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There are many motivations, but if you look closely almost all of them are suicidal, choosing a different means of suicide that involves victims as well. When it comes down to it in many cases those who are suicidal are just hoping that someone will care about them. When family life is scarce and society is too busy with themselves to care about others, many who are suicidal who could have been saved end up not being saved, and some end up going down extreme paths, like choosing to take others with them in a mass shooting or doing the same while backing some extreme ideology just so they could feel they had a place to fit in.
Family is not just your mother and father and immediate children, there should be aunts uncles grandparents great grandparents cousins etc looking out for you, as well as your friends, when society stops having a tight bond of looking after their own, it falls apart as it moves towards selfishness and the prospect of me myself and I rather than the idea of friends family and mutual respect.
While I agree with what you're saying, I don't think it's the entire answer either. The Sandy Hook shooters mother loved him a lot. Yes, he had mental health issues but he had family support. I also think Randy Stair had a good family life, but he acted like he hated his family.