Question for Females...

[RightOfCenter]

Does it feel different for you when I guy wears a condom? I hate wearing them, and rarely do, but what do you think about them?

 

[herenow1]

Does it feel different for you when I guy wears a condom? I hate wearing them, and rarely do, but what do you think about them?

Of course it does, but it's the better of the two options(if you are sleeping around). The possibility of unwanted pregnancies and possible std's decrease . One of the perks of being in a mongomous relationship or marriage, is that you can enjoy the skin on skin contact. Nothin like it:2razz:

 

[Anima]

Does it feel different for you when I guy wears a condom? I hate wearing them, and rarely do, but what do you think about them?

I don't notice much difference really, aside from the fact that when the guy's wearing one, I enjoy myself more because I can relax and concentrate on the sex and not the risk of STD's/pregnancy. All in all, I'm a big fan of condoms: cheap, reasonably effective, easy to get a hold off and none of the side effects of the hormonal BC.

 

[Kayleigh Katz]

A feels a little different but not in a bad way. I've heard way more guys complain about them than girls... come to think of it I can't really ever recall a girl complaining about how they feel. :shrug:

 

[1069]

I don't notice much difference.

 

[Anima]

Of course it does, but it's the better of the two options(if you are sleeping around). The possibility of unwanted pregnancies and possible std's decrease . One of the perks of being in a mongomous relationship or marriage, is that you can enjoy the skin on skin contact. Nothin like it:2razz:

See, I'm in a monogamous realtionship, we're both clean, but I couldn't throw away the condoms. Too paranoid. I'm a big believer in doubling up when it coes to BC. (hell, tripling up, if I could )

 

[herenow1]

See, I'm in a monogamous realtionship, we're both clean, but I couldn't throw away the condoms. Too paranoid. I'm a big believer in doubling up when it coes to BC. (hell, tripling up, if I could )

I hear you. There were times that we used condoms as birth control(until he got the 'v') but there were times I just tod him, heck with it take it off(it really wasn't going to be the end of the world if i became pregers) b/c I just couldn't get into it. It's hard to go back to the latex after experiencing and enjoying sex without it. I'm sure it's psychological tho, if you know that you don't have a choice, you can still enjoy it.

 

[Thorgasm]

Some women are allergic to latex.

 

[mikhail]

I hate condoms why is there more focus on cures for stds its more important than cancer if you think about it.Sex is pretty much the only thing you can do now thats really fun for free,and i have to put my **** in a bag to do it.

 

[rivrrat]

I hate condoms. I'm sensitive/allergic to latex for one thing, so I can definitely feel it immediately. I don't like the lack of sensation from skin to skin contact, and I can't feel it nearly as well when my partner cums... and I LOVE the way it feels when he cums. Sometimes his orgasm can make me orgasm, but not so with condoms.

So, I hate them.

 

[Shewter]

I hate condoms why is there more focus on cures for stds its more important than cancer if you think about it.Sex is pretty much the only thing you can do now thats really fun for free,and i have to put my **** in a bag to do it.

Since when was sex free? :lol:

 

[Anima]

I hate condoms why is there more focus on cures for stds its more important than cancer if you think about it.Sex is pretty much the only thing you can do now thats really fun for free,and i have to put my **** in a bag to do it.

And women either end up with coils of copper stuck up where the sun don't shine, or hormonal BC and all it's attendent side-effects. If you compare "having to put your **** in a bag" to the possibility of weight-gain, nausea, depression, increased risk of some cancers, high blood pressure, etc. you guys are getting off pretty easily.

 

[1069]

And women either end up with coils of copper stuck up where the sun don't shine, or hormonal BC and all it's attendent side-effects. If you compare "having to put your **** in a bag" to the possibility of weight-gain, nausea, depression, increased risk of some cancers, high blood pressure, etc. you guys are getting off pretty easily.

OMG, my last gyno kept harrassing me to get an IUD. He thought I was getting too old for the pill.
I was like, "You're f'ing crazy!"
I can't think about IUDs without thinking about a passage in a book I read called Not Without My Daughter.
It's the memoir of an American woman whose Iranian husband held her and their daughter hostage in Iran after luring them there on what was supposed to be a two-week visit to his family.
Anyway, the woman, Betty Mahmoody, had an IUD, but her husband didn't know about it.
In Iran, that's an offense punishable by death (or was at the time she was held hostage there).
Once she was a hostage, she was afraid he'd find out about the IUD and turn her in to the authorities, so she pulled it out herself, lacerating her cervix in the process.

It's unthinkable. I would never under any circumstances consider allowing them to put one of those in me.
What if one didn't have medical insurance after the four years or whatever were up? How would one ever get it out?

:crazy3:

It hurts me just to think about it.

 

[Anima]

OMG, my last gyno kept harrassing me to get an IUD. He thought I was getting too old for the pill.
I was like, "You're f'ing crazy!"
I can't think about IUDs without thinking about a passage in a book I read called Not Without My Daughter.
It's the memoir of an American woman whose Iranian husband held her and their daughter hostage in Iran after luring them there on what was supposed to be a two-week visit to his family.
Anyway, the woman, Betty Mahmoody, had an IUD, but her husband didn't know about it.
In Iran, that's an offense punishable by death (or was at the time she was held hostage there).
Once she was a hostage, she was afraid he'd find out about the IUD and turn her in to the authorities, so she pulled it out herself, lacerating her cervix in the process.

It's unthinkable. I would never under any circumstances consider allowing them to put one of those in me.
What if one didn't have medical insurance after the four years or whatever were up? How would one ever get it out?

:crazy3:

It hurts me just to think about it.

Agh, what an awful story. And what if it moves from where the doctor positions it, as it does occasionally? It's apparently a pretty effective metod, and not as uncomfortable as it sounds, but I prefer to stick to the Pill.

The idea of the coil actually bothers me slightly less than the practical side of the injection, though. A coil can generally be removed if anything goes wrong, but if your body reacts negatively to the BC injection, you're pretty much stuck with the side effects until the hormones wear off. And some of those things are effective for months. Great if it works for you, absolutely awful if it doesn't.

 

[Kayleigh Katz]

:crazy3:

It hurts me just to think about it.

Yeah, it does... thanks for sharing. :doh

 

[Kayleigh Katz]

Since when was sex free? :lol:

What are you trying to say?

 

[talloulou]

Does it feel different for you when I guy wears a condom? I hate wearing them, and rarely do, but what do you think about them?

I hate 'em. They serve a purpose but I couldn't imagine using them in any long term relationship. :doh

 

[Shewter]

What are you trying to say?

Playing on the cost of the date for the average hook up. Which men are often times "supposed" to pay.

Never dated for sex, but I did pay for a $312.76 dinner and got none. Needless to say we broke up shortly after... like 4 hours after when she said she was going to go out with her friends for a bit.

the food was delicious though... my god.

 

[americanwoman]

Does it feel different for you when I guy wears a condom? I hate wearing them, and rarely do, but what do you think about them?

It's been so long since I used them, but I don't have any good memories of when I used to wear them except I never got pregnant.

 

[missypea]

Does it feel different for you when I guy wears a condom?

Yes

I hate wearing them, and rarely do, but what do you think about them?

Oddly enough, we had to use them for about three months to prevent pregnancy so that we could try to get pregnant. We had a little party when we didn't need them anymore.

It feels like what I imagine a dildo would feel like....fake. Even though we had some fun with it at the time....something new and all that, we both felt it took some intimacy away.

:neutral:

 

[Kayleigh Katz]

Playing on the cost of the date for the average hook up. Which men are often times "supposed" to pay.

Never dated for sex, but I did pay for a $312.76 dinner and got none. Needless to say we broke up shortly after... like 4 hours after when she said she was going to go out with her friends for a bit.

the food was delicious though... my god.

Hey talloulou, are you hearing this? Remember what we talked about before about the assholes that expect sex because they put out for dinner? Well, this is what I was talking about.

 

[talloulou]

Hey talloulou, are you hearing this? Remember what we talked about before about the assholes that expect sex because they put out for dinner? Well, this is what I was talking about.

Well as Felicity likes to say, "If wishes were horses, beggars would ride."

If you want to have sex with a guy who buys you dinner do so. But, unless you told him, "I'll sleep with you if you buy me dinner, " you don't owe him anything. If he's creative and interesting he'll be up to the task of winning your affection. If he wants to pay for it let him go find a whore and conduct a business transaction.

 

[WI Crippler]

I don't know. I've gotten laid after bringing home Chinese food.

 

[talloulou]

I don't know. I've gotten laid after bringing home Chinese food.

My man's gotten laid for mowing the lawn. There's nothing wrong with any of that. There's nothing wrong with making deals or just laying a guy cause you feel he deserves it as a sign of your appreciation.

However the idea that a woman owes you sex because you bought her dinner is wishful thinking. If a woman wants to **** you after dinner God bless her, but unless you had some agreement worked out she doesn't owe you anything more than a thank you.

 

[winston53660]

I've gotten laid after she bought dinner.