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How do you prove which bathroom YOU should use?

I'm cisgender. I don't have to justify anything.

Umm... hate to say it but.... you do realize the history of bathrooms is a history of deny bathrooms to lots of different people right? Like for example women had to fight for the right to be a bathroom for them to use because they couldn't justify using the men's exclusive bathroom. Some women had to pee in jars and bottles because they didn't have a place to go to the bathroom. Heck want a modern version of this? Homeless people trying to use bathrooms. Why does SF and LA smell like pee? It's because there's no place for people to go to the bathroom in an attempt to deter homeless people from certain places of town.
 
Umm... hate to say it but.... you do realize the history of bathrooms is a history of deny bathrooms to lots of different people right? Like for example women had to fight for the right to be a bathroom for them to use because they couldn't justify using the men's exclusive bathroom. Some women had to pee in jars and bottles because they didn't have a place to go to the bathroom. Heck want a modern version of this? Homeless people trying to use bathrooms. Why does SF and LA smell like pee? It's because there's no place for people to go to the bathroom in an attempt to deter homeless people from certain places of town.
Let me rephrase... I'm a white middle-class cisgender male living in America. I don't have to justify anything.
 
And yet many cisgender women are indeed having to do so. That rather the point of this thread. Being cisgender obviously isn't enough.
see post #553
 
You can just say I'm a man or a woman nobody is going to think you're a man dressed up like a woman or a woman dressed up like a man.
If you are using the bathroom of your gender idneity, it is assumed that you are passing or have made a respectable effort to pass.

What bathroom should she use? yes, its the same person, 5 years later. HRT, and FFS,
 
If you are using the bathroom of your gender idneity,
There's no such thing there's women's bathrooms and men's bathrooms there is not men that identify as women bathrooms
it is assumed that you are passing or have made a respectable effort to pass.
If you pass then how's anyone going to know
What bathroom should she use? yes, its the same person, 2 years later. HRT, FFS, and bottom surgery.
If people can't tell she's a dude then she'll probably get away with it
Lol Reddit
 
Wrong again but I appreciate your effort.
Wrong according to your religious belief but not according to linguistics.
No they don't. Most want to be anonymous(stealth) because its safer to just pass as cisgender in as crowd.
Then shut up about it.
Fully clothed pictures gross you out?
Of that weirdo from silence of the lambs yes.
 
I dont have any religious beliefs,
So it's a cult.
but you already knew that.
I know you have religious beliefs beliefs and things that have no evidence.
A link to your claimed linguistics? I want a quote by Noam Chomsky on the subject.
I don't quote idiots.
Did someone pee in your Wheaties?
That doesn't seem to make any sense if you don't want attention with something like this don't bring attention to yourself it's easy.
Then do go to that subreddit. I don't.
I don't do subreddits.
 
Obstetricians are gawd awful powerful people. Poof, she says, this one I assign a boy. Piff, this one I'll make a girl. Whoosh, and this one I'll call a draw. /s
 
I vote for the bathrooms that I used in England. Full stalls. I didn't have to look at the feet of anyone who was shitting beside me. It was great.
Whats funny about this is that while I did see many full stalls in England, there was a window in one of the street level bathroom stalls I was in while in London. You could see people walking by the bathroom (I don't know if they could see in or not). It was a bit weird. This was at one of the chuches we toued (I'm having a poblem with a cetain lette on my keyboad).
 
There's no easy way to say this but as a Biological Woman I have to say it. Everyone poops and pees. It's just a biological fact.

That being said when I use the bathroom I use the bathroom for reasons I believe I am allowed to use. As is the case with every single individual when they use a public restroom. I, as well as everyone else believes that the bathroom they choose is the right bathroom for them. So that being said I want you to imagine that someone decided that you did not choose the right bathroom. My question is simple, how do you prove to another person that you deserve to use that bathroom? So for example, if you're a man, why do you deserve to use the men's room? And notice the word deserve. Because if anyone knows anything of the history of bathrooms and discrimination, then you would know how bad it stinks.

That being said, how do you prove to others which bathroom you should use? (And yes this is a thread spinoff of @Geoist .Thank you for the inspiration)

nobody deserves a bathroom

its nice they're around, there are rules for using them ... but nobody "deserves" a bathroom
 
nobody deserves a bathroom

its nice they're around, there are rules for using them ... but nobody "deserves" a bathroom
I think it's in public interest to have bathrooms otherwise you have the problem India does. Public health and sanitary living conditions depend on bathrooms.

That being said this whole bathroom debate to me seems like astroturf.

If someone looks enough like a woman but a pretty woman just a woman nobody's going to raise an eyebrow if they walk into the women's restroom same with the other way around.

So for these people it was never a problem it was never an issue.

I think the issue comes when people who are clearly not women and a 5 year olds could tell insist on using the women's restroom not just using it but making a big stink about it.

This is really about crossdressers and auto kind of files being treated like the transgender and that's not the case.

And there's all this talk about disphoria I would think that if someone who really wanted to transition made women uncomfortable in the women's restroom that would cause them disphoria. The ones that clearly look like dudes and insist on being called ma'am or throw a fit because women don't feel comfortable with them in the women's restroom or locker room if they need to make more of an effort.

It's like the burden is 100% on everyone else to accommodate these people and that's not the way it should be.
 
Whats funny about this is that while I did see many full stalls in England, there was a window in one of the street level bathroom stalls I was in while in London. You could see people walking by the bathroom (I don't know if they could see in or not). It was a bit weird. This was at one of the chuches we toued (I'm having a poblem with a cetain lette on my keyboad).

That could ceate a poblem. ;)

nobody deserves a bathroom

its nice they're around, there are rules for using them ... but nobody "deserves" a bathroom

Only "certain people" deserve access to clean hygiene, right?
 
Only "certain people" deserve access to clean hygiene, right?

no, be as clean as you want to be

but if you go our into the world, don't expect the world to cater to you ... you and I ? we don't "deserve" that

for each person who "deserves" to go into the bathroom of their non-biological sex, how many people "deserve" bathrooms that are ONLY for their biological sex?

it works both ways
 
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