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Yes, I know all about that. Trust me. You won't see me on this board every day, either. But this is a bit of a cop out, honestly. We're on a debate board. If you have time to compile a detailed list like that, you can make time to back it up. But if you're not prepared to defend the content of the arguments you offer, you shouldn't offer them.Because I have limited time, and I'd like to see how you react to one of the points before investing the time in digging them all up.
You mention nuclear family here, hence let's use that as an example.
I don't think you'll find a stronger statement than is made by Ms. Andray Domise in Maclean's Magazine (a major publication here in Canada, like 'Newsweek' in the US):
Andray Domise? Who the heck is that? And why would you assume that he represents whomever you conveniently (and murkily) describe as "they"? As I suggested previously, if you're going to make the case that "they" (i.e. African-Americans/minorities/liberals/progressives/"the left"/etc.) believe that everything on that ridiculous list you posted.....is "racist".....you can't just post an opinion piece from some random dude as "proof". That's ridiculous. What you're actually doing is scapegoating. Mr. Domise is one man. He speaks for every himself. Just as (and I assume you agree) someone like David Duke or Louis Gohmert doesn't speak for all white conservatives. Right? So the Domise op/ed is hardly a convincing argument....instead, it's an affirmation of your existing bias.
And, just as importantly, I think you completely misunderstand the message in that column. He's not saying that the "nuclear family" is a negative. He's saying that the parameters by which that term is defined (by white people) is bad and destructive. And there is a lot of merit to that argument. As the old African adage goes: "It takes a village to raise a child". Does that mean that the traditional western concept of a 'nuclear family" is bad? Of course not. It just means that another perspective can (and should) be held in equal esteem, by others.
The question I have for you, about this, is....why does it threaten you to see a perspective that differs from yours?
I don't know much about Oh Canada. But I do know about our National Anthem in the US....which is certainly offensive to many who know the lyrics. But again, I think you're misrepresenting the whole "national anthem" controversy, as well.If you read the entire article, it links to a similar piece on why 'Oh Canada!' is racist, which touches on another item in the list.
Do you honestly take offense to those who choose not to stand for the anthem (or the Pledge of Allegiance) in public venues?
Not at all. This strikes me as the kind of thing said by someone who conflates Socialism, Communism and Marxism. But nothing in that excerpt (nor in the entire piece) remotely hints at "Marxism". That's just an absurd leap of logic on your part.Also, if this excerpt strikes you as having been ripped straight out of Marx' treatise on the family: no, it's not just you.
The Nuclear Family was a Mistake - The Atlantic
Without critiquing the substance of the column, I'll just note that the author (David Brooks) is a noted CONSERVATIVE columnist here in the U.S. Brooks is a "Reagan Rebublican" who supported Bush Sr., Bush Jr, John McCain and Mitt Romney in previous presidential races. He's nobody's idea of a liberal/lefty/Democrat/African-American/etc (i.e. "they", as you would say).
So, what does that say about your argument, that such a noted WHITE CONSERVATIVE such as David Brooks would pen an op/ed/critique of the modern concept of "nuclear family"? Please, be candid in your response.
The White Nuclear Family Perpetuates Racism - Campus Reform
Ok, so a professor at CUNY says that nuclear family perpetuates racism. Got it.
But how does the opinion of one random academic allow you to translate that into a general condemnation of "they" (blacks, liberals, progressives, the left, etc.), as you have?
Talking About Race - Smithsonian
Correct me if I'm in error, but there is not one mention of the "nuclear family" in the link. And the infographic doesn't attack the nuclear family at all. It just defines it.[see the referenced infographic here]
I don't get the relevance. Please elaborate further.[/quote]
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