lol...it's ok, man, it's not an insult, or it wasn't meant to be anyway... You give up on a guy pretty quick with your "And here I thought you actually wanted an honest conversation". I'm having an honest conversation, maybe I used an insensitive word? I don't know how else to refer to it.
To draw parallel's, I have a smoke detector in my house because the thought of being without one in the event of a fire is scary, so I do the responsible thing and have a smoke detector. I do any number of things, not just because they are on a list somewhere as "responsible", but also because I'm motivated by the "fear" of the consequences of not doing so. Yet I never miss having a gun in my life for protection. I never feel fear as a result of that, but I would be nervous AF to live in a house that didn't have smoke detectors.
But I realize that's a privilege, and that life isn't like that everywhere, so I'm not making any judgements about Americans who do feel that way. Acknowledging and acting on one's fear in a way to mitigate is just a long way of describing the act of being responsible. I'm not anti gun at all, man, don't give up on me yet!