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always - in my case, my ex stayed with me because I provided her a home, money, I supported her etc. The cost of her years of planning to leave me was my life and timeThe conditions that one makes choices in is a huge factor I think.
that was a robbery of something I can never get back
In my view, if someone is being abused to the point that their self confidence is shattered, then that's far less hypocritical (if hypocritical at all) than someone who has full self actualization and the associated resources are their disposal and they make a pure moral and unconstrained choice.
you're not wrong - there are many levels of leaving and decisions/choices have exceptional variances of difficulty
and in the end ... its STILL choices and decisions made though
the day I gave my wife divorce papers was the hardest day of my life by far but I had to make it