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Kandahar said:I doubt many 7-year-olds protest against sex-change operations either.
talloulou said:If it's not to personal do any of you people who think she should teach in the same class have kids?????
Kandahar said:You're saying that having a sex-change makes her an incompetent teacher?
Children aren't confused, they're curious. They only become confused when adults refuse to answer their questions and act like they shouldn't have been asked in the first place.
Maybe she expected the school board to be tolerant. And it appears that they are.
ngdawg said:You put THIS in a category with terrorism and porn???
It is not BS..if you can't answer your child's questions, then you look it up together and if you REFUSE to answer your child's questions or oppose this person's placement, then yes, that is lazy.
talloulou said:Whether the seven year olds or the seven year olds parents protest sex changes or not is NOT the issue. The issue is that there is a time and place for everything. It is unprofessional to bring your personal life in to the classroom.
talloulou said:In this case it is unavoidable unless the teacher accepts placement somewhere new where she will be knows as a she and that's that. Distractions in school are unacceptable. Schools don't hesitate to toss out kids who are a distraction.
talloulou said:And if you think a 7yr old learning that a teacher that use to be a he is now a she is not a distraction you have never been around seven year olds.
Kandahar said:Oh really? So you're against teachers taking time off for maternity leave? Should they be kicked out as soon as they start showing signs of pregnancy, because it's bringing their personal life into the class?
Of all the "distractions" in a school, this is quite low on the list. There are too many incompetent teachers in our schools to fire someone over something as stupid as this.
It's only a distraction for the child if the parents have conditioned them to believe that this is disgusting and immoral.
For a child with no prior experience with the subject, which of these conversations would be more confusing/distracting:
CHILD #1: Why is Mr. Smith a woman now?
PARENT #1: Because she went to the doctor and had an operation to become Mrs. Smith.
CHILD #1: Why?
PARENT #1: Because she felt she would be happier as a woman. It's a choice that some adults make.
CHILD #2: Why is Mr. Smith a woman now?
PARENT #2: Because he's an immoral f@ggot who is going to burn in hell.
CHILD #2: Why?
PARENT #2: Enough with the damn questions, and don't ever bring it up again.
Oh so just being ugly is a reason to get rid of her???? Don't look now, but your ignorance is leaking.....Deegan said::roll:
Hey kids, look, it's Dick Cheney with a wig......
Give me a facking break, this is not the kind of thing a young child should be starring at for 7 hours a day, it even frightens me, and can only imagine how much it distracts them. No, this will not stand, nor should it, this thing should have thought about it's career before this mid-life crisis, I have absolutely no compassion for a..........wait for it now, "father of three" who just now decide it wants to be a woman, weeeeeeeeeeeeee, what a joke.
ngdawg said:I DO have kids, I have both volunteered and worked in our school system for a total of 6 years....do YOU have kids in school? Do you visit that school or volunteer there? Ever work with ages 5-14? I have and the three of you are so off this planet, I am simply dumbstruck...
ngdawg said:Oh so just being ugly is a reason to get rid of her???? Don't look now, but your ignorance is leaking.....
talloulou said:No I don't. I'm just pointing out in fact that there are TOPICS that are inappropriate for young children.
That's not the point. The point is it is UNPROFESSIONAL for this to be brought up in an elementary class at all.
No one talked about the breast implant thing. Lets say a flat teacher went and got huge stripper size DD breast implants over the summer. That would be ridiculously UNPROFESSIONAL in my opinion and I'd be pissed that I had to have discussions regarding that with my kid.
And the idea that I can talk to my kids about topics isn't the whole point. The whole point is that this teacher will be asked questions by the children that she will answer. She may be qualified to teach reading and math but be completely unqualified to teach my child about sex changes. Whose to say what kind of answers she'll give my kid. And that is the WHOLE point....it's not her job to answer these questions. That's not what she was hired to do yet by the very nature of her sex change she will be answering questions 'cause the kids won't just let that rest.
Deegan said:Who said Ugly? I said frightening, a 71 year old man in a wig is frightening, and this school board is frightening as well! To allow a 71 year old man who should just retire, to now teach in the same school were he was know as a man, this is unacceptable, and heads should roll! This person who is the father of three, and who was married for 33 years, now wants to be a woman, so be it, but not in any school I pay taxes for! I can't believe what some of you think is appropriate, you obviously don't have children, and please, do us all a favor and don't ever have any, you would fail miserably!:roll:
My kids don't accept simple answers...maybe that has something to do with me:mrgreen:ngdawg said:Kids before the age of 7 or 8 accept the simplest answers as their trust and lack of cynicism is still there. If you are making a big deal of something, they will too. Answer short and directly and they won't give it a second thought.
ngdawg said:Read again. Not only do I have twins, I worked in our school system a total of over 5 years, 3 with 12-14 year olds. Do US parents a favor...please get fixed....the very idea that you could possibly be bringing your share of ignorance into the world is a lot more frightening than some manly face under a mane of blonde hair.
Kandahar said:I doubt many 7-year-olds protest against sex-change operations either.
Navy Pride said:Terrible example..........I doubt if many 7 years old protested against integration.........
Obviously a hell of a lot more than someone with no kids, who never worked in a school system( I asst taught, thank you very much) and bases a teacher's abilities on looks and past unhappiness, since corrected.Deegan said:Doing what exactly, please tell me what you could possibly be doing at the school, because if it's anything other then, lunch ladies assistant, I would like to warn this school? I can't imagine anyone not being concerned with a 71 year old tranny working at their school, especially one who can't even get their life together after 33 years of marriage, and three grown children! It's about protecting the children from the same confusion this man obviously suffers from, and he is 71 YEARS OLD!!! I feel sorry for your children, and your husband, if you still have one. Just because you go to a few PTA meetings, does not make you an expert on child care, or anything for that matter, other then cookie baking, what the hell do you know about anything?:doh
talloulou said:Let's take the topic of porn. Should we leave it lying around for seven years to look at since they're old enough to talk about it? That would not only be lazy parenting....it would be abusive parenting in my opinion.
alex said:My original point stands. If they are old enough to ask about it, then they are old enough to talk about it. If a child finds porn and asks about it, a parent should discuss it.
ngdawg said:Obviously a hell of a lot more than someone with no kids, who never worked in a school system( I asst taught, thank you very much) and bases a teacher's abilities on looks and past unhappiness, since corrected.
What confusion would possibly transpire into a classroom anyway???? Confusing Janey with Jimmy? And ageism is another matter entirely. No one competent enough to do their job can be let go because of age. Do you even have a clue about the hiring steps that go into being a teacher?
As for baking cookies? That's what NABISCO is for. Get your 1950's head out of the sand, Boy! It's a new century now....:roll:
talloulou said:I agree to a point. If the teacher taught at the school for years as a MR and now is a Mss. that is the teacher's personal life being brought to school. It's unprofessional. The professional thing would be to accept placement in a new school for the sake of the students. A teacher has the right to do whatever they want regarding their personal life but they don't have the right to discuss or make an issue of their personal choices in my child's classroom. This is not a "new" idea or prejudice one.
A heterosexual teacher doesn't get to discuss their messy divorce with students in their class. They don't get to discuss their religious views. A teacher with breast implants doesn't get to explain to 7 yr olds why she chose to get breast implants. Elementary teachers are supposed to be teaching the basics and anything that distracts or interferes with that is intolerable.
I doubt you have children. Furthermore you seem to be confused about what rights a teacher does in fact have and what they should in fact be talking about. Kids are kicked out of schools all the time for being a distraction. A teacher formerly known as MR and now known as MRS is an inappropriate distraction for elementary students.
Deegan said:I'm sure they will, and they most certainly should start with the teacher who does not even know what sex he/she is! This has nothing to do with religion, as you so eloquently(LOL) tried to imply, and everything to do with not confusing young children. This is not the only teaching job available to this thing, and it should have thought of this before it had the operation!:roll:
alex said:Perfect! You have just established that the problem is with your own prejudices and has nothing to do with your children. You just proved my main point, thank you.
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