Do you realize how you sound?
Working mothers are out there. Hell, even some men do not even realize their wives work.

I know a man that says his wife never worked they don't then all of a sudden acknowledged she was a school nurse.
I do not know what the stats are, but the numbers of working mothers is substantial. I am disgusted you do not seem to have respect for that.
And the ludicrous part of what you said is that women fought hard to get into careers in the military, police, and firefighting. You make light of their struggle to be accepted in those positions .
Luckily we are not 50 years ago, when my mother had to ask my father permission to work outside the home. She had to promise the clothes would still be clean, the kids ready for school, and dinner would be on the table before the evening news. And that is exactly what happened. And my mother was not alone.
But go ahead and make like your situation is the norm for most families.
I am not offended by your comments. I am disgusted that you think that your situation is the norm.