Re: Is it worth the risk?
galenrox said:
Yeah, but, at the risk of sounding a little callous, here's an argument that I've heard.
Think about it this way, what's more tragic, a 17 year old kid dying or a still born child? As a society we do place different values on different levels of life, i.e. a human's life is more valuable than a dog, a dog's life is more valuable than a cows, etc. and we do the same with people, i.e. a miscarriage is less tragic than an 8 year old, which is less tragic than a young father, and it also changes based on the way that the person died.
So, if the fetus is alive, and it's killed in the act of an abortion, how does that match up against other types of life dying?
Just a question, seeing what you think about it.
That's a good question, I'm glad you brought it up. That's completely correct, that we place different values on different sorts of life. And I think there are many different answers to this question. Here's the best answer I can come up with:
To me, death seems worst if it is someone close to my age. The high school kidnappings and suicides hit me hardest. This may be because I realize that it could've been me, or it could be because the student had lots of life ahead of him/her.
The there's the children (5-15). Those hit me hard because all children seem completely innocent to me, and I realize that they haven't had enough time to show how great they can be, and we never know what kind of person the child might have become.
As for adult deaths, I'm not affected as much because I haven't reached adulthood yet (I'm 16). While I do feel bad, it's not the same feeling as when a 8-year-old is abducted and killed.
The elderly affect me the least, because I feel that at least they had plenty of life to live and had time to develop into whatever they wanted to be. After all, the elderly are going to die soon anyway. (Yes, I know, that's not a good way to look at it.)
And babies don't affect me much at all. The reason is because no one knows who they are yet, they have almost no personality (that we know of). Sure, they didn't get to live their life out, but they don't realize what is happening either. They don't know what they're missing.
Then come pets. I hate it when I hear about animal abuse and that sort of thing. It's weird, because they aren't human, yet people care about them and are saddened by the death of a pet.
Then all the other animals. I'm sad to hear that cows are slaughtered for food and that squirrels and deer get hit by cars, but it doesn't last for me. For example, there was a story about 1500 sheep who fell off a cliff, many of them to their deaths. I felt bad for a minute, but think of how I'd have felt if they were all people, all children. It's just not the same.
As for fetuses, I am having trouble deciding where they go on the list. I would probably say between the babies and the pets, but I don't exactly know why. I'll have to think about that one for a while.
galenrox said:
I do see your point, and respect it. It seems that as a man I should err towards freedom, since whether or not a woman can have an abortion effects me quite a bit less than the woman. I think if a woman decides that it's immoral, that's just fine, since it's her body, she can decide what she feels is right, but I don't feel like it's really my place to make that decision for anyone else.
And that's why I'm pro-choice. I understand that I'm fallible, just like everyone else. I think that we need to embrace that the chance that everyone else is wrong is just as likely as the chance that we're wrong, and thus we need to only make our decisions. I understand that that's harder to ask of the pro-life people, since you actually think there's killing of people going on, and thus asking you to stand aside while we go off and abort fetuses isn't too realistic, but I really feel that we need to just make our own decisions on this matter.
Well, the way I see it, abortion should be illegal until it is proven that the fetus is not a child. I realize that this is the exact opposite reasoning as much of the constitution. Innocent until proven guilty, not illegal until it is proven bad, yadda yadda yadda. But for some reason I strongly feel that it should be illegal. Since it could be a child, don't kill it. Which is sort of like the Terry Schiavo case. Since she could be alive still, don't kill her. Of course, I was for her death, but that's for different reasons.