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My pastor always closes every Sunday's sermon with these words. "Love Christ, Love like Christ!". I'm like many and often I let my emotions get the better of me. The past week particularly so. His weekly newsletter included the following this past week. It refreshed my mind, my heart and my soul so I thought I'd share it. Hope it means something to someone here.
Speak the Truth in Love: Here’s the context from that verse in Ephesians 4 that I mentioned earlier (vv.13-15):
“This will continue until we all come to such unity in our faith and knowledge of God’s Son that we will be mature in the Lord, measuring up to the full and complete standard of Christ. Then we will no longer be immature like children. We won’t be tossed and blown about by every wind of new teaching. We will not be influenced when people try to trick us with lies so clever they sound like the truth. Instead, we will speak the truth in love, growing in every way more and more like Christ, who is the head of his body, the church.”
What did Paul mean here? To be mature in our faith as Christians means to speak the truth in love. Paul says by speaking the truth in love we will grow in every way more and more like Christ. I desperately want to grow in every way more and more like Christ, and I want that for each of you. So, let’s do it! A word of caution, though: It’s more difficult than it first appears. It’s easy and probably natural to gravitate to one of these two phrases or the other, but it’s not so easy to hold both in tension. For example, to speak the truth without love is a weapon. As one of my favorite pastors and theologians Rev. John Stott said in his commentary on Ephesians, “Thank God there are those in the contemporary church who are determined at all costs to defend and uphold God’s revealed truth. But sometimes they are conspicuously lacking in love. When they think they smell heresy, their nose begins to twitch, their muscles ripple, and the light of battle enters their eye. They seem to enjoy nothing more than a fight.” On the other side, to love without speaking the truth is a deception. More from Stott: “They (Those who speak love without the truth) are determined at all costs to maintain and exhibit love for their brothers and sisters, but in order to do so are prepared even to sacrifice the central truths of revelation. Both are unbalanced and unbiblical. Truth becomes hard if it is not softened by love; love becomes hard if it is not strengthened by truth.” People need to hear that in this broken, fallen world, there is healing possible, there is salvation possible, there is wholeness possible through a relationship with Jesus Christ. Don’t be afraid to speak up, don’t be afraid to speak the truth, but make sure you’re speaking it in love!
Pray: We all need to set aside time in the coming days for prayer. 2 Chronicles 7:14 tells us, “If my people who are called by my name will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, I will hear from heaven and will forgive their sins and heal their land.” We need God to heal our land and we need God to heal our hearts. Lord, may it be so!
Act: Finally, (and yes, I know this is longer than my normal articles, hope you’re still with me!) don’t let this moment pass you by. If you feel the Holy Spirit nudging you to get involved in local politics, do it – Lord knows we need more Christians in the political landscape! If you have been thoughtless or callous toward someone, go make it right. If you feel led to start a Bible Study at your workplace, go for it – this is a great time to offer some Biblical perspective on how to navigate this landscape. As we just read in our study of 1 Samuel, let’s have the posture of a young Samuel who said, “Speak Lord, your servant is listening.”
Speak the Truth in Love: Here’s the context from that verse in Ephesians 4 that I mentioned earlier (vv.13-15):
“This will continue until we all come to such unity in our faith and knowledge of God’s Son that we will be mature in the Lord, measuring up to the full and complete standard of Christ. Then we will no longer be immature like children. We won’t be tossed and blown about by every wind of new teaching. We will not be influenced when people try to trick us with lies so clever they sound like the truth. Instead, we will speak the truth in love, growing in every way more and more like Christ, who is the head of his body, the church.”
What did Paul mean here? To be mature in our faith as Christians means to speak the truth in love. Paul says by speaking the truth in love we will grow in every way more and more like Christ. I desperately want to grow in every way more and more like Christ, and I want that for each of you. So, let’s do it! A word of caution, though: It’s more difficult than it first appears. It’s easy and probably natural to gravitate to one of these two phrases or the other, but it’s not so easy to hold both in tension. For example, to speak the truth without love is a weapon. As one of my favorite pastors and theologians Rev. John Stott said in his commentary on Ephesians, “Thank God there are those in the contemporary church who are determined at all costs to defend and uphold God’s revealed truth. But sometimes they are conspicuously lacking in love. When they think they smell heresy, their nose begins to twitch, their muscles ripple, and the light of battle enters their eye. They seem to enjoy nothing more than a fight.” On the other side, to love without speaking the truth is a deception. More from Stott: “They (Those who speak love without the truth) are determined at all costs to maintain and exhibit love for their brothers and sisters, but in order to do so are prepared even to sacrifice the central truths of revelation. Both are unbalanced and unbiblical. Truth becomes hard if it is not softened by love; love becomes hard if it is not strengthened by truth.” People need to hear that in this broken, fallen world, there is healing possible, there is salvation possible, there is wholeness possible through a relationship with Jesus Christ. Don’t be afraid to speak up, don’t be afraid to speak the truth, but make sure you’re speaking it in love!
Pray: We all need to set aside time in the coming days for prayer. 2 Chronicles 7:14 tells us, “If my people who are called by my name will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, I will hear from heaven and will forgive their sins and heal their land.” We need God to heal our land and we need God to heal our hearts. Lord, may it be so!
Act: Finally, (and yes, I know this is longer than my normal articles, hope you’re still with me!) don’t let this moment pass you by. If you feel the Holy Spirit nudging you to get involved in local politics, do it – Lord knows we need more Christians in the political landscape! If you have been thoughtless or callous toward someone, go make it right. If you feel led to start a Bible Study at your workplace, go for it – this is a great time to offer some Biblical perspective on how to navigate this landscape. As we just read in our study of 1 Samuel, let’s have the posture of a young Samuel who said, “Speak Lord, your servant is listening.”