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Things that don't help the reasonable athiests

LOL at you not realizing that for 90% of people in America, a Christmas tree is intrinsically linked with Christmas.

Are Christmas trees inherently Christian? Nope. Do most people associate them with a Christian holiday? Yep.

That's because for the majority if people, Christmas is a primarily secular holiday that has little or nothing to do with religion. It's about Santa Claus and presents and Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer.
 
And here you basically show you're not here to honestly discuss anything. You're here to be a militant atheist with a bone to pick. I'll happily discuss this with any person being reasonable in this thread...me and catz had a back and forth being on opposite sides of this...but I'm not endulging you so you have a platform to derail my thread and turn it into another bully pulpit piece condemning the evil evil christians.

So now you dodge justifying your absurd position by claiming:

1. I'm dishonest
2. That the reasons that I clearly took the time to write are "unreasonable" based on your whim
3. I'm not a Catz
4. I'm militant
5. Am condemning evil christians

Zyphiln, you are misrepresenting my post and that's not appropriate. You're also getting personal. If you don't want to debate, that's fine...but I think you can find a better way to hide from justifying your absurd position, like, not responding. Or admitting your position has been shown to be absurd...

You heard some news, you reacted emotionally, you got it wrong, get over it.
 
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I understand that some people resent our current state of pluralism and want everything to be about them. They should probably get over it.

I'm not going to get bent about a religious display. I'd suggest that Christians learn to not be upset by an atheist banner. Other people's beliefs aren't a personal attack.

I believe that this was a personal attack. I was glad to see some athiests also say it wasn't right.
 
Cat said....WHATEVER the atheists put on that corner would have offended y'all. At least be truthful about that. There is no sign that a group of Atheists could put up at Christmas on a corner traditionally claimed by Christians that wouldn't offend you.

Not true Cat. They could have put up a banner that said " Happy Holidays from American Atheists" or whatever their group is called. Although it would probably go over better in a different location.
 
I believe that this was a personal attack. I was glad to see some athiests also say it wasn't right.

religion - so powerful it turns a secular governments allowance for the free use of a public site, first come, first serve.

...into a PERSONAL attack.

America. Where your personal beliefs are personal attacks, and you'll be personally attacked for having them.
 
Cat said....WHATEVER the atheists put on that corner would have offended y'all. At least be truthful about that. There is no sign that a group of Atheists could put up at Christmas on a corner traditionally claimed by Christians that wouldn't offend you.
Not true Cat. They could have put up a banner that said " Happy Holidays from American Atheists" or whatever their group is called. Although it would probably go over better in a different location.

Not true Barbbtx, Zyph, the author of the OP, is according to him, NOT oturaged at the content, but that <someone else> obtained that spot for something other than what the town folk were use to.
Zyphlin said:
(In response to whether or not he'd think it was equally bad to have put up a Festivus display)
Less so than what they did, but still think its a dickish move.
Now if they had done the festivus display and got the spot honestly no having any clue what they were moving out from it or the history of the spot...then yeah, wouldn't be offended in the slightest.

I'm glad that you think "Happy Holidays from American Atheists" would have gone over better, that's at least encouraging. I don't think it actually would have gone over better...I think people would have been as or more outraged if it said "Atheist" in the sign.

The fact is that it's so popularized because the majority is picking on the minority. It's sensational news.

You know it's true because when you analyze it, it's simply this:
1. The individuals who usually put up the nativity were legally and ethically in the right, when they obtained the spot and put up what they wanted.
2. The individuals who this time put up the secular message were legally and ethically in the right, when they obtained the spot and put up what they wanted.

That's the quintessential test of ethics, and most of our forum dwellers fail miserably here. The test of your ethics is NOT when you agree, it's when you despise the opposition. If you can admit they were in the right, and leave it at that, despite your personal distaste, that's acceptance of a free society/beliefs. If it's a public space, and the use is within the guidelines of use of that legal space, then why would anyone get all bent about it? Because emotionally they didn't agree, and they happen to be the majority, so they feel righteous.

It's not a christian issue, all humans do this. Still doesn't make it right.
 
No group of Atheists has ever gone and murdered their neighbor because they were Christian. The same cannot be said in reverse. That's why blatant expressions of Christianity make us nervous. It has nothing to do with our beliefs. It has to do with how much we expect you to follow the teachings of non-violence that your savior espouses. History has taught us not to trust you.

Now, that aside, Christmas is a fun holiday. And I never get pissed at anyone wishing me a Merry Christmas. It means "I hope you are joyful on December 25th." No part of that sentiment is negative. I don't even mind nativity scenes on the lawn of a mall. It is, after all, Christmas! Celebrate the damn holiday and have fun!
 
No group of Atheists has ever gone and murdered their neighbor because they were Christian. The same cannot be said in reverse. That's why blatant expressions of Christianity make us nervous. It has nothing to do with our beliefs. It has to do with how much we expect you to follow the teachings of non-violence that your savior espouses. History has taught us not to trust you.

Now, that aside, Christmas is a fun holiday. And I never get pissed at anyone wishing me a Merry Christmas. It means "I hope you are joyful on December 25th." No part of that sentiment is negative. I don't even mind nativity scenes on the lawn of a mall. It is, after all, Christmas! Celebrate the damn holiday and have fun!

I've said "Happy Holidays!" for eons. Mostly because it's the whole year-end thing. Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Year's, Kwanzaa, Chanukkah, etc.
 
I think it's these two fundamental positions:

1. Accept that in the public square, promoting a personal, exclusionary beliefs, will necessarily annoy some people who don't share your belief.
2. Accept that in the public square if you are going to promote your own, exclusionary beliefs, that you ethically would then need to support anyone else doing the same (as you are doing) - even if you accept the fact that you are intentionally annoying others.

Tradition is irrelevant. It's like saying you are in the right because "Traditionally we always annoy those people, so it's OK..but they don't usually annoy us, so when they do, it's not OK."
 
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Not true Barbbtx, Zyph, the author of the OP, is according to him, NOT oturaged at the content, but that <someone else> obtained that spot for something other than what the town folk were use to.

Close. Its that <Someone else> specifically attempted to take that spot specifically to boot out <the people who had it> because they didn't like their message and by kicking them out it furthers their political message.

I also do think content mattered a bit, but its two equal and unrelated parts. You could completely innocently have taken the spot, but put up something that was a dick move to do. To go to an extreme, lets say someone innocently and honestly just happened to get the spot without realizing or purposefully trying to kick someone out, but then put up a sign that said "SCREW CHRISTMAS". In that case taking the spot wouldn't be a dick move, but the action would be. On the flip side, lets say another group specifically wanted to boot out that original group, but then put up a nativity because they think theirs is better. In that case, to me, the taking of the spot is a dick move, the action afterwards isn't as much.

So there's two parts to it in my mind. But you did do a good job of getting it in general.

And I agree, this isn't necessarily in and of itself a christian vs athiest thing. It could be with any group.
 
I believe that this was a personal attack. I was glad to see some athiests also say it wasn't right.

I don't think you understand the concept of a personal attack. Let me repeat myself: Get over it.
 
Not true Cat. They could have put up a banner that said " Happy Holidays from American Atheists" or whatever their group is called. Although it would probably go over better in a different location.


Do you understand the origin of the term holiday? Clearly, you don't. If you did, you'd understand why it would be weird for an atheist to use this term. I do enjoy reading your posts, though, purely for the entertainment value.
 
I think it's these two fundamental positions:

1. Accept that in the public square, promoting a personal, exclusionary beliefs, will necessarily annoy some people who don't share your belief.
2. Accept that in the public square if you are going to promote your own, exclusionary beliefs, that you ethically would then need to support anyone else doing the same (as you are doing) - even if you accept the fact that you are intentionally annoying others.

Tradition is irrelevant. It's like saying you are in the right because "Traditionally we always annoy those people, so it's OK..but they don't usually annoy us, so when they do, it's not OK."

See, I disagree a bit. I think, as a society, we need to be reasonable and understand a bit when people are celebrating stuff that is a tradition and something that a majority of people enjoy, instead of acting like everythings about us.

Look, like it or not, the vast majority of people in this country celebrate christmas, and an even larger amount celebrate at least SOME form of a holiday during that particular season. You dislike religion, fine. You dislike the notion of having something related to a religion displayed on a local piece of property that allows any of its citizens to put up things and does not specifically endorse it. Fine. No problem. Fight the constitutionality of it afterwards. But be at least tactful and respectful to your fellow citizens in realizing that your view of dislike or displeasure for the holiday and how wrong it is is a minority thing and stop trying to **** on peoples fun just to make it about yourself.

You think "Green" energy is idiotic, recylcing is a bunch of environmentalist whacko brainwashing, global warming is bunk, and conservation is a socialist buzz word. Wonderful, that's fine you have that opinion if you wish. Push your opinions all you want. But could you be a decent fellow citizen and show some tact and respect and not try to go protesting outside a meet up of a bunch of 10 year olds that are organizing a recycling drive during Earth Day.

You're a recovering alcoholic, the thought of alcohol just puts you into sweats. You've come to think its one of the biggest downfalls of society and should be banned as the harmful drug that it is. That's great. How about being somewhat respectful though and not walking around on Saint Patrick's day telling people how they're contributing to the downfal of humanity and are all sorry excuses for human beings.

You hate the government, you think its evil and a force for ill things in the world. You believe our politicians are all evil and people are simply "sheeple". That we should not be proud of America, as its idiotic to be proud of a country. Fine and dandy. Could you shut up about it as you try to make it all about yourself during Independence Day when you attept to lecture to us about how horrible we are supporting such a corrupt regime and celebrating a country whose here only due to murder and plunder.

It goes on and on.

Yes, I know there is nothing in this world...NOTHING...that can be said or done that won't offend someone. However, if we live our life worrying that we're going to be offending random tiny minority we're literally go crazy because the only answer would be to do nothing...and doing nothing would offend someone! So at most, you try to offend the least amount of people possible. This doesn't mean people shouldn't be respectful to the views or thoughts of the minority. I'm not saying go up to someone that doesn't celebrate christmas and go "WOOOOOO! SANTA ROCKS. WHY DON'T YOU LIKE CHRISTMAS! Sing Rudolph with me! WOOOOO CHRISTMAS!". I'm saying putting up Santa and Rudolph isn't shoving it in peoples faces. On the flip side, I know people have convictions, I know they have principles, I understand all this...but just get out of your own ass for half a second, look around at the vast majorities that are finding happiness and joy during these various traditions, and just for a short short time stop being a selfish ass and actually realize that hey, maybe for a bit of time, I'll keep my views to myself and let these people enjoy because its doing so much good for so many people.

You don't want to do that? Fine. You know what, you're absolutely free to. Just like I'm free to look at the girl with the hooked nose, droopy eye, and strange walk and say to a friend "My god, that woman's a troglodyte? I wouldn't touch her with a 10 foot pole". Guess what, you can still be a jackass and a dick while being "right" in your ability to act like it.
 
See, I disagree a bit. I think, as a society, we need to be reasonable and understand a bit when people are celebrating stuff that is a tradition and something that a majority of people enjoy, instead of acting like everythings about us.
This topic isn't for/against religion IMO,just so you know. It's an ethical dilemma to me.

If you apply that same reasoning to the secular display, why would so many people be outraged at it, to the point of you hearing about it and posting your displeasure? It’s not about Christians so why do Christians care? The secular message wasn’t about you, so why do you care? If you can’t apply your moral rule to both sides equally, it’s not a valid reason, is all I’m pointing out.

Look, like it or not, the vast majority of people in this country celebrate christmas, and an even larger amount celebrate at least SOME form of a holiday during that particular season. You dislike religion, fine. You dislike the notion of having something related to a religion displayed on a local piece of property that allows any of its citizens to put up things and does not specifically endorse it. Fine. No problem. Fight the constitutionality of it afterwards. But be at least tactful and respectful to your fellow citizens in realizing that your view of dislike or displeasure for the holiday and how wrong it is is a minority thing and stop trying to **** on peoples fun just to make it about yourself.
Exactly. Your entire position rests on the majority creating ethics excluding the minority (which is bad).

A. The Christians who put up a clearly Christian display of exclusionary beliefs/religion, offended some individuals for *some reason*.
B. The follow-on winners of the public spot put up something that is clearly a display of the belief in the support of sep.state/religion, and this offended some individuals for *some reason*.

You claim that because A. was done for a long time, and is supported by the majority, it’s appropriate. And B., being new, and in the minority, isn’t. My claim is that to be consistent you need to choose:

1. Either both are offense and both are acceptable.
2. Both are offensive and neither are acceptable.

However, if we live our life worrying that we're going to be offending random tiny minority we're literally go crazy because the only answer would be to do nothing
That’s a philosophical cop-out, first. But let’s accept it for the sake of showing where it leads:

1. The Christians would be absolved because they couldn’t be concerned about who it might offend
2. The Follow-on display people would be absolved likewise, because they couldn’t be concerned about who it might offend.
Which you’re not yet agreeing to…

Lastly, even though it’s strawman, it’s false anyway. The use of the public square for clearly religious displays is a well known issue of dispute. It’s not based on aesthetics or whim. It’s based specifically on the fact that it’s an exclusionary religious statement made on public grounds. This at the least comes close to violating sep. state/religion, which is a well established point of ethical, cultural, political debate. Or as you might put it, it has a tradition of being contested. It’s not something you have to worry about, because it’s quite well known. Similar to say, handicapped facility accommodation. Yeah, you have to worry about that when you design a bulding. Yes, as a representative of the state you may have to worry about sep. religion/state periodically.

You don't want to do that? Fine. You know what, you're absolutely free to. Just like I'm free to look at the girl with the hooked nose, droopy eye, and strange walk and say to a friend "My god, that woman's a troglodyte? I wouldn't touch her with a 10 foot pole". Guess what, you can still be a jackass and a dick while being "right" in your ability to act like it.
Bad analogy for so many reasons. The most obvious reason being such drastic personal conditions are not chosen, but genetic, and this was a personal attack. The OP is clearly discussing impersonal behavior that is based on well known discussions of religion/state, and Christianity, that are engaged in entirely by choice. It’s strange you made the earlier point about “it’s not about them personally”, but you chose an analogy that was a clear personal attack. Are you lying about it “not being about them”? Or was that just an honest error.

But even we ran with that, it runs into the same brick wall:
1. Accept that in the public square, promoting a personal, exclusionary beliefs, will necessarily annoy some people who don't share your belief.
2. Accept that in the public square if you are going to promote your own, exclusionary beliefs, that you ethically would then need to support anyone else doing the same (as you are doing) - even if you accept the fact that you are intentionally annoying others.

We already both agree that the behavior is offensive to someone else! The question is not if both are offensive, we agree it is.

Bob remarks in private to someone that Betty is ugly, annoying, and frightening. Offensive to some? Yes.
Betty remarks in private to someone that Bob is shallow, ignorant, and unintelligent. Offensive to some? Yes.

The question is, why are you supporting Bob’s offensive remarks, while actively opposing Betty’s remarks. (ignoring for a minute that those are still very personal attacks).
A consistent view would one of these:

Both should be discouraged. (Hey, let’s just all get along)
Neither should be discouraged. (Sticks and stones, kids will be kids, freedom of speech, let’s us know who the dicks are, etc.)

You keep supporting the notion that it's OK of the majority does it. That's blatant discrimination.
 
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Exactly. Your entire position rests on the majority creating ethics excluding the minority (which is bad).

A. The Christians who put up a clearly Christian display of exclusionary beliefs/religion, offended some individuals for *some reason*.
B. The follow-on winners of the public spot put up something that is clearly a display of the belief in the support of sep.state/religion, and this offended some individuals for *some reason*.

Sigh...

Alright, actually correctly articulate what I'm actually arguing and then maybe we can have a conversation. But this is about the third or fourth time you've over simplified what I am saying by completely and utterly leaving out portions of it to make it appear less consistant with my overall point by completely misrepresenting it. I have clearly and specifically articulated my pont, numerous times, so when you want to deal with what I'm actually saying rather than what you want to keep presenting as my ideas but is not, then we can get somewhere.
 
I have clearly and specifically articulated my pont, numerous times,.
And I clearly analyzed it. You reject the analysis by claiming I misinterpreted it...without showing where? Tedious.

I kept the earlier post as clear and simple as it can get. Which do you agree with, and which do you reject, and why. I generally accept both. Catz, I believe based on the response, at least accepts #2 with the phrase "get over it".

1. Accept that in the public square, promoting a personal, exclusionary beliefs, will necessarily annoy some people who don't share your belief.

2. Accept that in the public square if you are going to promote your own, exclusionary beliefs, that you ethically would then need to support anyone else doing the same (as you are doing) - even if you accept the fact that you are intentionally annoying others.
 
No, what's tedius is pointing out your specific misrepresentation over and over again...which is why I didn't waste time doing it yet again when you didn't bother to read it before apparently. Since I'm still not going to waste time typing something out again that you haven't seemingly bothered to actually acknowledge let me just requote one of the many times I've clarified.

Close. Its that <Someone else> specifically attempted to take that spot specifically to boot out <the people who had it> because they didn't like their message and by kicking them out it furthers their political message.

Its not simply taking a spot held by someone else for a long time and thus people like it. Its purposefully doing it specifically or in large part to screw with those people you dislike and stick it to anyone supporting those people. A point that is abundantly clear to anyone reading my posts as I've said repeatedly I would have no issue with a group who took the position honestly with no care, idea, or thought as to who they were taking it from, the history of that group having it there, or anything of the such.
 
No, what's tedius is pointing out your specific misrepresentation over and over again...

Once again, which do you accept, which do you reject. A Why would be nice, but is optional.

1. Accept that in the public square, promoting a personal, exclusionary beliefs, will necessarily annoy some people who don't share your belief.

2. Accept that in the public square if you are going to promote your own, exclusionary beliefs, that you ethically would then need to support anyone else doing the same (as you are doing) - even if you accept the fact that you are intentionally annoying others.

It takes 10 seconds to respond to that, please stop avoiding it.

Zyphlin said:
Close. Its that
<Someone else> specifically attempted to take that spot
specifically to boot out <the people who had it>
because they didn't like their message and by
kicking them out it furthers their political message

I have been through this. I will go step, by step. The end question will be exactly the same as I posed to you three posts ago, above.

Using your above quote, let's look at each point.

1. Someone always has to "specifically attempt to obtain the spot." That's therefore a moot point/irrelevant to the ethics.
2. It doesn't "boot out" anyone, each year it is first come first serve. That's false.

And then the for-and-against pairings are what we're left with to examine:

3 - The nativity group doesn't like the new message and how it was "enacted".
3 - The atheist group doesn't like the old message or how it was "enacted".

4. The nativity group message furthers a religious message, possibly a political one.
4. The atheist group message furthers a constitutional/political message.

Hidden in there somewhere is the key to your offense. How can one of these be supported and the other contested? Notice this is essentially the same question I posed to you the last three posts.
 
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Mach, Congrats. You've succeeded in making this thread even more boring than it already was.
 
Mach, Congrats. You've succeeded in making this thread even more boring than it already was.

I can top him. I will bring in the mimes!

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Once again, which do you accept, which do you reject. A Why would be nice, but is optional.

1. Accept that in the public square, promoting a personal, exclusionary beliefs, will necessarily annoy some people who don't share your belief.

2. Accept that in the public square if you are going to promote your own, exclusionary beliefs, that you ethically would then need to support anyone else doing the same (as you are doing) - even if you accept the fact that you are intentionally annoying others.

It takes 10 seconds to respond to that, please stop avoiding it.

How does that have anything to do with whether it was a dickish move or not? I accept both premises. It was still a dickish move. People can promote their exclusionary beliefs without being dickish about it.

Do you not agree that it is dickish when the Westboro Baptist Church folks protest at funerals? Don't your premises apply equally in that situation?

Offending people is not the primary intent of people setting up nativity scenes at Christmas. Offending people is clearly the primary objective of the atheists in this case. Truly I can't think of anything they might have accomplished, OTHER than offending folks by their actions. That is pretty much the definition of a dicksh move.
 
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