MaggieD
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I don't loan money to anyone anymore, unless I am absolutely sure that their personal honor will compel them to repay me as soon as they can. In such case, no written note needed.
Mostly though, I just don't loan money anymore period. If I can afford it, I may GIVE someone money with no repayment expected... if I can't afford to do that I just tell them 'sorry, don't have it'. Less stress and strain that way.
I agree. I've gotten so angry over people not repaying loans that I just give it to them if I can. No expectations of repayment=no hurt feelings later.
:lol: No but I'd give it to you, if I knew you wouldn't spend it on hookers and blow, like the last 50 I gave you.
Thanks - interesting stuff. I use my debit card for everything. The consumer is completely protected. Twice, I was defrauded by businesses and twice my Visa debit card disputed the charges, and I didn't have to pay. That kind of insurance is invaluable, and comes free of charge.
So true. And often, debit cards do have a daily limit. I went into a furniture store once to buy some furniture. It was something like $2700 or something, and when they swiped my card, it declined. I was so humiliated. I had more than enough in that account, but it declined it anyway. It was too late to call the bank, so I slunked out with my tail between my legs, so embarrassed. I called them the next morning, and apparently they have a $2,000 limit on the card per day, so I had to swipe for $2,000 and write a check for the remainder.
Would have been nice to know that in advance. :lol: Probably in the fine print somewhere that I didn't read.
You didn't know debit cards had a limit?
When it comes to plastic, pretty much everything has a limit...except for the black Amex card.
They all have fraud departments that, when one's purchasing is deemed unusual for a cardholder, they will often shut it down. (I know you know that, but thought I'd add to your thought.)
It's happened to me twice. Once when I was buying a house-full of furniture in one day. I didn't go over my limit, but spent a pot full of money in four hours. By the time I made my last purchase, my card was declined until I talked to them on the phone. Another time was when I gassed up for a trip to Kentucky in Chicago and, when I got to Kentucky 8 hours later bought $500 worth of cigarettes at a cigarette store. They thought, again, that the card was stolen and put an immediate stop on it until I spoke to them.
They all have fraud departments that, when one's purchasing is deemed unusual for a cardholder, they will often shut it down. (I know you know that, but thought I'd add to your thought.)
It's happened to me twice. Once when I was buying a house-full of furniture in one day. I didn't go over my limit, but spent a pot full of money in four hours. By the time I made my last purchase, my card was declined until I talked to them on the phone. Another time was when I gassed up for a trip to Kentucky in Chicago and, when I got to Kentucky 8 hours later bought $500 worth of cigarettes at a cigarette store. They thought, again, that the card was stolen and put an immediate stop on it until I spoke to them.
I was once disapproved because, earlier in the day, I had made two $1 charges.
I've been on road trips before, and been declined because they apparently felt like there's no way possible we could have gotten as far as we did, as quicky as we did. :lol:
We were in Homestead, Fl, once, on vacation in the Keys. Went to gas up, card declined. Tried again, card declined. Had been there a couple of days already, so nothing out of the ordinary. I called the bank and they said it was apparently an issue with the "pay at the pump," and not our card. Weird. Scary, but weird.
I tend to not do PATP with my debit because there's always some sort of issue with it. Doesn't matter the station, doesn't matter the location, doesn't matter the chain. I'm that unlucky.
I always pay at the pump. 99 times out of 100, I never have a problem. That one time, though, I'm 6 hours from home.
Oh, I also forgot to mention that I usually like to go inside and get a huge pop and maybe a snack. Can't get peanuts and Coke at the pump.
:lol: That's one of the reasons I love pay at the pump. I have small kids who LOVE to buy overpriced crap inside the stores.
Only grocery items are overpriced. Little Debbies are the same as a gas station as they are in a grocery store. Fountain pop is cheap. Plus you can also sometimes get hot dogs, nachos, pizza, etc.
Just don't buy big bags of chips or beef jerky or stuff like that...or other non-snack food like bread and peanut butter.
Besides, I'm not gonna bitch over a bag of Funions costing an extra 20 cents.
:lol: That's one of the reasons I love pay at the pump. I have small kids who LOVE to buy overpriced crap inside the stores.
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