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RalseiButINTP

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I've been lurking in the shadows long enough, time to start talking. As of writing this, I'm 29 years old, an Air Force brat, Eagle Scout, gamer, bit of a furry, and someone who sees themselves as a bit of a more effeminate man (or "femboy" in layman's terms), albeit a bit closeted about that last one. For the longest time I've had a lot of thoughts about some political topics festering in my mind, but was struggling to find the courage to speak, especially because it feels oddly controversial to not immediately agree with one side or the other on everything. More than likely, part of this perspective derives from having spent too much time on the internet. Like many things, I believe the internet has a lot of potential for both good and bad, and as time goes on, it feels like the negatives may be starting to outweigh the positives.

Enough on that though. Other hobbies and interests of mine include music, animation, memes, comics, and psychology (not a student, I'll admit). That last one I admit, mostly has to do with the matter and topic of discussing personality, which some my notice my username being an indicator of, "INTP" being one of the 16 "personality types" suggested by the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) personality test. That said, yes, I do acknowledge and agree with a major criticism of the Myers-Briggs being that it regards personality traits as being a "one side or the other" matter, rather than as a spectrum. This alongside being a self-test which could also be flawed given a person's potential inability to be accurately self-aware while answering the questions. That said, I also learned of the Big 5 of psychology shortly thereafter and as time went on, I grew to realize why personality is such a difficult topic to address: while an individual may not be good at accurately reflecting on oneself, they would know more about their own life experiences than anyone else, and have more insight into their personalities, than anyone else. While I do believe the Big 5 is still great for hypothetical discussion, it hasn't born much fruit when it comes to having an objective way to really break down the personality of a person.

Sorry for all of that, but I felt the need to address the logically questionable chunk of my username, because I'm too lazy to think of a new one at the current time. I hope everyone has a wonderful and takes care of themselves to the best of their abilities.
 
I've been lurking in the shadows long enough, time to start talking.

Wow, you really have. Nearly four months!

Sorry for all of that, but I felt the need to address the logically questionable chunk of my username, because I'm too lazy to think of a new one at the current time.

You probably have to explain Ralsei too. Not everyone's a gamer, and I didn't know until I searched for it.
 
I've been lurking in the shadows long enough, time to start talking. As of writing this, I'm 29 years old, an Air Force brat, Eagle Scout, gamer, bit of a furry, and someone who sees themselves as a bit of a more effeminate man (or "femboy" in layman's terms), albeit a bit closeted about that last one. For the longest time I've had a lot of thoughts about some political topics festering in my mind, but was struggling to find the courage to speak, especially because it feels oddly controversial to not immediately agree with one side or the other on everything. More than likely, part of this perspective derives from having spent too much time on the internet. Like many things, I believe the internet has a lot of potential for both good and bad, and as time goes on, it feels like the negatives may be starting to outweigh the positives.

Enough on that though. Other hobbies and interests of mine include music, animation, memes, comics, and psychology (not a student, I'll admit). That last one I admit, mostly has to do with the matter and topic of discussing personality, which some my notice my username being an indicator of, "INTP" being one of the 16 "personality types" suggested by the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) personality test. That said, yes, I do acknowledge and agree with a major criticism of the Myers-Briggs being that it regards personality traits as being a "one side or the other" matter, rather than as a spectrum. This alongside being a self-test which could also be flawed given a person's potential inability to be accurately self-aware while answering the questions. That said, I also learned of the Big 5 of psychology shortly thereafter and as time went on, I grew to realize why personality is such a difficult topic to address: while an individual may not be good at accurately reflecting on oneself, they would know more about their own life experiences than anyone else, and have more insight into their personalities, than anyone else. While I do believe the Big 5 is still great for hypothetical discussion, it hasn't born much fruit when it comes to having an objective way to really break down the personality of a person.

Sorry for all of that, but I felt the need to address the logically questionable chunk of my username, because I'm too lazy to think of a new one at the current time. I hope everyone has a wonderful and takes care of themselves to the best of their abilities.
Welcome! You sound complicated. Why are you here?
 
I've been lurking in the shadows long enough, time to start talking. As of writing this, I'm 29 years old, an Air Force brat, Eagle Scout, gamer, bit of a furry, and someone who sees themselves as a bit of a more effeminate man (or "femboy" in layman's terms), albeit a bit closeted about that last one. For the longest time I've had a lot of thoughts about some political topics festering in my mind, but was struggling to find the courage to speak, especially because it feels oddly controversial to not immediately agree with one side or the other on everything. More than likely, part of this perspective derives from having spent too much time on the internet. Like many things, I believe the internet has a lot of potential for both good and bad, and as time goes on, it feels like the negatives may be starting to outweigh the positives.

Enough on that though. Other hobbies and interests of mine include music, animation, memes, comics, and psychology (not a student, I'll admit). That last one I admit, mostly has to do with the matter and topic of discussing personality, which some my notice my username being an indicator of, "INTP" being one of the 16 "personality types" suggested by the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) personality test. That said, yes, I do acknowledge and agree with a major criticism of the Myers-Briggs being that it regards personality traits as being a "one side or the other" matter, rather than as a spectrum. This alongside being a self-test which could also be flawed given a person's potential inability to be accurately self-aware while answering the questions. That said, I also learned of the Big 5 of psychology shortly thereafter and as time went on, I grew to realize why personality is such a difficult topic to address: while an individual may not be good at accurately reflecting on oneself, they would know more about their own life experiences than anyone else, and have more insight into their personalities, than anyone else. While I do believe the Big 5 is still great for hypothetical discussion, it hasn't born much fruit when it comes to having an objective way to really break down the personality of a person.

Sorry for all of that, but I felt the need to address the logically questionable chunk of my username, because I'm too lazy to think of a new one at the current time. I hope everyone has a wonderful and takes care of themselves to the best of their abilities.
Howdy Doody, RalseiButNTP!! Welcome to the forum.

I look forward to your discussion on political topics, etc. All that "personality" stuff...not so much. When it comes to personality, I can get along with most everyone...unless they have a problem getting along with me. Then I just pretty much ignore them. I don't bother with analyzing what makes them tick.
 
Welcome! You sound complicated. Why are you here?
For quite some time, I feel like I've been noticing a pattern in the political climate: things seem to be getting more extreme. I'll admit I lean a bit left/liberal (not 100% on the distinction if any), and my dad, who is both an Air Force veteran and ex-homophobe (his words, not mine), leans a bit conservative/republican and seems to agree with my viewpoint. I have growing concerns that if people don't learn to have more effective dialogue without the hostility, and learn to understand the viewpoints of those who oppose us, we could all be facing some severe consequences. Of course, I also know myself to be relatively anxious, paranoid, and/or over-analytical, so it's also possible that I may be overdramatizing things a bit here.

So funny enough, regardless of which case is true, I see this being a net positive:
In catastrophic scenario: In trying to logically address the problems that we are being presented with in today's society without being hateful, then I am doing what I can to counteract the worst-case scenarios I fear, assuming of course I can practice what I'm preaching here.
In anxiety scenario: I mean, obviously, I'm attempting to combat my own anxiety.
Why is anyone here? The misery of being misunderstood.
You are... definitely not wrong!
 
Welcome to the forum. It's good to see younger people show up here. I look forward to hearing your views and opinions.
 
For quite some time, I feel like I've been noticing a pattern in the political climate: things seem to be getting more extreme. I'll admit I lean a bit left/liberal (not 100% on the distinction if any), and my dad, who is both an Air Force veteran and ex-homophobe (his words, not mine), leans a bit conservative/republican and seems to agree with my viewpoint. I have growing concerns that if people don't learn to have more effective dialogue without the hostility, and learn to understand the viewpoints of those who oppose us, we could all be facing some severe consequences. Of course, I also know myself to be relatively anxious, paranoid, and/or over-analytical, so it's also possible that I may be overdramatizing things a bit here.

So funny enough, regardless of which case is true, I see this being a net positive:
In catastrophic scenario: In trying to logically address the problems that we are being presented with in today's society without being hateful, then I am doing what I can to counteract the worst-case scenarios I fear, assuming of course I can practice what I'm preaching here.
In anxiety scenario: I mean, obviously, I'm attempting to combat my own anxiety.

You are... definitely not wrong!
See #9.
 
Welcome to the forum!
 
Welcome, RalseiButNTP!
 
You probably have to explain Ralsei too. Not everyone's a gamer, and I didn't know until I searched for it.
Since I cannot edit my original post I shall do so here.

Ralsei is a character from the work in progress game Deltarune. He is known for being a very gentle, and kind-hearted individual who also functions as the group's healer in combat. He resides in the "dark world," a seemingly dream-like and unique world compared to the much more normal and realistic world the other two members of the group, Kris and Susie come from. So far in the story, Ralsei has already shown that he can be too kind to a fault, but now seems to be trying to learn his lesson in that regard.
 
Howdy Doody, RalseiButNTP!! Welcome to the forum.

I look forward to your discussion on political topics, etc. All that "personality" stuff...not so much. When it comes to personality, I can get along with most everyone...unless they have a problem getting along with me. Then I just pretty much ignore them. I don't bother with analyzing what makes them tick.
I could understand that, I'd say I'm more willing to go the extra mile to figure out what may be causing them to show negativity towards me, but it's fair to say some people cannot be reasoned with, unfortunately.
 
Welcome to the board. Having owned a board years ago, I can say this is the best and most active one I've been to. Be sure to heed the rules they run a tight ship here which is a good thing.
 
I'd say I'm more willing to go the extra mile to figure out what may be causing them to show negativity towards me,
It is legal to label them as curmudgeons and move on, but it's more fun to play with them.

Welcome to the forum.
 
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