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Well, that's the division I've pointed out -- how a hetero man or woman is expected or allowed to parent is different, and far more limiting. So are they spending time doing their gender roles, or spending it just being what the kid needs?
I dunno, I'd imagine it depends on the gay guy. But I always find it a little funny when people attribute this to "femininity," given the very cold realism that many women usually face relationships and children with (and not without good reason -- they're the ones asked to give up everything). However, what we clearly see here is that neither normative role is balanced, and there's every possibility it's not natural either.
I did not allude to being raise in a trailer park was a better alternative (note that I said "heterosexual parents"). It is a good thing that children are being adopted, my only suggestion was that those who were raised by homosexual parents would be more prone to bullying. Due to the parents raising more egalitarian children (in the homosexual parent household)...egalitarianism IS "wierd behavior" here. Supporting gay rights where I live results in being shunned, accused of being homosexual yourself, and overall teasing for years. That's simply for supporting homosexual you, let alone having two same-gender parents. I wonder where some of the studies were conducted... I'm not against gay parents, at all.
I thought it all looked familiar...your article is from 2008. Certain components could be the same like hemisphere size or hormones, but "cognitively identical" is so broad, who knows.
To answer your other ?, I'm sure there'll come a day when orientation can be known from birth or even before with MRI or PET or whatever and that'll open some ethics debate. Last i heard though the next 'breakthru' was some experiment on sheep fetus sexuality, not humans.
This has been my theory for years, even before it was made public. Had alot of biology classes and studied crowd stress in wildlife.
Anyway, I wasnt aware that they had identified the hormones...do you have any links that show they believe it's estrogen? I understand that you said it's still being researched.
And have they identified any stage(s) during fetal development when they believe the hormones have affect/the most affect? I'd be interested in reading your sources.
Anyway, I wasnt aware that they had identified the hormones...do you have any links that show they believe it's estrogen? I understand that you said it's still being researched.
I dunno, what do you think would come of it?
Well first of all, it's not going to be possible. But let's suppose that it was. Then you could test for criminal behavior like murder. You could test for intelligence. So you could then quarantine or imprison people a priori. Train people for careers a priori.
They tried that in the past, basing it on body types that are more prone to commit crimes. It failed because of the obvious, not everyone who is more prone than normal to do something or be a certain way will do it or be that way. That is one reason that most researchers in this area agree that it is a combination of nurture and nature that leads to our personality traits. The thing they tend to disagree on is the actual balance or amount of either one that contributes to each individual trait.
Well first of all, it's not going to be possible. But let's suppose that it was. Then you could test for criminal behavior like murder. You could test for intelligence. So you could then quarantine or imprison people a priori. Train people for careers a priori.
Sorry but you're totally off the mark with such analogy. If there is predisposition to acts like murder, that's all it is. Perhaps in the distant future they will be able to know someone is "55% likely to commit murder" and just lock them up like you say, but there's obvious environment factors.
That's totally different from traits we are born with. If someone is born autistic, i don't see why that couldn't be determined before birth. For example, i was born allergic to certain things, eye color, handedness etc. There was no choice involved.
First of all, you or no one else has been able to conclusively demonstrate that people are born autistic. So that's a flaw. But that aside, because I really don't want to waste time on that, engagement in sexual activity is a choice. Not only that but it is something that is affected by conditioning. That is not to say that persons are NOT born with innate behavior that makes them more or less inclined towards homosexual activity, because that is definitely the case. However, sexuality can be affected by environment and conditioning, and this can be very easily demonstrated by noting that it is not uncommon for persons, who enter the prison system that have previously engaged in strictly heterosexual sex activity, leave the prison system and engage in strictly homosexual sexual activity. That is a fact.
Actually, there is plenty of evidence to show that yes people are born more or less inclined toward sexual activity with a person of a particular sex. Sexuality is determined by both nature and nurture, including some genes having some influence on this.
There is a difference between participating in same sex sexual relationships and being homosexual. Sexuality is about attraction, not actions/behavior. That prisoner who had sex with a person of the same sex in prison is most likely going to have relationships with the opposite sex once released if they are heterosexual. It is how people can be homosexual and still enter into opposite sex marriages for a good portion of their life.
Yeah, they have.
I do not dispute that people are born with a predisposition to have sex with people of a particular sex. It is there in varying degrees. However, you are wrong if you believe that sexual preference is not affected by conditioning. And the example I gave demonstrates that.
No, it doesn't demonstrate that at all. In fact, most men and women in prison, despite popular belief do not engage in same sex sexual activities, with the possible exception of those who have LWOP because they aren't likely to get out to have sex with women.
Your assumptions on prisoners turning gay is simply unfounded. Most do not "turn" gay at all, even when they engage in same sex sexual relations while in prison.
This article makes the claim that "gay men" are more attuned parents than either sex of the heterosexual alone. Interesting?
I really don't want to hear it because I have seen it happen to people. Black males in particular have a very high incarceration rate. Not only do I say it, but people have looked at particular cases and found it to be true.
Your assumptions on turning gay are unfounded. People do not turn gay. What you have is varying degrees of preference or repulsion for a particular behavior, and it is something that can be affected by environment and conditioning. The results will vary depending on the nature of what is there to start with.
NOt really its closer to BS
Most do not even appear to "turn" gay. Those that might appear to do so have simply started from a more bisexual sexuality than they were aware.
As for you seeing it, it wasn't them becoming gay. Engaging in same sex sexual relations is not "gay". It is merely engaging in same sex sexual relations. Being gay/homosexual means actually being attracted to members of the same sex, not just choosing to have relationships with them. And I've provided research to back up what I've said. In some ways, it does depend on the specific prison environment.
Your position is contradictory. You want to say that sexuality is a matter of what you are attracted to, but at the same time you want to say people have attraction that they are not aware of. When you are attracted to something you know it.
People sometimes come to be disposed to sexual activity that they may previously had a repulsion for through conditioning and vice versa.
They are not contradictory. They can have attractions that they may not have been aware of or, more likely, were denying but that were there. Their activities however do not indicate their actual attractions.
The most telling evidence of prison not turning people gay or even bi is the fact that the vast majority of those who are proclaimed heterosexuals going into prison who are released from prison will go back into heterosexual relationships, longterm or just sexual after their release, even if they engaged in a good deal of same sex sexual activity while in prison.
First of all, you or no one else has been able to conclusively demonstrate that people are born autistic. So that's a flaw. But that aside, because I really don't want to waste time on that, engagement in sexual activity is a choice. Not only that but it is something that is affected by conditioning. That is not to say that persons are NOT born with innate behavior that makes them more or less inclined towards homosexual activity, because that is definitely the case. However, sexuality can be affected by environment and conditioning, and this can be very easily demonstrated by noting that it is not uncommon for persons, who enter the prison system that have previously engaged in strictly heterosexual sex activity, leave the prison system and engage in strictly homosexual sexual activity. That is a fact.
Yes the activity, just as homosexuals like my uncle can engage in hetero sex, is largely a choice. This is however referring to extremes where the opposite sex is absent, like in prison, or gay behavior being so stigmatized and hetero relationships being the only way to have kids (like for my uncle back then). That's not "conditioning" either but lack of other options. Those prisoners still are attracted to opposite sex and will go right back to sex with women after release, and my uncle was gay the whole time and is now living with a male partner now that his kids grew up and moved out. Orientation/sexuality doesn't change, only behavior can.
People know what they are attracted to. And you said that they have an attraction that they are not aware of. If that is indeed the case, then sexuality, at the very least, is more than a matter of what you are attracted to, because you can't say someone is attracted to something, until they are aware of it.
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