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My take on abortion...

How on earth do you think that makes you pro-choice then?

That's not pro-choice at all. You want your morality to override everyone else's. It's not going to happen, especially based on a philosophical perspective such as "personhood". It's not valuing the life of a woman when you remove their right to shape their own pregnancy and as a result their destiny.

And once again you are avoiding all the other arguments I made. You dismissed some really good ones as "conspiracy" earlier. Again, no secular reasoning, but "just because" reasoning, which isn't rational at all.

Good luck in your quest. You'll need it.

Becasue what you are unable to grasp is that there are other approaches and people that don't fit your atempt to dismiss them as fundamentalists, extremists, or racist in the pro-life movement. Your essay focused only on the most negative of the pro-life movement and nothing more, it certainly wasn't an unbiased account.

You value a womens right to choose whether she has an abortion or not. I get that, I understand the logic, I just don't put a higher value on the right to choose than the right to life.

The issue of personhood is extremely relevant because the lack of personhood is fundamental to the laws sactioning of abortion. The issue of personhood can not be soley substantiated by biology, but does indeed have a philosophical aspect. Your steadfast denial of all things religious is misplaced because religion is a factor in the philosophical argument whether you want to admit it or not. While I'm not very religious, and do beleive in the necessisity of separatio church and state, I don't beleive the government has the right to summarily dismiss anything associated with religion in the forming of it's laws. Religion is but one of many inlfuences that affect the forming of a person's morality. Being anti-religious also has an impact on morality in those that insist on ignoring or dismissing any morality that can in any way be associated with a religion or spiritual source.

America is considered one of the most religious of all developed nations, and whether you like it or not, you have to deal with the fact the a great majority of Americans are to some level religious. They deserve a voice in the running of the country as well.
 
Calling it a child is disingenuous. "Child" is an affectionate term. I think whether or not it is a woman's "child" in her womb is up to her decide. It is the difference between a woman simply being pregnant, and being a mother.

Every pregnant woman I have ever come in contact with refers to her fetus as a child or baby. Your attempt to dismiss that doesn't negate that it is indeed a common way to refer to a child in the womb, not to mention an actual definition of the word.
 
That refers to parenting. You know... when MOTHERS actually intend to have their CHILD?

Which, by the way, is an entirely philosophical argument.
 
Once more with feeling.

Anybody can debate it. NOBODY gets a say in it except the pregnant one. I support them, just as I support gay rights to be treated exactly as straights are. It's not about excluding anybody from debating the subject, it's about noting when people are speaking from a willful place of ignorance. Being male means you will never know, regardless of which side of the fence you're on, what it feels like to go through an unexpected pregnancy. And being a female who refuses to hear or understand what it's like to be in those shoes because you've never been in those shoes would cause the same result.

It's an issue that affects all of humanity. As such, all of humanity has a voice in the issue.
 
It is what it is. Consistency is not the reality of the situation. And she is the only one who makes a decision for her body. If there is a relationship there that's a partnership, then you are correct. But that is usually not the case when it comes to abortion decisions.

This is a myth.
Read the Guttmacher statistics.
Most women who have abortions are partnered; most already have children.
Only 6% are under 18.
There are a lot of fallacies about abortion.
Suggesting that most women who have them are not in relationships is merely perpetuating one such fallacy.
 
It's an issue that affects all of humanity. As such, all of humanity has a voice in the issue.

It's an issue that COULD affect all of humanity, for instance if abortion were to be so common that population levels drop to the point of being unable to maintain our species or if birth control were disregarded to the point of overpopulation necessitating mandatory abortion. But individual abortions, at this point in time, don't really affect anyone but the individuals involved. All of humanity can have a voice in whether society approves of abortion, and all of humanity may be able to require abortions for the benefit of society, but humanity can't prevent abortions. All of humanity has no voice in an individual woman's decisions.
 
I didn't say that. I said "that's a partnership". I am saying that there is a difference between being in a relationship where you can discuss your options openly with the person and knowing that the relationship may or may not be forever, or that if you DO discuss it with your partner, and he is not on board for this issue, it may spell the end of the relationship AND (longest run-on sentence ever) and a relationship that you both sort of know is not headed for permanence.

Which is where I was when I found out I was pregnant with my daughter, and told the father he wasn't.

This is a myth.
Read the Guttmacher statistics.
Most women who have abortions are partnered; most already have children.
Only 6% are under 18.
There are a lot of fallacies about abortion.
Suggesting that most women who have them are not in relationships is merely perpetuating one such fallacy.
 
You can call it what you think best conveys your findings, and I'll continue to do the same.

Though I also think "manslaughter" is apropriate.

Also, you might want to re-examine your thoughts on the commandments.

I was just popping in on what Captain was saying, and wasn't getting it entirely, so I suggested killing.

If it were against the law it might be manslaughter. I don't think most jurisdictions would bother with it, though. This is a personal issue between a woman and herself. This is why the government can't get involved. I'd say it is what it is. It's been around legally for 37 yrs. It will never go back to being illegal. All the pro-lifer's can do is preach to people who follow their thoughts on this, and hope that they can keep a few women from going the abortion route.

Women are keeping their kids more and more, so the stigma's that used to force women to want to abort aren't there anymore, and thank gawd for that.

I'm happy with the way America has chosen to go with unwed pregnant women. It's makes abortion unnecessary for many who would have aborted before R v W.
 
Well, it looks like I'm just going to have to sit back and see what the majority of Americans want. If the majority wants to keep abortion legal, then okay. I might not agree with it, but if the majority wants abortion, then I just have to accept it and move on. Until I can vote (which really is only a few months), all I can do is observe. And that's for any political issue.
 
Well, it looks like I'm just going to have to sit back and see what the majority of Americans want. If the majority wants to keep abortion legal, then okay. I might not agree with it, but if the majority wants abortion, then I just have to accept it and move on. Until I can vote (which really is only a few months), all I can do is observe. And that's for any political issue.

Abortion is not a matter for majority vote, it is an individual decision. You can change the law, but it will still be an individual decision. The numbers of abortions performed have little to do with legality. Few women are ever going to worry about being prosecuted for abortion because it is a private matter.
 
No they don't. How so? It's not their life on the line. It is no skin off anybody's nose except the woman whose body is in it.

To be able to comment? Sure! Anybody can comment. But at the end of the day, it's her body, her decision. The End.

And ffs I am sick unto death of reading "She just shouldn't have sex then. She knew what caused it." Yeah! Because you know. It's having sex with yourself that gets one pregnant. There's cer ... **** it. I've lived this, I'm tired of talking to walls that can neither think nor comprehend, just more yeahbut, yeahbut, yeahbut.

And I'm tired of people like you claiming that people on the other side of the debate don't think and consider your arguments. It seems to me that, because we don't automatically agree with you, we're ignorant and wrong. Despite what you might think, I'm actually considering and thinking about every comment I read on here, including arguments from pro-choice people. I'll even be the first to admit that I don't have a very strong argument compared to most of the pro-choice people on this thread.

So don't make assumptions based on your own selfish thoughts. Because, as they say, making assumptions makes an ass out of you.
 
Well, it looks like I'm just going to have to sit back and see what the majority of Americans want. If the majority wants to keep abortion legal, then okay. I might not agree with it, but if the majority wants abortion, then I just have to accept it and move on. Until I can vote (which really is only a few months), all I can do is observe. And that's for any political issue.

It's not up for a vote.
The Supreme Court ruled on it almost 40 years ago.
They ruled that it was a woman's constitutionally-protected right.
Even if 100% of Americans wanted it criminalized, the decision is now protected by stare decisis.
 
It's not up for a vote.
The Supreme Court ruled on it almost 40 years ago.
They ruled that it was a woman's constitutionally-protected right.
Even if 100% of Americans wanted it criminalized, the decision is now protected by stare decisis.

I know it's not up for vote. I'm just saying that I'm listening to what the majority of Americans want. I probably worded that horribly. My last statement about voting was just a general statement. I won't have a true impact on any laws or on who runs our country until I can vote.
 
Abortion is not a matter for majority vote, it is an individual decision. You can change the law, but it will still be an individual decision. The numbers of abortions performed have little to do with legality. Few women are ever going to worry about being prosecuted for abortion because it is a private matter.

I'm aware that the issue of abortion is not up for vote. Pro-Life people are obviously trying to change the law. And by my statement, I mean that I'm just going to sit back and observe the outcome.
 
Becasue what you are unable to grasp is that there are other approaches and people that don't fit your atempt to dismiss them as fundamentalists, extremists, or racist in the pro-life movement. Your essay focused only on the most negative of the pro-life movement and nothing more, it certainly wasn't an unbiased account.

What other "approaches"? Your arguments are the same as a fundamentalists, because that's what the core of the movement is. It is based on religious determinism, dominionism, and fundamentalism. You may not come from a religious standpoint, but all of the arguments were invented by them.

I don't focus on the negative or the positive. I focus on what's real and what I see before my very eyes. If you think that's negative, then oh well, I can't help you. And frankly, I don't see what's good in a movement, that is based solely on a philosophy, that wants to take away the rights of others.

By the way, it's obvious you didn't read my post fully. You must have stopped at the second paragraph and didn't read on. You conveniently glossed over a lot of good facts that I posted. I have lost a lot of respect for you because of this, since I have read every single one of your posts from top to bottom before commenting.

You value a womens right to choose whether she has an abortion or not. I get that, I understand the logic, I just don't put a higher value on the right to choose than the right to life.

I actually have no problem with your belief. As I mentioned earlier, I think our two perspectives can co-exist, but the difference between you and I is that you don't want me to have the right to determine these questions for myself. You want your philosophy to reign supreme and override all others. This is what I cannot allow.

The issue of personhood is extremely relevant because the lack of personhood is fundamental to the laws sactioning of abortion. The issue of personhood can not be soley substantiated by biology, but does indeed have a philosophical aspect. Your steadfast denial of all things religious is misplaced because religion is a factor in the philosophical argument whether you want to admit it or not. While I'm not very religious, and do beleive in the necessisity of separatio church and state, I don't beleive the government has the right to summarily dismiss anything associated with religion in the forming of it's laws. Religion is but one of many inlfuences that affect the forming of a person's morality. Being anti-religious also has an impact on morality in those that insist on ignoring or dismissing any morality that can in any way be associated with a religion or spiritual source.

I actually don't disagree. Religion can be included under philosophy, and it's part of the culture that determines law; but what it doesn't determine is civil rights. You think I am against the pro-life movement because it is largely religious. Actually, I am against the pro-life movement because it is trying to override my right to determine my own philosophy and what the matter means to me.

You and I are EQUAL in the eyes of the law, so why does your choice get to override my choice? Why should your philosophy be more important than mine? Why do your spiritual beliefs on the fetus get to cancel out mine?

This is my problem with you. You can't just have peace with your own beliefs, you want to take away my choice as well, all based on your SUBJECTIVE interpretation, which is equally as subjective as mine. Maybe you finally understand what I'm trying to say now, but frankly I don't think you do. Your beliefs, separated from the politics, are not wrong anymore than mine are wrong.

It's when you become political and try to infringe on my choices that I have a problem with you. I have seen nothing in the pro-life philosophy that offers true absolutism in answering these questions that would prompt me to agree with making those answers into laws. It is just one belief in a sea of many.

America is considered one of the most religious of all developed nations, and whether you like it or not, you have to deal with the fact the a great majority of Americans are to some level religious. They deserve a voice in the running of the country as well.

Let's try this again... maybe this time you'll understand.

That's true, but religion doesn't determine civil rights. It never has, and it never will. In fact, religion has been fighting against the civil rights movement since the days of slavery and women's suffrage. There are always religious people coming out of the woodwork with quotes from the Bible every time society begins to progress to a new point that they are uncomfortable with. Not to mention, there are evangelical leaders who are vying for personal and political power by manipulating the religious values of these issues to get support. (Abortion is one issue.) Conservativism in general wants to slow social progress, and I actually think this force is sometimes necessary in society to prevent changes from unfolding too rapidly, but when it comes to civil rights it has been nothing but corrosive.

So you may take offense to me saying that the southern U.S., the usual bastion of anti-civil rights activism, has proven itself to be misogynist, racist, and homophobic in almost every civil rights issue, but that is simply the honest reality.

If we left it up to religion to determine rights, blacks would still be slaves, women would not be autonomous persons and would be stuck in the kitchen still, gays would still be executed or put into asylums, and of course, women would have zero right to abort under law. This is what religious Dominionism demands... it demands the rule of law under God, not under the U.S. Constitution or Bill of Rights. How do I know this? Because at every step of the way, the Dominionist Christian community has been the most vocal of all groups at trying to silence the rights movements.

This is what you're not understanding. Separation of Church and State means secular values determine civil rights. It's why the mob lost in Prop 8 in California, even though the majority (who were religious) voted to strike down a right for gays. The courts and legislature determine rights, and they have to balance forward progression of rights against the constitution and the needs of society. In doing so, they weigh your philosophical values against others. Yours does not pre-dominate. This is why Roe v Wade sided with privacy. A woman's right to choose has to be based on her culture, beliefs, and what is good for her.

I respect that religious people feel they have found the answer to what abortion is and what fetal personhood is, but you cannot deny that these answers are subjective and philosophical. You claim absolutism, but there is nothing absolute about your belief. You have freedom of religion so you can believe what you want, but your rights stop with you.

What I want for myself and my children is the right to determine what these spiritual and philosophy questions mean to me, and that is frankly none of your business. I am an equal individual just as you are.

This is why... if you don't agree with abortion, then DON'T have one. It's just that simple.
 
What other "approaches"? Your arguments are the same as a fundamentalists, because that's what the core of the movement is. It is based on religious determinism, dominionism, and fundamentalism. You may not come from a religious standpoint, but all of the arguments were invented by them.

I don't focus on the negative or the positive. I focus on what's real and what I see before my very eyes. If you think that's negative, then oh well, I can't help you. And frankly, I don't see what's good in a movement, that is based solely on a philosophy, that wants to take away the rights of others.

By the way, it's obvious you didn't read my post fully. You must have stopped at the second paragraph and didn't read on. You conveniently glossed over a lot of good facts that I posted. I have lost a lot of respect for you because of this, since I have read every single one of your posts from top to bottom before commenting.



I actually have no problem with your belief. As I mentioned earlier, I think our two perspectives can co-exist, but the difference between you and I is that you don't want me to have the right to determine these questions for myself. You want your philosophy to reign supreme and override all others. This is what I cannot allow.



I actually don't disagree. Religion can be included under philosophy, and it's part of the culture that determines law; but what it doesn't determine is civil rights. You think I am against the pro-life movement because it is largely religious. Actually, I am against the pro-life movement because it is trying to override my right to determine my own philosophy and what the matter means to me.

You and I are EQUAL in the eyes of the law, so why does your choice get to override my choice? Why should your philosophy be more important than mine? Why do your spiritual beliefs on the fetus get to cancel out mine?

This is my problem with you. You can't just have peace with your own beliefs, you want to take away my choice as well, all based on your SUBJECTIVE interpretation, which is equally as subjective as mine. Maybe you finally understand what I'm trying to say now, but frankly I don't think you do. Your beliefs, separated from the politics, are not wrong anymore than mine are wrong.

It's when you become political and try to infringe on my choices that I have a problem with you. I have seen nothing in the pro-life philosophy that offers true absolutism in answering these questions that would prompt me to agree with making those answers into laws. It is just one belief in a sea of many.



Let's try this again... maybe this time you'll understand.

That's true, but religion doesn't determine civil rights. It never has, and it never will. In fact, religion has been fighting against the civil rights movement since the days of slavery and women's suffrage. There are always religious people coming out of the woodwork with quotes from the Bible every time society begins to progress to a new point that they are uncomfortable with. Not to mention, there are evangelical leaders who are vying for personal and political power by manipulating the religious values of these issues to get support. (Abortion is one issue.) Conservativism in general wants to slow social progress, and I actually think this force is sometimes necessary in society to prevent changes from unfolding too rapidly, but when it comes to civil rights it has been nothing but corrosive.

So you may take offense to me saying that the southern U.S., the usual bastion of anti-civil rights activism, has proven itself to be misogynist, racist, and homophobic in almost every civil rights issue, but that is simply the honest reality.

If we left it up to religion to determine rights, blacks would still be slaves, women would not be autonomous persons and would be stuck in the kitchen still, gays would still be executed or put into asylums, and of course, women would have zero right to abort under law. This is what religious Dominionism demands... it demands the rule of law under God, not under the U.S. Constitution or Bill of Rights. How do I know this? Because at every step of the way, the Dominionist Christian community has been the most vocal of all groups at trying to silence the rights movements.

This is what you're not understanding. Separation of Church and State means secular values determine civil rights. It's why the mob lost in Prop 8 in California, even though the majority (who were religious) voted to strike down a right for gays. The courts and legislature determine rights, and they have to balance forward progression of rights against the constitution and the needs of society. In doing so, they weigh your philosophical values against others. Yours does not pre-dominate. This is why Roe v Wade sided with privacy. A woman's right to choose has to be based on her culture, beliefs, and what is good for her.

I respect that religious people feel they have found the answer to what abortion is and what fetal personhood is, but you cannot deny that these answers are subjective and philosophical. You claim absolutism, but there is nothing absolute about your belief. You have freedom of religion so you can believe what you want, but your rights stop with you.

What I want for myself and my children is the right to determine what these spiritual and philosophy questions mean to me, and that is frankly none of your business. I am an equal individual just as you are.

This is why... if you don't agree with abortion, then DON'T have one. It's just that simple.

You always put so much thought into your posts.
I wish I could thank them more than once.
 
You always put so much thought into your posts.
I wish I could thank them more than once.

Sometimes I think I'm wasting my time. Maybe I should learn to be less long-winded. Most people don't read my stuff completely anyway. (As evidenced above.)
 
Sometimes I think I'm wasting my time. Maybe I should learn to be less long-winded. Most people don't read my stuff completely anyway. (As evidenced above.)

It's not a waste of time.
Remember, your posts will remain even after you've moved on.
Many people- members and non-members alike- will read them, not just the ones currently participating in this thread.
Some will appreciate what you have to say.
 
For the record, I too consider myself "pro-choice."

Just because I believe there should be consequences for some of the choices people make,... that doesn't mean that I don't think they shouldn't be free to make them. And in that vein, I am just as pro-choice when it comes to elective abortion as I am for a rapist a robber or a child molester. It's not their freedom to chuz that I oppose,.... it's the actual rights of another that they violate that I feel there should be consequences for.

I see. If a woman is raped, it is her fault, and she must carry the fetus to term, reminding her of the rape every day for the rest of her life. Where do we go next? Ah, how about if a woman has a drink at a bar, and is later attacked by a rapist, it is her fault because she had a drink? Believe it or not, this is what the Police Chief of Dallas believes. Looks like you are in good company.

Say, I have an even better idea. How about we just burn her at the stake, and be done with it? We could do it right behind the courthouse, and sell tickets. While burning the jezebel, we can all sing religious songs. Jesus loves me, yes I know.... Come on, sing it with me. :roll:
 
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I see. If a woman is raped, it is her fault, and she must carry the fetus to term, reminding her of the rape every day for the rest of her life. Where do we go next? Ah, how about if a woman has a drink at a bar, and is later attacked by a rapist, it is her fault because she had a drink? Believe it or not, this is what the Police Chief of Dallas believes. Looks like you are in good company.

Say, I have an even better idea. How about we just burn her at the stake, and be done with it? We could do it right behind the courthouse, and sell tickets. While burning the jezebel, we can call sing religious songs. Jesus loves me, yes I know.... Come on, sing it with me. :roll:

It all goes back to Christian Dominionism. The ordained role of women is to be reproductive vessels for men. If that means they get pregnant due to rape, then oh well.

The madness never ends with these people.
 
It all goes back to Christian Dominionism. The ordained role of women is to be reproductive vessels for men. If that means they get pregnant due to rape, then oh well.

The madness never ends with these people.

It's hurtful and outrageous.
If I were in charge, I'd silence them.
Fortunately, I'm not; wiser people than me make the rules.
They've already ruled, regarding abortion.
I wish prolifers would accept this ruling and move on.
 
It's hurtful and outrageous.
If I were in charge, I'd silence them.
Fortunately, I'm not; wiser people than me make the rules.
They've already ruled, regarding abortion.
I wish prolifers would accept this ruling and move on.

I would never try to silence them. That would be a violation of their right to free speech. In America, even complete douche bags have rights.

In addition, why silence them, when we can allow the nation to see what kind of lunatics they really are?
 
It's hurtful and outrageous.
If I were in charge, I'd silence them.
Fortunately, I'm not; wiser people than me make the rules.
They've already ruled, regarding abortion.
I wish prolifers would accept this ruling and move on.

It's not so much about abortion itself... it's just the pet cause of the religious people who are vying for power. They will use any cause to achieve it. In the 1930's they tried to pitch their "equal rights" bill to America and lost. At that time they had a lot of support. Once they failed, the movement had to funnel its focus into something else, and it became the women rights movement and the anti-choice movement. I'm telling you, it's all about power. The specific issue of abortion isn't that important to the leaders. They're making tonnes of money off of the religious services they are giving to the public, and they're just lay priests. They're not even recognized by the big churches.
 
It's not so much about abortion itself... it's just the pet cause of the religious people who are vying for power. They will use any cause to achieve it. In the 1930's they tried to pitch their "equal rights" bill to America and lost. At that time they had a lot of support. Once they failed, the movement had to funnel its focus into something else, and it became the women rights movement and the anti-choice movement. I'm telling you, it's all about power. The specific issue of abortion isn't that important to the leaders. They're making tonnes of money off of the religious services they are giving to the public, and they're just lay priests. They're not even recognized by the big churches.

You nailed it.

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Abortion is not a matter for majority vote, it is an individual decision. You can change the law, but it will still be an individual decision. The numbers of abortions performed have little to do with legality. Few women are ever going to worry about being prosecuted for abortion because it is a private matter.

Actually it is, the supreme court overstepped it's bounds and the dissenting justices stated it was for that very reason. The people were denied the normal political processes within their own states. This is one of the main challenges to the law.
 
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