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Is having sex with transgender women gay?

Slartibartfast said:
I realize we live in the real world where people are going to do what they're going to do and realize attempts to change that aspect of human nature tend to result in horrific outcomes. Ultimately though, people are going to largely try to find out if they are sexually compatible during the early part of the relationship. The sad fact is, even after people get married, people often find out that they aren't or that their tastes change over time.
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Still, you better your chances if you test the water before diving in.
 
Loulit01 said:
Still, you better your chances if you test the water before diving in.
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Compatibility when it comes to emotional needs, emotional expressions, life goals, moral views, the ability to express oneself well and give emotional support, economic views, the ability to have a friendship on top of being in love, the ability to feel contentment, and other emotional tools are are much more determinative. However if there is a major lack of sexual compatibility, then I would agree with you.
 
Slartibartfast said:
Compatibility when it comes to emotional needs, emotional expressions, life goals, moral views, the ability to express oneself well and give emotional support, economic views, the ability to have a friendship on top of being in love, the ability to feel contentment, and other emotional tools are are much more determinative. However if there is a major lack of sexual compatibility, then I would agree with you.
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Okay.

In the interest of full disclosure, I've never been married, so...
 
BirdinHand said:
Have to admit, the topic isn’t one I’ve given thought to because I don’t care whether or not someone is LGBT, etc.

As my Mom used to say “every pot has a lid” 🤷‍♀️
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Weird, right?

My oldest is coming over later. To do laundry, because clichés about late twentysomethings.

Topic which will never arise: how should we describe your sex life?
 
reinaert said:
Weird, right?

My oldest is coming over later. To do laundry, because clichés about late twentysomethings.

Topic which will never arise: how should we describe your sex life?
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Yep.

I can’t say I really care what anyone’s sexuality is. I especially don’t care what my son’s sexuality is (although at this juncture he seems to be straight because he tells me about a crush on a little girl in his class)

The only thing that matters to me about the people I care about is if they are happy, healthy and feel loved and respected by those they surround themselves with.

Always been that way, always will be that way.

It’s disturbing how much a segment of our population finds themselves WAY too preoccupied with other people’s private sex lives.
 
of course it is

if you paint a white person black and have sex with them, are you having sex with a black person or a white person ?

my family member is a man who is trans .... he refuses to date men even though he says he's a woman because he's not gay
 
Is it just me, or is all this righty anti Trans angst starting to feel like boys pulling pony tails and training bra straps back in grade 8?

Like, just go find one who's down to **** and get it over with already. These heavy breathing posts are getting exhausting.
 
Yakshi said:
As a social experiment, it is pretty wild when normal people step back and simply observe exactly which topics Fox News can make old, white, mostly male Trump supporters believe is their business.

This is how hysterical old men in Pennsylvania can whine on and on about our southern border, which they will never see; about an "invasion" of illegal immigrants, none of whom they will ever meet; about having sex with a transgender person, which they would never do; and fever dreams of an American economic hellscape under Biden, even when the economy by almost every metric was indisputably strong.

Fox News has created a castle in the sky full of nonexistent threats and dumped America's imbeciles, cowards, and entitled failures into it.
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Repukes need a boogeyman to denigrate to sleep at night. Live and let live is definitely not part of their playbook.
 
Rightwing fascination with gay sex. This isn't the first thread on this topic. JAYSUS.

I am heterosexual, have a female wife, and enjoy what we have. What my neighbors do, or the folks down the street, is their business. If love is involved, then bravo. Black man white woman, no issue. Gay couple, no issue, transgender woman with a man, hey, if he doesn't mind why should I ?

Rightwingers - get over your sanctimonious bleating about how other people live or enjoy their sex, maybe get some of that yourself so you won't be thinking about how others are enjoying their sex. Sheesh!
 
There has long been a theory, backed by science, but not hard to figure out on your own, that gay bashers may be hiding something:

www.scientificamerican.com

Homophobes Might Be Hidden Homosexuals

A new analysis of implicit bias and explicit sexual orientation statements may help to explain the underpinnings of anti-gay bullying and hate crimes
www.scientificamerican.com www.scientificamerican.com
 
SNOWFLAKE said:
It feels like envy, that there are those out there, regardless of their sexual preference, that are having a good time.
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Fascist "liberation" from norms is always psychosexual violence. Repression will out; it won't always squeeze its way up as testicle tanning or fawning over Liver King and his totally masculine love for bought wives...
 
stealthycat said:
of course it is

if you paint a white person black and have sex with them, are you having sex with a black person or a white person ?

my family member is a man who is trans .... he refuses to date men even though he says he's a woman because he's not gay
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People obsess way too much over labels and categories. They're just tools that we use to help understand ourselves. They don't define who we are as individuals.
 
SNOWFLAKE said:
It feels like envy, that there are those out there, regardless of their sexual preference, that are having a good time.
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Nah, bud, it's all about sports scholarships and high school athletics. ;) You know, stuff they cared deeply about before it became a popular dog whistle for dummies.

Given the obsession level, I think they're having a pretty good time too... the kind of good time that ends with a tissue.
 
I'm gay and not interested in having sex with transwomen. Would be essentially the same to me as having sex with a female. Does that help?
 
Irredentist said:
People obsess way too much over labels and categories. They're just tools that we use to help understand ourselves. They don't define who we are as individuals.
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genetics/DNA matters

you don't get to choose your age or species and you cannot self identify as 100 pounds less in weight than you are or 6" taller than you are or as a different skin color

there is idiocy gone wild in the USA right now unfortunately .... a little common sense needs to be reinserted IMO
 
Sex with man....gay
Sex with man pretending to be a woman....also gay.

This should have been the shortest thread ever.
 
lolbert said:
Dear Democrats, I am aware you believe that transwomen count as women. Even if not biological women, so my question is, do people having sex with a transgender "woman" count as gay, or are they straight for having sex with a woman?
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Things aren't gay only people are. But if you are a man and you have sex with a man regardless of how they identify that was homosexual sex.
 
OlNate said:
Nah, bud, it's all about sports scholarships and high school athletics. ;) You know, stuff they cared deeply about before it became a popular dog whistle for dummies.

Given the obsession level, I think they're having a pretty good time too... the kind of good time that ends with a tissue.
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lolbert said:
Dear Democrats, I am aware you believe that transwomen count as women. Even if not biological women, so my question is, do people having sex with a transgender "woman" count as gay, or are they straight for having sex with a woman?
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Are you asking for a friend?

Why are MAGAs and conservatives so obsessed with the subject of transgender females? Does trans porn get your crank turning and that makes you embarrassed because you think you might be gay, so instead of addressing your sexuality you attack them because you cant understand your sexual desires?

50% of guys are bisexual to some extent if that means anything to you.


VanceMack said:
Sex with man....gay
Sex with man pretending to be a woman....also gay.

This should have been the shortest thread ever.
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Maybe you should understand the different because a transvestite and transgender female because the latter is not pretending to be a woman. You seem to thrive on bumper-sticker solutions to complex problems. Simple, easy and WRONG! Always wrong.
 
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