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Re: "Logical" reasons for disagreeing with homosexuality.
Your statements assume a few things. First, it is sexual behavior that puts gay men at greater risk, not being gay. Gay men who do not practice anal sex are not really at any greater risk than any of the rest of the population and they are certainly at a lower risk that those who do, whether heterosexual or homosexual.
The dating pool argument is also very relative. There are heterosexual men, who despite having a vastly greater number of potential partners, are unable to find a suitable mate due to their high, unrealistic standards. In fact, in some ways gays are advantaged in that they are limited because that often forces them to settle for less than perfect and to form a more realistic relationship. More choice is not necessarily a good thing.
As far as reproductive, gays are incentivized to adopt and provide homes for children who need them or to go through great pains and expense to have their children biologically, which filters out those who likely would not be committed parents. There is also something to be said that gays, more often than not, choose when they have kids, whereas heterosexuals have often experienced the great disadvantage of the unplanned pregnancy.
It truly is just different. I have never viewed being gay as a handicap.
It's different in a way that causes profound difficulties in one of the more important functions of life. Even accounting for reproductive assistance (which can be difficult and expensive) your potential dating pool is drastically reduced and-- as a homosexual male-- you are considerably more susceptible to sexually-transmitted diseases and various cancers. The argument that it's a negative for society is vaguely ridiculous and based on some truly specious logic... but the argument that it's negative for the people so afflicted is pretty obvious.
Your statements assume a few things. First, it is sexual behavior that puts gay men at greater risk, not being gay. Gay men who do not practice anal sex are not really at any greater risk than any of the rest of the population and they are certainly at a lower risk that those who do, whether heterosexual or homosexual.
The dating pool argument is also very relative. There are heterosexual men, who despite having a vastly greater number of potential partners, are unable to find a suitable mate due to their high, unrealistic standards. In fact, in some ways gays are advantaged in that they are limited because that often forces them to settle for less than perfect and to form a more realistic relationship. More choice is not necessarily a good thing.
As far as reproductive, gays are incentivized to adopt and provide homes for children who need them or to go through great pains and expense to have their children biologically, which filters out those who likely would not be committed parents. There is also something to be said that gays, more often than not, choose when they have kids, whereas heterosexuals have often experienced the great disadvantage of the unplanned pregnancy.
It truly is just different. I have never viewed being gay as a handicap.