Because we have sex drives.
Yes we all do, There is a difference though the need to act upon it. Sex is an action. Some people value it some people dont. I might value playing video games or going on a debate website more than I value sex. My drive to do it might be greater but I dont ALWAYS act upon it even though I may be "craving" it or have a "drive" to it.
So its self control and accepting consequences. Something that seems to lack at parties, or while under the influence.
It's not a "cop-out". Now, society in the past has tried to shun sex as if it's a bad thing.
Why is it disturbing?
That's not true at all. Lots of people are more open when it comes to sexual stuff now, but that doesn't make sex any less "special" that it already is. It's certainly special to me.
I say cop out, as if we say its societies fault so there is nothing we can do about it... thats an excuse, we made our children, our children is our responsibility to guide them the best we can if you throw your hands up and say theres nothing I can do because its societies fault isnt that coping out?
Disturbing, the fact that we are adding a double negative within the same sentience, (Under Age, Abortion) should that not bother anyone? Underage drinking. Underage smoking, Underage riding a roller coaster. Underage has its consequences for a reason. So underage sex as a consequence is still a consequence.
As for society shunning sex. Yes totally agreed. Its a different society, but again you can still "respect" sex without having a consequence like abortion.
Maybe some people see it as a triumph, but who gives a **** if they do? People can view sex whoever they wish. I view it as an intimate bonding experience, but that's just me.
Yes yes yes! Totally agree, I am in no way saying that ones choice of sex is wrong. I feel if they are not treating it with the respect that it deserves as pregnancy is a potential by product of sex. If you are not responsible to care for a child in the event you become pregnant, why are you NOT (and when I say you, I mean other people) not taking precautions.
Not necessarily. Certain sex acts do not lead to pregnacy. And I've only ever had sex with a girl, so I'm definitely got nothing to worry about in the pregnacy department.
Yes yes, in my other post I noted that "Reproduction" is one facet and Sex has 2 facets, 1) for reproduction, 2) for self satisfaction there is a difference! Again you have made a choice, where you dont have to worry about the pregnancy department! separate from face 1) reproduction.
Thats my point. People all have free choice (with the exceptions that I will state below) but when it comes to "Consensual" sex everyone has a choice...
Darn it Governess, I have to quote all your responses HAHAAH!!! Ok let me try this =)
OK follow on.
1) I am not against abortions period. let me get that out of the way, There are just times that the choice has to be made..... much like adoption and so forth. The risk vs reward, and with human nature there are accidents that just happen.
2) there are non consensual situations where to me are justified
3) The health and safety is the grey area.... but I have always told my wife, I love her to death....my children are equally important, but without my wife, I could never have my beautiful children. In the event that both child and mother would die...... without my wife I could never have another child with the women I love?
Anyways....... I leave it to a couple responses. as this is getting long. Also Governess more power to you for looking at this topic so maturely!