consent to have sex is not consent to have a child.

So, when two men have sex, is that consent to a child? Of course not.
When two women have sex, is that consent to a child? Of course not.

But to you, when a man and a woman have sex, the man is the only one consenting to have children by it. That is an absurd position.
She later consents or doesn't, when she finds out she is pregnant. Not at the time of sex.
You do understand the "or doesn't" part, right?


Consent to have sex is not consent to have a child. Period.
 
...but I am definitely onboard with you in this matter.
Doesn't appear that way.


It's coercion...if women are forced to engage in other choice than they might not have...
It is only coercion to the man.
It is not coercion to remove a choice she should not have.
No one is saying she can't decide to have a child, no one is saying she has to either.

It leads to a woman making a truly informed choice.
Not one that is dependent on an assumption of support that may not come to fruition.





That is invasive, an infringement of rights.
No it is not.


How is giving men the right to dictate this,
Dictate?
He would be given a choice whether or not to support the child, a decision that should be his and his alone.
The woman should not make that decision for him.


You couldn't realistically enforce a law like that without huge difficulty.
What is being proposed is easily enforceable.
Please show us the "Consent to Support" form you filed.
Not filed? No support required.
 
Of course women pay child support. Where on Earth do you come up with this stuff???

No, the woman in this instance has chosen to raise a child. A choice the man was never afforded.


On the contrary, I have yet to see anyone argue in favor of a post-birth abrogation of responsibility assuming he knew of the child.
 

"All Factors" to include "emotional". If the woman emotionally doesn't want a kid, that justifies its' killing. Sure you can push the "age" bit to its extremes and ask what about 10 year olds; which obviates the fact that it equally applies to 28 year olds who think that their family would be negatively effected ("familial", you will recall) by the addition of another child not at all.

Doe v Bolton effectively gets rid of any restrictions by making the "harm" hurdle so broadly defined as to include anything including regular childbirth. I realize that's a problem for you because you've latched on to this artificial barrier of "viability under current technology" as some kind of magical border, but there it is nonetheless.

Heck, up until a few years ago it was still legal to kill the child after birth.
 
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She is specifically paying to support the child so "Yes, she's paying child support"

Incorrect - she is raising a child, which was her choice. If she chooses to put the child up for adoption (end her responsibilities to it) she won't owe a dime in Child Support.

If the father wasn't such a dead beat, neither would he

:shrug: if the father was afforded equal treatment under the law, your argument would have more merit.
 

No it does not because get rid restrictions as seen in the Kansas cases. It does not allow abortions except in extreme emotional/pscological cases. It does allow doctors with some state restriction such as an independent 2ed doctor to make allowances in extreme cases where bodily harm including psychological harm will occur if the pregnancy continued.

Less than .1 percent of all legal abortions in the USA after the limit of viability which is currently at 24 weeks gestation and has remained unchanged for 12 years.
 

As seen in the Kansas case? The Kansas case you cited demonstrates my point, which is that under Doe v Bolton "health" is defined to include "emotional, familial, mental, etc. so on and so forth"., which is to say, to lower the bar to the point of nonexistance. Citing a case where just such a standard was applied doesn't exactly disprove the standard

Less than .1 percent of all legal abortions in the USA after the limit of viability which is currently at 24 weeks gestation and has remained unchanged for 12 years.

Oh goody :roll: Even if I took your numbers at face value, the murder of millions of children doesn't exactly excuse itself.
 
On the contrary, I have yet to see anyone argue in favor of a post-birth abrogation of responsibility assuming he knew of the child.
They don't realize what you are saying. The underlined.
Heck, it doesn't appear that they understand much.

I set it out in the beginning.
He should have a choice.
To ensure fairness he should also be given roughly the same about of time that she has to make the decision once informed.
Roughly 90 days.
Whether that be before or after the birth.
This ensures that she is not able to coerce him into taking responsibility by not informing him. Which oof course has to be taken into consideration in designing such law.
 

Familial does NOT refer to family members but rather to a Prenatal diagnosis of familial genetic disorders like the following one I linked.

From the PUB Med website:

Prenatal diagnosis of familial dysautonomia b... [Am J Med Genet. 1995] - PubMed - NCBI
 

I am curious, don't both parents have to agree to adoption?
 
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Oh goody :roll: Even if I took your numbers at face value, the murder of millions of children doesn't exactly excuse itself.

Millions of post viable fetuses are NOT being aborted.

Less than .1 percent of all legal abortions that take in USA are of viable fetuses and those are the extreme cases that I have mentioned numerous times.
 
So your beef is that women have more options then men? How about premenstrual medications? Do you have a beef because women have more options with those too?

They think the law should make everyone equal instead of merely treating everyone equally

I have the option to buy a Porsche, so maybe the law should allow everyone to have a Porsche

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