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Is having sex with transgender women gay?

What do these three people all have in common?
By the way, it would be great if you would answer my question instead of dodging and deflecting.

What IS "trans ideology"?
Already been stated to MD: the ideology that any sort of absurdity is justified in the ideologue's quest to validate "trans rights." I gave you examples of the absurdity the three convicts have in common, and you deflected away from it. Good luck with that.
 
If they say they're straight they're lying.
We shouldn't leave out a "Crying Game" situation, where the poseur doesn't inform the male of the poseur's original (even if rejected) nature.
 
Ever notice that from the right, the argument is almost always about men who are transwomen...but not about women who are transmen?

It's very one-sided for them. It's as if they are willing to give women who go as transmen a pass for some reason.

So, for the right, is one gay for having sex with a transman?
How many transmen are competing with biological males in sports?

Are there any seeking to get into men's prisons?

Both of those absurdities are the main reason Cons abjure trans ideology. FWIW, there are also statistically more men seeking to be women than the opposite.
 
Two dudes getting together for sexual behavior is not straight nothing you said invalidated this sentence

Ah, OK.

I thought you were implying any response to a TS woman, even instinctive behavior like blushing or an ‘tingle” at being touched unexpectedly from extraordinarily passable TS women, from a man implied that man wasn’t straight.

What I was stating is straight men instinctively responds to the feminine. So if a TS women is pulling that off successfully a straight man is going to respond to it the way any straight man would respond to the feminine if it’s aimed at him out of the blue.

If a “straight” man is interacting directly with a penis in sexual activity that’s not what I would call straight behavior. If you’re limiting it to that we are in the same page.
 
So you can't tell that this is a cross-dresser?



And you’re telling everyone else you could absolutely tell these TS women are TS walking past you on the street?

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I’m telling you that with the modern medication therapy, the surgery today, and the vocal feminization procedures, etc, it’s not the *80’s ”I can always tell” days.

If you live in a big city, especially one with an international population, you’re passing by and even briefly interacting with TS people and not necessarily knowing it.

That first shot is Victoria Secret’s runway model Valentina Sampaio, who is a TS woman.

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The runway model I was taking about in my earlier post looks very much like her and is also Brazilian.
 
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I keep asking you what this exceptions to rules argument that you keep making is all about. I don't get it. What exceptions and to who's rule? Yours? Nature's? You can't seem to explain it to me but you sure do keep making it. 😂
It's society's established rules-- for one, the separation of males and females in sports-- that you keep kicking against, by finding exceptions to those rules that you imagine will invalidate said rules.
What are you trying to say? You were arguing about consensus and instead of furthering that argument you decide to come back with this exceptions to rules thing. What does that have to do with your attempts to rely on consensus to attack my link about the biological components of trans identities?
I'm not responsible for your straw man. I didn't define the objectivity of *particular* rules in terms of consensus, but in terms of practical reality. There's no society that doesn't have the practical need to legislate against theft and rape. Your pointing out ways that particular individuals get around the rules does not invalidate those rules in the least.
That's not what I'm saying. Can you quote where I said anything at all about not holding people accountable for their actions? No you can't.
When I brought up the corrupt motives for trans women convicts to seek inclusion into women's prisons, you shifted to critique the prisons for not being able to watch every convict. That was you not holding trans women accountable for their actions.
I did and I still stand by that. That's an argument about the subjectivity of desire. That isn't me saying I don't subjectively desire to hold people who objectively harm others accountable.
And your relativistic argument discounts objective differences between the motives of the person wreaking harm and the person suffering harm.
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Wrong again. I'm saying address rape and assault in prison and then you don't have to worry about whom goes where. Do you care about rape and assault in prison or just about when a trans person is doing it?
Like I said, you want to blame the system and not the people committing the acts. I argue that rape and assault cannot be totally prevented in prisons due to the practical limits on oversight, but virtue signaling Lefties encourage bad behavior on the part of a marginalized group and then act surprised when more women get raped and assaulted.
That was a good bit of strawmaning fantasy by you. You should be good at it, you get a lot of practice.... 😂
Lib States make laws to protect the gender identity of trans convicts even when those laws obviate the state's responsibility to biologically female convicts. Nope, no strawmen there.
Correct, except for the part where you suggest I reject subjective impressions. So there is a biological compenent to all identities, including trans ones.
Your argument re: "the subjectivity of desire," as phrased by you, should admit of no exceptions since you won't distinguish between the rapist and the victim. But somehow the subjective desires of the trans individual merit an exception. Why?
Who's arguing that she can't identify more with black culture? Are you trying to invalidate subjective impressions? 😂
Still pointing out that one Rachel's subjective impressions are as valid as the other Rachel's.:rolleyes:
I quoted her saying she'd pretend to be a African queen. Its her own words guy....
She argued that her African identity superseded the biological reality. That was her actual meaning when she brought up "social construct," not that she was lying, but that she felt the freedom to "construct" her own ethnic reality in defiance of society's.
That's the difference between me and you. You are so frail that you have to believe other people's interpretations and perspectives are false, rather than just different from yours. That's why when I responded I said it sounds to me like she's talking about cultural identity. I don't care if you feel those quotes mean something differently to you. I only posted them so everyone can put their interpretation up against yours to share the amusement I received from yours. 😂
Your subjective feelings of amusement are not supported by anything objective, least of all your false interpretation of what Dolazel meant.
 
No whining here, just wondering where the beef is. You're so frail you couldn't post the sentence that came before the one you quoted because it frames the sentence you did quote around a lack of counter arguments. 😂
Your lie about the lack of counter arguments was invalidated by your false criteria, which come down to the same thing you always say: "agree with me or you're frail." Yet you hypocritically complain about ad hominems. :poop:
 
Already been stated to MD: the ideology that any sort of absurdity is justified in the ideologue's quest to validate "trans rights." I gave you examples of the absurdity the three convicts have in common, and you deflected away from it. Good luck with that.

You expect people to assume all trans people have criminal tendencies.
I don't deflect at all, although to you my refusal to vector straight to those anecdotal examples of convicted criminals must feel like deflection because you'd feel deflection if you had anti-gravity boots on.
 
So you can't tell that this is a cross-dresser?

What makes him a cross dresser? At one point dresses were as much a men's fashion as women's, so what's to stop it from being so again? That is why I asked the question of where the line is of when a given type of clothing counts towards cross dressing and when it no longer does.
 
We shouldn't leave out a "Crying Game" situation, where the poseur doesn't inform the male of the poseur's original (even if rejected) nature.
So basically if the person lies about something about themselves, there is a legal consequence? How far do you want to go with that?
 
And you’re telling everyone else you could absolutely tell these TS women are TS walking past you on the street?

Opponents will often claim that they can tell, and even lie if you present a picture of a transwoman and ask if they can tell. The real test is to give them a mix of pictures and see if they can pick out the trans woman and even better include some cis women that have been mistaken for men before. That's where the true test lies. It does get harder to do it on a format like this, since image search is now a thing.
 
And you’re telling everyone else you could absolutely tell these TS women are TS walking past you on the street?

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I’m telling you that with the modern medication therapy, the surgery today, and the vocal feminization procedures, etc, it’s not the *80’s ”I can always tell” days.

If you live in a big city, especially one with an international population, you’re passing by and even briefly interacting with TS people and not necessarily knowing it.

That first shot is Victoria Secret’s runway model Valentina Sampaio, who is a TS woman.

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The runway model I was taking about in my earlier post looks very much like her and is also Brazilian.
Some trannies are more passable than others I suppose. Did you have a point?
 
What makes him a cross dresser? At one point dresses were as much a men's fashion as women's, so what's to stop it from being so again?
Doesn't matter if it can become so again. It isn't so now. The same way a pile of scrap metal is a pile of scrap metal even if it was a car a year ago and can be melted down and made into a car again.

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That is why I asked the question of where the line is of when a given type of clothing counts towards cross dressing and when it no longer does.
 
Some trannies are more passable than others I suppose. Did you have a point?
I would say that if you're attracted to them without knowing that they are really men you aren't gay. I'm a gay man and I'm not the least but attracted to this, they don't look like men.
 
Doesn't matter if it can become so again. It isn't so now. The same way a pile of scrap metal is a pile of scrap metal even if it was a car a year ago and can be melted down and made into a car again.

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Not an apt comparison. In your example, the object in question changes physical form. The only thing that changes with clothes is the social construct of whether it's men's, women's, or both. It's rather like beer. For centuries it was considered a drink for women and children. Then with the industrial revolution it shifted to being a man's drink. Now it's both, with an emphasis on men, even though beer has not fundamentally changed in all that time.
 
Does a trans person have an oglibation to tell a potential sexual partner they're trans?
 
Does a trans person have an oglibation to tell a potential sexual partner they're trans?
Seems like that situational. If a straight man were to lie to a woman about his income in order to access sex this is considered exploitative.

But if he were to let her believe he had a very large income without actually lying about it is it somehow less exploitative I don't think so.

Now let's replace very large income with sex. I would feel the same way.
 
Not an apt comparison. In your example, the object in question changes physical form. The only thing that changes with clothes is the social construct of whether it's men's, women's,
So you admit there is a cultural component to what sex You Are based on the clothes you wear?
or both. It's rather like beer. For centuries it was considered a drink for women and children. Then with the industrial revolution it shifted to being a man's drink. Now it's both, with an emphasis on men, even though beer has not fundamentally changed in all that time.
Yes cultures change. Pointing this out over and over and over again and saying why can't people just be anachronistic and still be accepted for the what they are and within the culture is brain dead
 
And you’re telling everyone else you could absolutely tell these TS women are TS walking past you on the street?

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I’m telling you that with the modern medication therapy, the surgery today, and the vocal feminization procedures, etc, it’s not the *80’s ”I can always tell” days.

If you live in a big city, especially one with an international population, you’re passing by and even briefly interacting with TS people and not necessarily knowing it.

That first shot is Victoria Secret’s runway model Valentina Sampaio, who is a TS woman.

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The runway model I was taking about in my earlier post looks very much like her and is also Brazilian.
I'm sorry the last picture you posted here the person in the bikini looks like a man narrow hips broad shoulders.
 
Dear Democrats, I am aware you believe that transwomen count as women. Even if not biological women, so my question is, do people having sex with a transgender "woman" count as gay, or are they straight for having sex with a woman?
No because you're having sex with someone with the attributes of a woman. If women is only defined by the possession of a vagina then cisgender women who survived being born as only a torso are not real women.
 
Not an apt comparison. In your example, the object in question changes physical form. The only thing that changes with clothes is the social construct of whether it's men's, women's, or both. It's rather like beer. For centuries it was considered a drink for women and children. Then with the industrial revolution it shifted to being a man's drink. Now it's both, with an emphasis on men, even though beer has not fundamentally changed in all that time.
So if years ago the scrap cube was considered a car, it means we shouldn't be able to differentiate between a car and a scrap cube today? What a dumb idea. Everybody knows they're men dressing up as women. They know it. Only you are having trouble.
 
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