I was talking with my neighbor yesterday and she asked if I wanted to go play bingo with her. I said no and asked where is was. She said it was cat a church and I responded with humor that I am not a church guy. Well, BANG! Now it was "you're not religious"?! type questions and I said no there are too many. She said but they are all correct and I said I believe in a higher deity but I will not let another person tell me what it is. So she asks me top go to church with her! Sensing this is going to get nuts I ended it with a polite "no thanks". So the question is or maybe it's a complaint, why do religious people believe they should change non-believers, or as I like to call them people that are NOT like them? Why not just enjoy your faith and not try to coerce others in to believing like you do? Again, I am not an atheist but I believe in letting everyone just pursue something this important on their own.
I was talking with my neighbor yesterday and she asked if I wanted to go play bingo with her. I said no and asked where is was. She said it was cat a church and I responded with humor that I am not a church guy. Well, BANG! Now it was "you're not religious"?! type questions and I said no there are too many. She said but they are all correct and I said I believe in a higher deity but I will not let another person tell me what it is. So she asks me top go to church with her! Sensing this is going to get nuts I ended it with a polite "no thanks". So the question is or maybe it's a complaint, why do religious people believe they should change non-believers, or as I like to call them people that are NOT like them? Why not just enjoy your faith and not try to coerce others in to believing like you do? Again, I am not an atheist but I believe in letting everyone just pursue something this important on their own.
I think she likes you and wants to share a social event, and that you're going way over board.I was talking with my neighbor yesterday and she asked if I wanted to go play bingo with her. I said no and asked where is was. She said it was at a sports bar and I responded with humor that I am not a 'bar guy'. Well, BANG! Now it was "you're don't like football"?! type questions and I said no there are too many teams. She said but they are all correct and I said I believe in good sportsmanship but I will not let another person tell me what it is. So she asks me to come watch the game with her! Sensing this is going to get nuts I ended it with a polite "no thanks". So the question is or maybe it's a complaint, why do sports fans believe they should change non-sports-fans, or as I like to call them people that are NOT like them? Why not just enjoy your team and not try to coerce others in to supporting the teams you do? Again, I am not a bad sport but I believe in letting everyone just pursue something this important on their own.
Why Do Religions Recruit ?
With 12-step programs, it's about attraction, not promotion, and adhering to that tradition keeps the program true to its recovery principles.I was talking with my neighbor yesterday and she asked if I wanted to go play bingo with her. I said no and asked where is was. She said it was cat a church and I responded with humor that I am not a church guy. Well, BANG! Now it was "you're not religious"?! type questions and I said no there are too many. She said but they are all correct and I said I believe in a higher deity but I will not let another person tell me what it is. So she asks me top go to church with her! Sensing this is going to get nuts I ended it with a polite "no thanks". So the question is or maybe it's a complaint, why do religious people believe they should change non-believers, or as I like to call them people that are NOT like them? Why not just enjoy your faith and not try to coerce others in to believing like you do? Again, I am not an atheist but I believe in letting everyone just pursue something this important on their own.
I was talking with my neighbor yesterday and she asked if I wanted to go play bingo with her. I said no and asked where is was. She said it was cat a church and I responded with humor that I am not a church guy. Well, BANG! Now it was "you're not religious"?! type questions and I said no there are too many. She said but they are all correct and I said I believe in a higher deity but I will not let another person tell me what it is. So she asks me top go to church with her! Sensing this is going to get nuts I ended it with a polite "no thanks". So the question is or maybe it's a complaint, why do religious people believe they should change non-believers, or as I like to call them people that are NOT like them? Why not just enjoy your faith and not try to coerce others in to believing like you do? Again, I am not an atheist but I believe in letting everyone just pursue something this important on their own.
I was talking with my neighbor yesterday and she asked if I wanted to go play bingo with her. I said no and asked where is was. She said it was cat a church and I responded with humor that I am not a church guy. Well, BANG! Now it was "you're not religious"?! type questions and I said no there are too many. She said but they are all correct and I said I believe in a higher deity but I will not let another person tell me what it is. So she asks me top go to church with her! Sensing this is going to get nuts I ended it with a polite "no thanks". So the question is or maybe it's a complaint, why do religious people believe they should change non-believers, or as I like to call them people that are NOT like them? Why not just enjoy your faith and not try to coerce others in to believing like you do? Again, I am not an atheist but I believe in letting everyone just pursue something this important on their own.
I was talking with my neighbor yesterday and she asked if I wanted to go play bingo with her. I said no and asked where is was. She said it was cat a church and I responded with humor that I am not a church guy. Well, BANG! Now it was "you're not religious"?! type questions and I said no there are too many. She said but they are all correct and I said I believe in a higher deity but I will not let another person tell me what it is. So she asks me top go to church with her! Sensing this is going to get nuts I ended it with a polite "no thanks". So the question is or maybe it's a complaint, why do religious people believe they should change non-believers, or as I like to call them people that are NOT like them? Why not just enjoy your faith and not try to coerce others in to believing like you do? Again, I am not an atheist but I believe in letting everyone just pursue something this important on their own.
I have no problem with religions spreading their ideology, as long as it is not done through donation money meant for charity and humanitarian aid. Spread the good word on your own dime.
It is a subconscious need to feel validation in one's own beliefs - recruiting and convincing people to believe as you do bolsters your faith in your own beliefs. This often occurs when one is not entirely comfortable with their own beliefs, and / or does not truly believe them.
Maybe the reason some religious recruit (Christianity) and others do not (Judaism or Hinduism) is because some have religious texts commanding their followers to "make disciples and baptise them" and others do not .... It's really as simple as that.
I have no problem with religions spreading their ideology, as long as it is not done through donation money meant for charity and humanitarian aid. Spread the good word on your own dime.
Well some seem to think pushing one's religion is acceptable and I don't have a big problem with it other than it is presumptuous. I know it starts at childhood but don't come up to an adult with the assumption that they need you religion. It is not the same as some post here as recommending a car they are delighted about or a political group they feel is vital. We have all heard the proverbs about discussing politics and religion, etc. So what started as a nice neighborly chat turned in to her yacking about religion. Maybe I should have levetated myself off the ground and breathed fire on her face but I have not done that in years.
It's really not.
When others do not believe as you do (you in general, not you personally), it subconsciously applies a bit of doubt to your own beliefs. When you are able to convince someone to believe as you do, beliefs are reinforced. If everyone on the planet believed in the same thing, all doubt would be erased and no one would preach to anyone.
It's really not.
When others do not believe as you do (you in general, not you personally), it subconsciously applies a bit of doubt to your own beliefs. When you are able to convince someone to believe as you do, beliefs are reinforced. If everyone on the planet believed in the same thing, all doubt would be erased and no one would preach to anyone.
I was at a family gathering. I am known for my non religious stance. I do not remember how it went but one time an analogy came like "...just like you who do not go to a mosque." I was being positioned as that of an ignorant atheist hence I replied:
Me: Who do you think I am? I use to go to the mosques! I use to be a 5 timer (i.e., 5 time praying a day)! I have read the Qur'an (BTW we call it Kur'an with a "K" for "Quran" means turkey in Albanian)!
Him: (surprised) So why don't you believe it then?
Me: Well somehow it just does not adds up!
(Hold on for a recruiting line now. Wait for iiiit, it is comiiing!)
Him: (laughs) What is a shoe to a shoe seller?
This is what I have to deal with guys. The analogy is that we humans are mere shoes whom can never understand God the seller of us! Such untasteful, human life degrading, groundless, stupid analogies, that are probably designed and would not even work with children even!
Yet they think that they are right, correct, and are a "promoting" cool, grand, people with such BS. I look at him, and instead of just continuing with a mere "Well, everyone to themselves then!" I open up more hoping that there just might be some sense in them:
Me: Well I do not believe that which I do not understand.
Him: You "scientists" (I omit the real profession of mine that he called me with here) are very complicated.
Me: That stands! (and laugh my way out of it).
What do you guys think though? Should I have distanced at that point with my "Each to themselves" cold statement? Or did I do well by opening up more?
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