whysoserious
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cold turkey
Suffer the pain(you deserve it). It is truly a matter of discipline, like any addiction. Tell yourself you REFUSE TO GIVE IN to your urges, make a commitment to be true to yourself and you will be amazed at the results. It's triumph to quit.
I was a heavy smoker for 20 years, then one decided that was it. I was not prepared for the withdrawal symptoms of detox, and i had pretty much every negative side effect that has been recorded. The nightmares and night sweats lasted for well over a month, it was horrible. But...those awful experiences were enough to have me swear to never start again.
That is a great point and sort of an example of an exponential function. It is exactly the same for me. The withdrawl was terrible, but now that I have come so far, even though I often have intense cravings, the thought of having to start over immediately strikes those cravings down.
Even the other night when I was out drinking with friends, I had a few times when I almost caved in and had one until I thought about how crappy the next morning would be.