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Both these are examples where someone wants to be something they physically are not, and claims to be something they physically are not - and (the human mind is malleable) may be successful in lying to themselves, especially if reinforced by others.The problem with Dolezal is she lied, repeatedly, fabricated a black family, called a black adopted brother her son, and a black friend her dad. Her life story was a lie, dishonest. That's why she was vilified. If she'd been honest about only 'identifying' as black, that's a different story, and a likely different outcome.
Dawkins could invite a discussion about how it was perhaps wrong to vilify Dolezal and how he believes she was unfairly ostracized given she was in his opinion, perhaps, operating from a position of genuine desire to help the black community, whatever. He didn't need to bring up trans people at all, whose situation is really nothing like hers. By comparing them to her, he was calling their lives as much a lie as hers, as dishonest, as fake. If he believes that, he should say it, own the position, and not hide behind an apples and dump trucks comparison to make the point, then act all surprised when his bullshit is called out. He knew what he was doing, or should have, because he's not an idiot.
Again, if you want to defend Dolezal, you can do that. But her fabricating a black life with a black "son" and black "dad" is at least a huge factor in what got her into trouble. She didn't "identify" as black - she claimed she was black. The trans people, at least in the public eye, by definition do not claim they're born as anything but what the birth certificate claims. They are open about who they are, their 'transition' or whatever. Dolezal lied about that, lied about her life.Both these are examples where someone wants to be something they physically are not, and claims to be something they physically are not - and (the human mind is malleable) may be successful in lying to themselves, especially if reinforced by others.
But only in one case* do we have people who encourage these folks that clearly physical reality is wrong, and their preferences or perceptions are correct.
Bullshit. She objectively lied about her past, who her "dad" was, and claimed a black brother as her "son." She didn't 'identify' as black. If you know a trans person, then they're by definition HONEST about who they were and are. That's a key difference between them and Dolezal. You've ignored it entirely for some reason.*at current. the Woke Borders are always expanding; it is certainly plausible that in the future we will be expected to consider Dolezal a Brave Pioneer, and organize online mobs to try to destroy the lives of those evil bigots who called her a liar at the time.
He didn't take a position - that would take courage. He used an apples and dump trucks comparison to backhandedly imply a position, then denied he was doing what we all know he did, which was take a position for whatever purpose that trans people are as dishonest about who they are as Rachel Dolezal. That appears to be your position and if you want to own it then invite discussion, fine.Dawkins likes to challenge others and provoke a response. I suppose the difference in his earlier life is that Christians felt obliged to intellectually defend their position, whereas Trans-Advocates simply seek to deny the legitimacy of anyone disagreeing with them.
Again, if you want to defend Dolezal, you can do that. But her fabricating a black life with a black "son" and black "dad" is at least a huge factor in what got her into trouble. She didn't "identify" as black - she claimed she was black. The trans people, at least in the public eye, by definition do not claim they're born as anything but what the birth certificate claims. They are open about who they are, their 'transition' or whatever. Dolezal lied about that, lied about her life.
And what you're doing is confirming what I said Dawkins did, which is say that the lives of trans people are just as dishonest, just as much a lie, just as deceptive as Dolezal.
If you believe that, own the position. Dawkins implied that then denied that's what he's doing. He's a coward or an idiot.
Bullshit. She objectively lied about her past, who her "dad" was, and claimed a black brother as her "son." She didn't 'identify' as black. If you know a trans person, then they're by definition HONEST about who they were and are. That's a key difference between them and Dolezal. You've ignored it entirely for some reason.
I wonder how that compares to the hundreds of authors, and tens-of-thousands of books, written to pander those who buy into biblical mythology. I suspect all of that pandering escapes your scrutiny and disdain.Dawkins made a shit ton of money writing books that pandered to atheists.
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Both these are examples where someone wants to be something they physically are not, and claims to be something they physically are not - and (the human mind is malleable) may be successful in lying to themselves, especially if reinforced by others.
But only in one case* do we have people who encourage these folks that clearly physical reality is wrong, and their preferences or perceptions are correct.
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Cool. That's a pretty politicized publication, and nothing on this forum is worth being deceptive or full of crap for.Gender Dysphoria is a recognized mental illness. Cut the crap.
I didn't say they did all act "exactly the same." What's with the stupid straw man? There's a reason I qualified my statement - in the public eye. If you know they are trans, they are honest that they were born one gender and now identify as another. It's that simple.Hm. I think you would probably be surprised at how all trans people do not, in fact, act exactly the same.
Yes, some people identify as trans. And I don't know how to interpret your 'attack anyone....tell the truth about who they are.' In what context should they tell the truth? It appears you think identifying as trans is inherently illegitimate, period. if you believe it, own the position. You'll have been more honest than Dawkins.Plenty of people who think they are one gender and are actually another will claim to be the first - and plenty of others will not only encourage them in that, but attack anyone who thinks they should, as you describe, tell the truth about who they are.
Your and Dawkins' butwhatabout ignores the lying part by Dolezal, that part where she fabricated a black 'dad' and a black 'son.' That matters. She didn't just 'identify' as black - she fabricated a false life.Both are people insisting that what they want to be, and feel like, is what they are, in contradiction to physical reality.
Yes, you said that, and ignored that Dawkins took a position, then denied he did so, all under the pretense of 'provoking discussion.'Dawkins appears to be attempting to provoke discussion. This worked for him before because Christians felt obliged to actually intellectually defend their positions, whereas our modern Puritans simply deny the legitimacy of not-agreeing with them already, and move to Cancel and punish those guilty of believing something different than themselves.
You appear confused. Rachel Dolezal claimed a black person as her dad - not like a dad, but her actual dad. That was a LIE. She claimed her black brother as her son - not 'like' a son, but her actual son. That was a LIE.Again, you might be surprised. A close friend I was raised with (who is basically a sister) was engaged to woman who claimed to be a fellow lesbian.... and then later, after a relationship that lasted for years, decided she was actually a man. Would you say she was lying before, lying after, or is this sexuality and sexual identity actually pretty mutable?
Which publication is that? And who's being deceptive or full of crap on this forum?Cool. That's a pretty politicized publication, and nothing on this forum is worth being deceptive or full of crap for.
If we're going to smear entire groups, "they" - i.e. so-called Christians - have a long history of being interested in punishing people who believe differently than they do. Ask a gay or trans person, especially someone born into a fundamentalist family and community. Ask them how they were received when they came out as 'different.' You're likely to get an earful, and it won't be of the "Christian" compassion they received.Both Dawkins point, and the response to it remain telling. Trans advocates all too often aren't interested in defending their position intellectually - they are interested in trying to punish people who believe differently than they do.
Why would she need to only "identify" as Black. If she does then she is. It's the same reasoning that I hear all the time from trans activists. They say that the person is, and always was a female/male. They say things like "the female penis" and complain about verbiage for women's products that exclude them.The problem with Dolezal is she lied, repeatedly, fabricated a black family, called a black adopted brother her son, and a black friend her dad. Her life story was a lie, dishonest. That's why she was vilified. If she'd been honest about only 'identifying' as black, that's a different story, and a likely different outcome.
He's drawing a parallel in how one was seen absurd and the other is seen as right. I don't see why you don't understand that bringing up Dolezal was the pretext for the actual discussion.Dawkins could invite a discussion about how it was perhaps wrong to vilify Dolezal and how he believes she was unfairly ostracized given she was in his opinion, perhaps, operating from a position of genuine desire to help the black community, whatever. He didn't need to bring up trans people at all, whose situation is really nothing like hers. By comparing them to her, he was calling their lives as much a lie as hers, as dishonest, as fake. If he believes that, he should say it, own the position, and not hide behind an apples and dump trucks comparison to make the point, then act all surprised when his bullshit is called out. He knew what he was doing, or should have, because he's not an idiot.
While I'm not particularly a fan of Dawkins, he can make as much money as he wants writing w/e he wants. I don't get the point that's being made there either.I wonder how that compares to the hundreds of authors, and tens-of-thousands of books, written to pander those who buy into biblical mythology. I suspect all of that pandering escapes your scrutiny and disdain.
Talk about a shit ton of money, here's a single Amazon search with over 70,000 pandering titles.
Which publication is that? And who's being deceptive or full of crap on this forum?
If we're going to smear entire groups, "they" - i.e. so-called Christians - have a long history of being interested in punishing people who believe differently than they do. Ask a gay or trans person, especially someone born into a fundamentalist family and community. Ask them how they were received when they came out as 'different.' You're likely to get an earful, and it won't be of the "Christian" compassion they received.
And if you want to generate honest discussion, don't start the process out with a dishonest and bullshit butwhatabout, like Dawkins did. Simple!
It's not a past-tense thing....Oh yeah - Christians have absolutely punished people for believing something we didn't agree with before. Liberalism, and the importance of tolerance, grew out of that experience, out of the wars of religion. It is unfortunate that so many in our culture today are forgetting that lesson, as evidenced in this thread by the reaction to Hawkins
I'm never sure how to respond to claims about the mythical "they" with claims you have made up but not attributed to anyone so we can see the actual words someone identifiable has said. So I'll pass except to say the claim generally is NOT that a person born e.g. male IS female, but that they identify as female, despite being born male. There's a reason some trans undergo conversion surgery and all that entails....Why would she need to only "identify" as Black. If she does then she is. It's the same reasoning that I hear all the time from trans activists. They say that the person is, and always was a female/male. They say things like "the female penis" and complain about verbiage for women's products that exclude them.
The parallel is terrible because a trans person doesn't fabricate a false history of their family. Dolezal did do that. She didn't claim to be transracial - she claimed to have a black daddy. Etc...................... I don't see how you don't get the problem. Seems simple enough to me.He's drawing a parallel in how one was seen absurd and the other is seen as right. I don't see why you don't understand that bringing up Dolezal was the pretext for the actual discussion.
It's not a past-tense thing....
And you have yet to address the problem of his comparison, and conflate the equivalent of you claiming Donald Trump as your daddy, versus someone coming out as gay or trans.
Yeah, my own brother's partner was so thoroughly disowned by his evangelical family that they hung up if they called, he tried to visit, they slammed the door in his face, cards, letters, Christmas and birthday gifts were returned unopened, which took EFFORT versus just tossing them in the garbage. He was to KNOW they'd refused them. His mother died of cancer - they got around to telling him 6 months after the funeral. And of course all his childhood friends abandoned him as well. The only thing notable about that is how thorough the disownment was. Gays being disowned by family is how you get some of those kids on the streets engaging in prostitution to survive. So, yeah, it's just the Catholics.... All else in the "Christian" community for those with different ideas is all sweetness and patient understanding.You do have the small (but loud) Catholic Integralist types out there, certainly, but they are powerless. Both they and the modern Woke Crowd have forgotten one of the most important lessons of the Wars of Religion and the Enlightenment that followed - of tolerance for dissent and that conflict over ideas should be based in reason and dialogue.
But if someone is openly trans, they're not telling you anything like that. To identify one's self as trans is to acknowledge they are living as a gender different than they were born. There is nothing dishonest about that. You object to how they see themselves, and are calling it dishonest. It's bullshit IMO, but you do you. (shrug)If I think something about myself that is not physically true, and I tell others that thing that is not physically true is true, then I think something about myself that is not physically true, and am telling others something about myself that is physically not true.
Yes, it's different if you claim Donald Trump is your daddy than a person coming out as trans. One is honest, the other isn't. (shrug)In one area, you wish to declare that physical reality is wrong and the mind's perceptions are correct, but deny it in others (shrug).
So basically, you believe the entire idea of trans is illegitimate. That's fine. You can own that position. I don't know why you give a damn - what's it to you to treat them with common courtesy and respect their decision? Does it harm you?A couple of years from now, perhaps you'll be apologizing for ever having been so thoughtless and hurtful as to not recognize someone else's Lived Experience As A {insert something else that is physically not true, but about which we have decided to instead accept delusion}.
Yeah, my own brother's partner was so thoroughly disowned by his evangelical family that they hung up if they called, he tried to visit, they slammed the door in his face, cards, letters, Christmas and birthday gifts were returned unopened, which took EFFORT versus just tossing them in the garbage. He was to KNOW they'd refused them. His mother died of cancer - they got around to telling him 6 months after the funeral. And of course all his childhood friends abandoned him as well. The only thing notable about that is how thorough the disownment was. Gays being disowned by family is how you get some of those kids on the streets engaging in prostitution to survive. So, yeah, it's just the Catholics.... All else in the "Christian" community for those with different ideas is all sweetness and patient understanding.
But if someone is openly trans, they're not telling you anything like that. To identify one's self as trans is to acknowledge they are living as a gender different than they were born. There is nothing dishonest about that.
Yes, it's different if you claim Donald Trump is your daddy than a person coming out as trans. One is honest, the other isn't. (shrug)
So basically, you believe the entire idea of trans is illegitimate. That's fine. You can own that position. I don't know why you give a damn - what's it to you to treat them with common courtesy and respect their decision? Does it harm you?
But at least you've claimed a position. Dawkins did what you are doing, but is too much of a chicken shit coward to do it overtly, so he did it indirectly with his comparison and acted all shocked people recognized it for what it was. THAT is the issue. He wasn't merely inviting discussion - he was making the same claim you are that trans people are liars, dishonest, and why don't we treat them as POS liars like we did to Dolezal?
How was life for dissidents in "enlightened" revolutionary France (or revolutionary America)? Were they reasoned and dialogued with?You do have the small (but loud) Catholic Integralist types out there, certainly, but they are powerless. Both they and the modern Woke Crowd have forgotten one of the most important lessons of the Wars of Religion and the Enlightenment that followed - of tolerance for dissent and that conflict over ideas should be based in reason and dialogue.
Well, Revolutionary France was certainly hardly Liberal, so yeah, they got their heads cut off - which is rightly seen as a failing in that movement, and not something we should replicate even in a less violent formHow was life for dissidents in "enlightened" revolutionary France (or revolutionary America)? Were they reasoned and dialogued with?
The problem with Dolezal is she lied, repeatedly, fabricated a black family, called a black adopted brother her son, and a black friend her dad. Her life story was a lie, dishonest. That's why she was vilified. If she'd been honest about only 'identifying' as black, that's a different story, and a likely different outcome.
Dawkins could invite a discussion about how it was perhaps wrong to vilify Dolezal and how he believes she was unfairly ostracized given she was in his opinion, perhaps, operating from a position of genuine desire to help the black community, whatever. He didn't need to bring up trans people at all, whose situation is really nothing like hers. By comparing them to her, he was calling their lives as much a lie as hers, as dishonest, as fake. If he believes that, he should say it, own the position, and not hide behind an apples and dump trucks comparison to make the point, then act all surprised when his bullshit is called out. He knew what he was doing, or should have, because he's not an idiot.
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