I don't think you quite understand just how close Trump was to having the election set aside in 2020. If Pence did what Trump wanted, or had the crowd stolen the ballot box, it could have well been thrown into congress for a vote, and they could have voted him in. I don't see how the military is relevant here. The coup attempt, like many coup attempts, was merely to pervert the law to his end. The military would not be involved in such things. It would be a constitutional crisis.
But if you do not see the obvious erosion of American democratic institutions by Trump, you are blind to what is happening in this country. He has half the population believing that our elections lack integrity (including a third of the people that think he actually won), despite evidence to the contrary and has believing the justice system is a political arm. Those two things alone provide a permission structure for a lot of things. Apparently you are not familiar with Project 2025, which is a detailed plan to replace most of the management of government with people loyal to him, not to America, including in the DoD and in the military (easy to do, just push out the "disloyal" brass) Perhaps you should study up on how Viktor Orban, a consultant to the Heritage foundation on Project 2025 became a dictator in Hungray. It is how Trump intends to do so here. Few have stood up to him; no one else seem to have the guts (I am talking about you Mitch McConnell and Lindsey Graham -- you know better). Cowards!
Trump has pretty much told you that he intends to use the government to chase political foes. He tried (and to some extent) succeeded the last time, blocked only by "institutional, patriotic Americans" that actually put country ahead of Trump. They will not be in his next administration (see also Project 2025). He also has pledged to shut down the press that is unfavorable to him. With Project 2025 implemented and the very odd SCOTUS opinion of July providing immunity, this will not be a problem, it will barely be an inconvenience. What Trump has been taking about for much of the election is not democracy; but autocracy (have you been paying attention?) He has not denied that conclusion. He has no coherent of policy anything other than tariffs (which is incoherent) and mass deporations. Substantially all of his platform is about going after people he does not like (brown people, Democrats and NATO). How un-American!
Then there is the matter of half of the people that have worked with Trump that tell us that he wants to be a dictator, has no respect for the constitution, and therefore should be no where near the office. These are people that know him best that issue the warning, but his cult-following doesn't want to hear the warnings, they like Trump for irrational reasons and have rationalize that he doesn't mean what he says and could never be a dictator. I remind of General Kelly's comments:
These cultists, unfortunately, are being allowed to vote.... but they are voting irrationally and without any consideration for what is right for American.
Dictatorships are often unexpected, driven by policy error.
www.forbes.com
The United States is in terrible danger.
www.vox.com
Trump's march to re-take the White House continues with renewed determination. If he wins he'll have an "army" of 10,000 recruits at his disposal to help implement his controversial agenda.
www.abc.net.au
During a recent town hall, Fox News’ Sean Hannity gave former President Donald Trump the chance to rebut the idea — floa
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What if the United States was ruled by a strongman? It's a fair question these days.
www.newsweek.com
A comprehensive catalog of the autocratic threat to democracy based on former President Donald Trump and his associates’ autocratic plans and promises.
www.justsecurity.org
OK, so there is the evidence. Counter that, if you can, with something more substantial than "your feelings" that it can not or will not happen. As a voter, you owe us more than "your feelings" in rendering your vote. You owe us a vote for what is right for America. Do you actually have an answer to this?