This discourse is going in too many directions to provide a concise, coherent response. I'll take it in chunks.
Respectfully, doing away with that broad space in the middle smacks very much of a totalitarian "Everything that is not forbidden is mandatory".
Ultimately that's bad for all of us.
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Again, you're taking too narrow a view, and at the same time making too broad an assertion, but actually proving my point in a backhanded way. "doing away with that broad space in the middle smacks very much of a totalitarian". Respectfully, you have it backwards,
again.
Allowing the erosion of principles to
permit otherwise
prohibited activities brings
in totalitarianism.
Let's start here with two iron clad constitutional principles: no
establishment of religion, and
equal protection under the laws. Could the State, on its own, bar this Jewish couple from foster services because of their faith?
No. I think we can agree that both the equal protection and religion clauses prohibit that. We have, therefore, established the
principle.
Can the State
prohibit an agency from providing otherwise permitted services simply because it is a religious organization? In principle,
no, and on the same basis.
Can the State determine, even dictate, the standards upon which such services are rendered?
Yes, because those services are being provide at the behest of, and at the expense of, the State.
This is where the current court has wandered so far off the track and from the bedrock principles of the Constitution. Requiring compliance with State standards of services does not infringe on religious liberties, period. Is the provision of State services a "free exercise of religion"? Obviously not. When a religious organization does so on a parallel basis it enters a realm where the States interest predominates.
Here's another example: A State prohibits consumption of alcohol by minors. Can a State prohibit imbibing as part of a religious service?
Probably not. Can the State deny a church a liquor license? Again, probably not. Can the State prevent all liquor licensees, including the church, from serving minors at that facility? Yes.