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Is having sex with transgender women gay?

Are you asking for a friend?

Why are MAGAs and conservatives so obsessed with the subject of transgender females?
Why does asking a question equate to obsession.
Does trans porn get your crank turning and that makes you embarrassed because you think you might be gay, so instead of addressing your sexuality you attack them because you cant understand your sexual desires?
I've watched my fair share of poem and I've never once seen a point where someone States their identity so how do you know who's trans and therefore how do you know you are looking at trans porn?
50% of guys are bisexual to some extent if that means anything to you.
Exactly, you'd have to be a bisexual guy to be interested in both men and women regardless of identity
Maybe you should understand the different because a transvestite and transgender female because the latter is not pretending to be a woman.
Well identifying as women or pretending to be women is semantics. Either way you'd be with a guy

Trans women most definitely are not women.
You seem to thrive on bumper-sticker solutions to complex problems. Simple, easy and WRONG! Always wrong.
Or maybe he wants to trigger you.
 
genetics/DNA matters

you don't get to choose your age or species and you cannot self identify as 100 pounds less in weight than you are or 6" taller than you are or as a different skin color

there is idiocy gone wild in the USA right now unfortunately .... a little common sense needs to be reinserted IMO
Men and women share 99.9% of DNA. What exactly about the genetics/DNA of a trans person matters to YOU personally? What makes you think you and your beliefs are important enough to control other people’s life choices?

You are presumably ok with people believing in bearded men in the sky, stolen elections, and all kind of other ridiculous fantasies. Why are your delusions entitled to respect? It’s arrogant and hypocritical.
 
Why would it matter? If you find a consensual adult partner to have relations with, go for it. Does not matter if it is gay or straight, it's your choice.


The question does not disappear because it matters, or does not matter
 
People should try to get into a committed, and hopefully married, relationship before sex. Beyond that, I don't see how labels are all that important.


Labels exist; for better or for worse
 
Maybe you should understand the different because a transvestite and transgender female because the latter is not pretending to be a woman.


How can you objectively determine which is pretending, which is not?
 
How can you objectively determine which is pretending, which is not?
Most transvestites are married. They arent intersted in a relationship.

Half of trans-females are lesbians. (transbians), so they arent interested in guys. Most trans females arent interested in being some guys dirty little sex secret. Those guys are called chasers and are blacklisted in the community because they are dangerous and have the tendency to snap after the deed because they dont want their sex secret to get out.

If you are only interested in pre-ops because they look female buy have a penis they usually don't have time for them either. Treat them like a female or expect to be told to GTFO! and/or be maced.
 
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Dear Democrats, I am aware you believe that transwomen count as women. Even if not biological women, so my question is, do people having sex with a transgender "woman" count as gay, or are they straight for having sex with a woman?
Not a Dem but one wonders why you are asking? Are you interested in a relationship with a trans woman?
 
Most transvestites are married. They arent intersted in a relationship.

Half of trans-females are lesbians. (transbians), so they arent interested in guys. Most trans females arent interested in being some guys dirty little sex secret. Those guys are called chasers and are blacklisted in the community because they are dangerous and have the tendency to snap after the deep because they dont want their sex secret to get out.

If you are only interested in pre-ops because they look female buy have a penis they usually don't have time for them either. Treat them like a female or expect to be told to GTFO! and/or be maced.



Interesting! I was inclined to think the transworld challenge was navigating, or sealing off the cisworld; that inside the transworld it is all solidarity to cope with the cisworld. From what you post it has its own internal tensions
 
Dear Democrats, I am aware you believe that transwomen count as women. Even if not biological women, so my question is, do people having sex with a transgender "woman" count as gay, or are they straight for having sex with a woman?

I'm not a Democrat, but I don't worry about these kinds of things. Live and Let Live.
 
WTF are you talking about? I see no right majority here.
Exactly. It is all the Righties talking to themselves, trying to convince the rest of us their ideology is correct. It works both ways.
 
Interesting! I was inclined to think the transworld challenge was navigating, or sealing off the cisworld; that inside the transworld it is all solidarity to cope with the cisworld. From what you post it has its own internal tensions
Hetero trans girls are looking for hetero guys but currently they are hard to find because of the GOP social war. Many end up dating bisexual guys or being single. They have a very well developed BS detectors for creeps because they don't want to end up dead in a dumpster. Many don't date until after they have had surgery.

Obviously bisexual trans girls date both and have a much larger and safer dating pool.

Drag queens are almost always gay guys who date other gay guys.


BTW< what you seen in trans porn is not realistic.
 
There has long been a theory, backed by science, but not hard to figure out on your own, that gay bashers may be hiding something:
full disclosure I am not gay or attracted to men; I just have an interest in transgender people. Thereby posing the question, is it gay? But let's assume every anti-trans or LGBT person is gay themselves. Why does it matter? Is an alcoholic not allowed to support prohibition? Is a chain smoker not allowed to support smoking bans? It seems this argument uses the tu quoque fallacy to dodge the question of transgender or gay issues by calling their opponents gay.
It feels like envy, that there are those out there, regardless of their sexual preference, that are having a good time.
For me, it's not really envy, but it pisses me off seeing people—straight, gay, trans, whatever—having a good time. It's like if only they knew my isolation and loneliness, they wouldn't be so happy. so It angers me so much seeing high school graduations and people achieving things I will never get to achieve.
Nah, bud, it's all about sports scholarships and high school athletics. ;) You know, stuff they cared deeply about before it became a popular dog whistle for dummies.
I care about transgenders in sports, but I also care about other issues relating to sports, as sports are one of my main interests besides politics and music. As for the transgender debate, I think the reason the Democrats claim it's some Nazi dog whistle to oppose transgender biological men in sports is because they are losing the argument with normal people, so they have to either minimize transgenders' role in sports by claiming they only excel at obscure sports, which is false, or they accuse Republicans of being transphobes or Nazis for disagreeing with them, even if Republicans have a valid point about biological men having a competitive advantage over women.
I'm gay and not interested in having sex with transwomen. Would be essentially the same to me as having sex with a female. Does that help?
What if the "woman" has a dick? Are you still not into it?
Sex with man....gay
Sex with man pretending to be a woman....also gay.

This should have been the shortest thread ever.
Finally a real answer. I should have asked you before sleeping with Lilith Eve Rose and her girlfriend Jessica Luna Rose. I am now barred from discussing gay marriage and transgender issues by Democrats that totally don't care if you're gay, btw.
Not a Dem but one wonders why you are asking? Are you interested in a relationship with a trans woman?
I mean, I do have a slight interest in some transgender "women," but my question was asked out of curiosity.
Hetero trans girls are looking for hetero guys but currently they are hard to find because of the GOP social war. Many end up dating bisexual guys or being single. They have a very well developed BS detectors for creeps because they don't want to end up dead in a dumpster. Many don't date until after they have had surgery.
Well, I'm out of the equation.
BTW< what you seen in trans porn is not realistic.
So transgender women aren't actually hot? No wonder you're losing the culture war.
 
Hetero trans girls are looking for hetero guys but currently they are hard to find because of the GOP social war. Many end up dating bisexual guys or being single. They have a very well developed BS detectors for creeps because they don't want to end up dead in a dumpster. Many don't date until after they have had surgery.

Obviously bisexual trans girls date both and have a much larger and safer dating pool.

Drag queens are almost always gay guys who date other gay guys.


BTW< what you seen in trans porn is not realistic.


If you only knew how much I am lost in the categories. Bisexual trans girls? Trying to figure that one out is like solving a quadratic equation :)
 
If you only knew how much I am lost in the categories. Bisexual trans girls? Trying to figure that one out is like solving a quadratic equation :)
Bisexual trans girls, they are attracted to both males and females. Its not that difficult.

Pansexuals is where is gets weird, like quantum physics. Quadratic equations are easy compared to calculus and DiffEq.


full disclosure I am not gay or attracted to men; I just have an interest in transgender people. Thereby posing the question, is it gay? But let's assume every anti-trans or LGBT person is gay themselves. Why does it matter? Is an alcoholic not allowed to support prohibition? Is a chain smoker not allowed to support smoking bans? It seems this argument

There is nothing wrong with being gay or bisexual.
I mean, I do have a slight interest in some transgender "women," but my question was asked out of curiosity.

OK, so what? Don't put trans women in quotations. They are females and demand to be treated equally as such. They are half-and-half or sex freaks.
Well, I'm out of the equation.

So transgender women aren't actually hot? No wonder you're losing the culture war.

They are just like cisgender females. Most transfemales on hormones cannot get erections unless they take Viagra. The HRT and anti-androgens such as cypro' puts an end to erections and often their sex drive. Most seek desperately to pass and live as cisgender females and demand to be treated as such. If they are into you as a potential lover they will tell you about their past for their own safety. They arent trying to trick you.
 
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Are you asking for a friend?
Yes
Why are MAGAs and conservatives so obsessed with the subject of transgender females?
because it's a relevant political issue
Does trans porn get your crank turning and that makes you embarrassed because you think you might be gay,
Yes
so instead of addressing your sexuality you attack them because you cant understand your sexual desires?
Not true; you are conflating two different issues. I'm opposed to transgender kids and transgender biological men in women's sports, but I also have a sexual interest in transgender females, but even if I weren't sexually attracted to them, I would still be conservative on trans issues. My stance on transgenders is simple: kids should not transition, and men shouldn't play in women's sports. Nothing to do with self-hatred.
50% of guys are bisexual to some extent if that means anything to you.
But does it count as bisexual if you think it's a real woman?
Maybe you should understand the different because a transvestite and transgender female because the latter is not pretending to be a woman.
Please explain the difference.
You seem to thrive on bumper-sticker solutions to complex problems. Simple, easy and WRONG! Always wrong.
simple solutions are usually the answer no need to complitcate things
If you only knew how much I am lost in the categories. Bisexual trans girls? Trying to figure that one out is like solving a quadratic equation :)
Same lol, memorizing gender terms is like memorizing Pokémon lore.
 
Exactly. It is all the Righties talking to themselves, trying to convince the rest of us their ideology is correct. It works both ways.
If there's no right majority here, how are they all just talking to themselves? There's plenty of leftists here.
 
I care about transgenders in sports, but I also care about other issues relating to sports, as sports are one of my main interests besides politics and music. As for the transgender debate, I think the reason the Democrats claim it's some Nazi dog whistle to oppose transgender biological men in sports is because they are losing the argument with normal people, so they have to either minimize transgenders' role in sports by claiming they only excel at obscure sports, which is false, or they accuse Republicans of being transphobes or Nazis for disagreeing with them, even if Republicans have a valid point about biological men having a competitive advantage over women.

Yeah, I mean, I just don't care, bud. You guys are the ones with the obsession, not me. I'm good to live and let live, and frankly, sports is just entertainment, so I can't get all bent and twisted in that direction either. 🤷‍♂️

But you go on with your creepy ass thread, bud, I'm sure someone's shocked and / or impressed. Personally I'm bored of it, it's all you guys ever talk about, I'm just here for the lolz. ;)
 
There is nothing wrong with being bisexual or gay.
because it's a relevant political issue
Its a medical issue.
Yes

Not true; you are conflating two different issues. I'm opposed to transgender kids and transgender biological men in women's sports, but I also have a sexual interest in transgender females, but even if I weren't sexually attracted to them, I would still be conservative on trans issues. My stance on transgenders is simple: kids should not transition, and men shouldn't play in women's sports. Nothing to do with self-hatred.

But does it count as bisexual if you think it's a real woman?
With these three answers you just went from a "maybe" to being a "creepy transphobic chaser". She is going to walk away and tell her friends to stay away from you as well.
 
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There is nothing wrong with being bisexual or gay.
I mean, there's a potential religious argument against homosexuality depending on your viewpoint, but I see where you're coming from. I believe in forgiveness and understand why someone can see being gay as moral or immoral.
Its a medical issue.
It's a medical and political issue like Covid or abortion.
With these three answers you just went from a "maybe" to being a "creepy transphobic chaser". She is going to walk away and tell her friends to stay away from you as well.
I guess that's when "she" gets thrown in a dumpster or deadnamed, emphasis on dead.
 
I mean, there's a potential religious argument against homosexuality depending on your viewpoint, but I see where you're coming from. I believe in forgiveness and understand why someone can see being gay as moral or immoral.

It's a medical and political issue like Covid or abortion.

I guess that's when "she" gets thrown in a dumpster or deadnamed, emphasis on dead.

You're putting a lot more emphasis on this than most people. Live and let live.
 
Hetero trans girls are looking for hetero guys but currently they are hard to find because of the GOP social war. Many end up dating bisexual guys or being single. They have a very well developed BS detectors for creeps because they don't want to end up dead in a dumpster. Many don't date until after they have had surgery.

Obviously bisexual trans girls date both and have a much larger and safer dating pool.

Drag queens are almost always gay guys who date other gay guys.


BTW< what you seen in trans porn is not realistic.

I have no idea what I just read.
 
I have no idea what I just read.
Transgender (Male to female) trans-girls who are attracted to heterosexual guys.
 
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