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Judge strikes down Michigan's ban on gay marriage[W:95]


Tell you what.

If you promise not to get Gay married, I promise not to Eat cow balls.

That way we both get to avoid things we don't like.


Sound good?
 
See, the idea of legitimate state interest is NOT the 14th Amendment... the idea of legitimate state interest was a kind of clever artifice, just a rather blunt tool, an instrument created/utilized to resolve specific issues. Like a certain sized wrench, it doesn't fit all repairs. Like a gun, it can be used for good and it can be used for bad. Being that we cannot stop it from existing, we do need to stop the folks who would use it for ill conceived purposes as best we can.
 
Tell you what.

If you promise not to get Gay married, I promise not to Eat cow balls.

That way we both get to avoid things we don't like.


Sound good?
Nah, I don't have to make such promises, you are free to go ahead and eat cow balls [ cows don't have balls you do realize, don't you...would be bull, like what you are trying to promote here ].

Sound good? No, for sounds good, I enjoy music. Ciao.
 
We cannot do anything about what harm, in a free society, people may legally do to others... such as these SS families you speak in such high regard. There are also hetero couples who should not have children and we cannot prevent that either, in such a free society.

We are tolerant, perhaps often too tolerant in allowing people such legal means to hurt others, especially children. As a society, we have not figured that one out yet. A free society cannot stop all harm before it is done, it can only hope to limit that harm and work at eliminating it, if possible. Surely we DO NOT want to compound the ongoing harm.

Sorry, it was not ME alone who chooses to deny SS folk anything that they deserve. First of all, they do not deserve what you say they do, and it is our system that makes those decisions, not myself as a individual. And our society is fully within its rights to make its own rules... I know that concept seems a bit beyond you, and many others here, at times. If you read the posts in this thread, there is, and I have so indicated, harm... that this is a part of an ongoing weakening, by the liberal ideology performed through liberal policy, of many, if not all, of the solid institutions developed by a great nation for itself to preserve for its posterity...I spend a great deal of time, and have done so a large part of my life, studying history, with a growing understanding of many of its lessons.

I would say many here have rather little understanding, besides what a media driven frenzy [ ever wonder how/why that happened?] has craftily ill -informed, of just what it is, as well as the damage incurred, that you and folks that think similarly to you on this and other topics are doing to the foundations of our society. You can't see it? Study some history and remove the rose colored glasses, perhaps.

And...

You may have plenty to be ashamed of with regards to your professed Christianity without my, a non-believer in that faith, assistance. With what you express here, you seem to have removed any doubts about it.

Oh, and as a courtesy, might you keep your bodily malfunctions to yourself when posting to me in the future, please? Certainly not classy and hardly proves persuasive to folks with those higher standards that you are, presumably, hoping to convert.
 
Nothing good ever comes out of ohio i swear....Yet this appeal may result in scotus taking the case so that even shanties in alabama will be forced to allow gay weddings.
Or...

The decision just may, as it should, go the other way, remove all doubt and allow all good people to maintain those stable, traditional institutions handed down to us which have allowed us to reap the abundant bounty which surrounds us all, even those lowly termites who work to destroy it. eace :2wave:
 

You haven't warned us of any dangers.


Yes, a pretty stark shift towards tolerance in a short time, wouldn't you say? Going from nationwide voting for constitutional amendments to a majority in favor of equality in just a decade. Equality won every vote in 2012.

You're right though. You don't have to prove any harm, any interest in denying same-sex marriage. You can keep your belief for any reason, or no reason at all. The state, however, has this burden. And it's a test they haven't been able to meet even once since Windsor. Even the head of NOM admits now that equality is coming. "There's 5 votes on the supreme court for same-sex marriage." The people who do this for a living couldn't provide an argument to defend same-sex marriage bans. The people who do this for a living realize they've lost. But you? You're confident in victory.

Or, at least, you pretend to be. :lamo
 

Comparing people to insects. Yeah, no disturbing historical connotations there. Earlier, you said several times "we" should have never "offered" tolerance. (as if that's what you've actually done.) What do you mean by that? What change do you think should not have been made?
 

People like you said this about interracial marriage. How's that damage going for you?
 

The court does supersede the people on any issue where there is a violation of the Constitution, even if the people believe it is a cultural issue, construct, however you wish to try to present it. Segregation was a cultural thing. Banning interracial marriage, cultural thing. The will of the slight majority of the people is always superseded by the US Constitution, and that is where the Courts come in, to ensure the Constitution is being upheld when it comes to laws enacted.

You would be wrong. Polls from the 1970s show us that the majority (around 70%) of people in the US (not just the South) were against allowing interracial marriages. Even many non-whites were (and some are still) against interracial relationships.

You are the one here who is trying to use the "me me me-ness" on this issue since you still have yet to show in anyway how same sex couples being allowed to marry would legitimately affect you or society negatively. That means that your resistance to this is merely your personal dislike of same sex couples, homosexuality.

The last sentence has to be one of the most idiotic things I've ever seen posted. Wisdom of the ages is constantly being improved upon. Wisdom involves understanding, not simply believing something. For a long time the "wisdom of the ages" said that the sun revolved around the Earth and that demons caused people to get sick. And morals are relative. Most people share some very basic morals, but the more specific the moral question, the more people's morals diverge. As for being equivalent, in this case, that is completely subjective. Of course you are going to think your morals are better and worth more than someone's who disagrees with yours. That doesn't make you right.
 

You are wrong. Just as people very rarely change their mind back to thinking interracial marriages are wrong just because they become adults, so it goes with this issue. I am an adult myself, mid-thirties in fact. I've held the same beliefs on this issue since as long as I can remember (including arguing it in high school in the 90s). Even my Catholic mother is for same sex marriage, along with the majority of adults in my family.

The trends we have prove that everything I stated in the post you quoted me.

As for the last comments, there is much more strength to fight for others to be treated equally and change unfair laws then to try to keep laws in place that are only there for your personal beliefs.
 

The Constitution does not list a lot of things that we still have rights to.

You have no clue on constitutional law and how our laws work at all. That is obvious by your comments. I have actual law experts who can back up my assertions about the laws. Until you can show me where being a person who owes child support (Zablocki v Redhail) is a protected class (specifically mentioned in the Constitution), then you fail.
 

It affects others. And it could potentially affect me in the future. You have no right to tell me that I cannot marry a woman just because you don't want me to marry a woman.

The rest of those things you mention I've already addressed. They must fight their own battles. I invite them to. They will still come down to the state's interest. That would be an argument for the state to make and they've been making it quite well. Can a 7 year old legally sign a contract? Can a horse legally sign a contract? The others are more complicated but still have state interests that the state is able to articulate when challenged (whether the courts view those interests as good enough is for a future challenge). Still has nothing to do with the fact that there is no legitimate state interest in not allowing a woman to marry a woman or a man to marry another man.
 

The law doesn't care about your beliefs or how society feels about certain things unless you are able to get enough people to deny them constitutionally unequal protection. Until that time, the 14th Amendment and the Equal Protection of everyone enshrined within stands.
 

Complain all you want, that is how our SCOTUS works.

Levels of Scrutiny Under the Equal Protection Clause


History of Equal Protection and the Levels of Review

Breakdown in the levels of scrutiny. - Free Online Library

You don't like the way our legal system and constitutional review works, tough. Attempt to change it. I doubt that will go far because most people either don't care or like it the way it is because it protects all of us.
 
How about we give it the time for many of them to actually get older before we pronounce, eh? Good lord.

We have. Or do you really believe that this issue just started in the last decade? This issue has existed for quite some time.
 

Yeah nothing screams "stable, traditional" like my uncle's 5th marriage or Britney's 24hr "just for fun" marriage :roll:

You heteros have already done everything possible to ruin marriage on your own. Blaming the gays only makes ya'll seem like abusive neglectful husbands....which undoubtedly many complaining the loudest are.
 

LMAO!! You really think we are on the wrong side of this issue? Remove the blinders.

Polling Tracks Growing and Increasingly Diverse Support for the Freedom to Marry | Freedom to Marry

Gay Marriage | Pew Research Center

"The public has gradually become more supportive of granting legal recognition to same-sex marriages over the past 15 years, with support increasing more steeply in recent years. Currently, 50% favor same-sex marriage, while 43% oppose."

And that is from last year. It has only increased since then. Our side won the last 4 votes (by the people) on this issue.
 

Doesn't matter when people started waking up to this issue and started supporting it in major numbers. What matters is that the trend clearly shows that as soon as people realized the issue itself and realized that others are being treated unfairly under the law for nothing more than personal beliefs about homosexuality, they started realizing the laws are wrong. Many still in fact believe personally that being homosexual or having same sex relationships is a sin, but they also feel that their beliefs have no place in our laws.
 

What you view as an "ill conceived purpose" is the problem. You are trying to justify your personal dislike by denying that reasonable considerations should matter when it comes to our laws and equal protection.
 

It is the requirement for the lowest tier of scrutiny. It is asking simply whether or not there is a rational basis for infringing on a Constitutional right.
 
One cannot provide proof of harm that has yet to come... If one were to look at whether cigarette smoking created harm before long term studies... not just snap shots in the short term... well, if we relied on JUST speculation without the data, the proof before that, it would seem smoking presented no proof of long term harm, right? So, based on your premise, cigarette smoking presents no long term harm?

What will be our remedy when you liberal folk destroy what was so carefully, and intelligently, created for us? Huh? What bond, collateral are you willing to put up now if we find, over time, that this liberal stupidity, along with all the others, is damaging to the nation? How would one calculate the damage? The use of liberal artifices to get around the will of the people is damning to the ideas of that debunked ideology. The fact that you just want what you want, no matter who it does/may hurt, a willingness to subvert the system to accomplish all that... is abhorrent to all rational good-hearted folk.

The state has a liberally/falsely created imposed burden... WE the PEOPLE, no matter how you try to slice or dice it in your favor, have full right and power to decide what OUR culture is and what it will be. All the silliness has just gone too far.

I am for what is right... and so YES, I am confident that right will win over the malicious... or all is lost anyhow. And since you folks are not concerned about the long term, you will be fought by the thinking and good every step of your foul ways.

The equation of equality with this evil is rather comical, by the way...
 
Wow, I cannot be held responsible for repairing an apparent failure of the educational system in however many years one may have attended... and if one is not listening or tuned into what is going on, well that is the fault of the individual, cannot lay blame on the system then...

If one does not know what an analogy is, if one cannot comprehend what it is that termites do to solid structures/foundations... if one cannot/will not allow for an advancement of a metaphoric likeness to what the liberal ideology is doing to these solid structures, gnawing away from inside and outside the institutions that have made us strong, and help in the maintenance of that strength...

Well, it would be like the futility of trying to explain mass and velocity to a 4 year old in attempting to dissuade him from running out in the street in front of an oncoming car... oh, wait, that is another analogy that perhaps is beyond the comprehension of some...

Guess some will just have to wait a few years to gain cognition, perhaps... or it may never occur... not my problem, however.

In answer to your silly question, do you know how homosexuality was thought of 30 to 40 years ago? Would you like our country to revert back to that, or would you rather enjoy the tolerance that has been extended by the overwhelmingly straight community as has been accomplished over that period? Hmmmm...?
 

every one knows race and gender are not the same but your argument that people are not being discriminated against because they have to only go with certain gender combinations is the same the exact same kind of argument

their is no misundesnting nether race nor gender have any bearing on marriage

there is no requirement for a marriage that cant be meat by any combination of races or genders

as saying no one is discrmininated against by a ban on interracial marriage because they can marry some one of the same race
 
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People like you said this about interracial marriage. How's that damage going for you?
People like me? People like me said nothing of the sort, thought nothing of the sort. It was people like you were sitting on the sidelines and waiting for the outcome and then jumped on the bandwagon after all the work had been done.
 

her example would be more like if the church could choose to marry you 2 or not in a ceremony but your marriage would not be legal and you could not have gone down to the court house
 
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