So, your answer is, 'No'. And, my dear, your experience is NOT irrelevant in the least. Just because you say it is does not does NOT make it so and even further shows the immaturity/lack of experience in your answer.
REALITY is that when a soldier openly admits he is homosexual, it unintentionally affects the 'chemistry' and social/psychological make-up of a group. that change/shift can possibly be deadly in a combat environment where everyone must rely on everyone else, no hesitations! I am not debating if the fact that a homosexual is in the military should not matter - I would potentially agree with you. But you can not argue that my previous statement IS NOT true. YOU can not tell a squad that their newly-IDed buddy'e preferance of gay will NOT affect them adversely one bit...whether they buy into that, whether it does or not, is entirely up to them!
As a squad leader, in this example, I will do whatever it takes to eliminate any and all sources of conflict and division in my ranks before I take my team into combat...for team cohesion!
WHY did the U.S. goverment create the Tuskeegee Airmen? Why didn't they just force the Blacks and whites to fly together? You know darn well because it was for cohesion, because they hated each other, fought, and would NOT fly together...at 1st!
Just because there is a policy right now that prohibits openly gay members to join and fight in the military does not mean that is the end of it. I believe that we are in the early stages of the same thing the Tuskeegee Airmen faced. Maybe it will happen for gays, maybe not. But you can not argue that gays in the military don't matter any more than you could argue that Blacks and whites should have been thrust together back then! It took time, and the way people thought and felt could not be changed over night! I wonder how many blacks died at the hands of whites or vice versa in how many different situations in the military before we finally got to where we are today?
No, Kelzie - experience and the grasp of what I just related has EVERYTHING to do with it!