Well, no need to go around and around.
I'll point out - just once more - that the frequency of the occurrences have no bearing at all on whether they are fair or not.
And the "transphobic" thing is just a weak ad hominem. I pointed out in my first post on this that I want to see trans people get all the respect, compassion, and support they deserve as human beings. If that's "transphobic", I'm wondering how.
But more to the point, it doesn't matter one bit to the argument whether someone who points out the unfairness is "transphobic", or against women's rights (as another poster holds). The person making the argument, and your opinions about their motives is completely irrelevant. What matters is the facts and the logic behind it, which not one single person on here has challenged, resorting instead to ad hominems and appeals to rarity or priority.
If a plumber comes to your house and shows you water stains on your ceiling, you might claim that the plumber is just a Nazi, or that they don't really care about your house, or (slightly more realistic) that he or she just wants your money. In fact, none of that matters. What matters is that it looks like you might have a leak. It's either true or it's not, regardless of your opinion about the consistency or the character of the person who points it out.