I have read it. You misconstrue what is being said and don’t appreciate the context. Adultery/Jealousy. . No instruments violated the womens body. She was given a choice to drink a liquid or not to. I won’t argue scripture with you nor make excuses for God. Adultery is serious. And this example is far from the wholesale slaughter of the unborn that we are witnessing now.
Psa 139:13 For thou hast possessed my reins: thou hast covered me in my mother's womb.
Psa 139:14 I will praise thee; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made: marvellous are thy works; and that my soul knoweth right well.
Psa 139:15 My substance was not hid from thee, when I was made in secret, and curiously wrought in the lowest parts of the earth.
Psa 139:16 Thine eyes did see my substance, yet being unperfect; and in thy book all my members were written, which in continuance were fashioned, when as yet there was none of them.