So first things first: When the rules based institutional government is failing to do it's job, IS corrupt, and DOES NOTHING but perform self interest feats, you are left with 2 choices. Do nothing. Do something.
Trump was elected as a do something measure. Both sides of the aisle didn't like that, but one side got to use him (for awhile.
He's not a very good dude, by any measure, however what he is/was (supposed to be) was something different than the standard do nothing, self interested politician.
What we got was a non politician with the same self interest.
Sides of power change back and forth, and neither side holds the righteous 'for the people' mantra. Most people are tired of the same old same old, and felt like they needed a change. Your (almost) entire list can be turned back on the Democrats, at different points in time.
The hypocrisy of crying wolf only when the other side does it is starting to leak like a sieve. Like the calls of racism, or bigotry. You just can't, or don't want to see it when your side does it.
YMMV