Neither of you seem to really understand your own position on this.
You claim to believe everyone living in this society should accept your decree that government cannot direct its members to do something.
This is claiming we should do what YOU say, because YOU SAID SO. You're doing exactly what you act like you're opposing. Do you not understand this? Read it until you do perhaps? Ask questions?
WHY you believe that, then becomes important. I mean, every society, organization, employer, and basically every society on earth, has rules its members have to follow...both mandatory rules, and incentivized "nice to have" behaviors. You are coming in with this alien notion that in the biggest most important society we are likely all a part of, our national society, that we should...based on your personal decree....not have mandates/incentives in the national society we live in. That despite having it all over in everything we do in every organization, institution, club, business, household......this is the magical place it's forbidden!! (*Because you say so). Which of course, is absurd on its face.
That's why you get nowhere in this faux debate of simply stating your opinion, then grabbing your ball and going home when someone points it out to you that it makes no sense.