It is of utmost importance and our laws reflect that. Where do you get the idea that it's a "tidbit?"
No one forces the biological father to have sex with the female, either. So? And yet, he can walk away and leave the female to endure the pregnancy and care for the child if he so desires. Giving the female equal choice in the matter is the civilized thing to do.
Would you drop the "N" word thing, already? It has nothing to do with the discussion.
The point is that it is inhumane to force a woman to carry an unwanted pregnancy to term. Once science is able to perfect those transplanted wombs in males they've been working on - we'll see if the biological fathers will be forced to consent to the surgical implantation of the embryo in their surgically implanted womb. You'd like that, wouldn't you? It'd give you a way to ensure that the babies are born, after all.
https://www.yahoo.com/health/surgery-could-give-men-wombs-1302360099545142.html